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writes: Wanting my gf back, I need helpMy gf broke up with me just about 2 weeks ago. I don't know why but she just finished me. I think one major thing that happened a week before she split up with me was that a guy indecently exposed himself to her at college. She said she did nothing, but I suppose I gave the impression that I didn't trust her. One critical thing in the three months we went out was that I didn't trust her. I dunno why, but I just struggled to trust her even though I know she's a good person.I seen her today and we had fun and we made each other laugh in the 20 minutes we got together alone. I really want her back but I've been saying to myself that I'm over her.Plus another key bit of information was that I always struggled to have sex with her. We are both virgins but I could never seem to get it up to shag her. I feel she left me coz I couldn't perform. Also she said that she doesn't miss the new me, she misses the old me. She said that I changed when I was with her; however when I was speaking to her today the old me come back an we was laughing and joking again. I want her back but I know I can't ask her back. I asked her back last Tuesday saying I will change back but she said no again. I've been giving her space but I don't know what to do anymoreAnybody got any advice? coz I am so confused but I know inside that I really want her back.
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (26 January 2006):
 Just be friendly but leave the boyfriend/girlfriend aspect out of it. If she wants more than friendship, she'll let you know. Good luck!
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