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writes: Hi, I'm a 24 year old who doesn't fall in love easily, so was thrilled to find the man of my dreams nearly a year ago. Although I love him with all my heart, I find myself constantly questioning my feelings for him. This in turn makes me feel like a horrible person, as his feelings for me are absolute and unwavering. I don't want to ruin the best thing in my life because of pathetic negative thoughts - how can I make them stop? I did briefly discuss this with him, when it began - and he suggested that I may have slight masochistic tendancies (which I have to agree with!)- but have since reassured him that everything is fine. Reply to this Question
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reader, Becks +, writes (26 January 2006):
 hiya, tuff one mate but honesty is always the best policy especially withh deep emotions. It's so good that you have talked to him but maybe you are over worrying about love. Maybe because he is so sure of his feelings and is confident with them that this is causing you to second guess yourself, which as you say is making you feel horrible.If you are truely happy with your boyfriend then it will all come good. Try to focus on having a good time with him and enjoy being together instead of beating yourself up about small doubts, which everyone has, so don't be so hard on yourself.Try talking to him again if you feel that this will release some of the giult, he loves you so he will respect you and understand your honesty.all the best mate and i wish you lots of happiness becks x
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