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writes: I work in a office, and there is a girl who I find to be stunningly beautiful. I have noticed her looking at me on a few occasions. All I want to do is talk to her but I have no idea what to say or how to start a conversation. Any Ideas? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 January 2006): You have to learn to approach girls, why did it by trying in the street to walk up to strangers and say something randomly and kindly about finding a place for being intrigued by who they were and so on. Don't expect the conversation to last more than one minute, but learn from all the experiences. After walking up to lots of girls you will be confident. Read some online street dating guides from people you know there approach methods.
Perhaps she is just playing with you because you are inexperienced, or she genuinely likes you, or it's just office flirting. Figure it out and be ready for rejection.
Don't get too emotionally involved with stuff, when a really stunning girl looks at you knew have to get used to staring back as if she was any old person, just maintain eye contact is if you were watching your TV.
when you go up to her talk to her like you were putting on the kettle in your house, rather than planning a jungle expedition.
You have to learn that from experience, just tell her what ever suits the situation, if you're confident enough to tell her you have time after work and you are going to get bored perhaps she wants to come along.
Above all learn to be her friend and learn how to be friends with a really nice girls without expecting anything much.
What you can say to her is
" did I leave some photo copies in your area by mistake the other day?" don't say it necessarily like it makes any sense, just like the giant hint and the way to break the ice . Say things that don't necessarily make sense and are then change the subject if she gets confused.
" when I walk past I always wonder what that thing is on the table and have a look at one of the weird things she has on the table"
" excuse me, what tasks do you have with the switchboard/stationery/archive files/whatever she deals with and is there any time I should ask for anything?"
And then break the ice and so on without going on a jungle expedition.
Try to figure out approach stuff like that yourself
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reader, Becks +, writes (26 January 2006):
 Hiya i say go for it mate, be confident, just start by saying hi and smilin when you pass her desk, i'm sure she'll respond. Before you know it conversation will start maybe not straight away, but if you just make a point to let on to her when you see her the opportunity will arrise to start askin if she's had a nice weekend and all that good stuff. Best thing is don't worry too much about what you say, relax and make her smile. Best of luck be cool becks x
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reader, SaddenedAndMe +, writes (25 January 2006):
 Hey mate, try and find an excuse to talk to her. Perhaps you accidently ''have to talk to her''./ ;) Be kind and caring and things may blossom, oh and try not to come across as weird, might scare her, just gather up the courage, start a convo on something and be yourself!!
Good Luck!
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