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writes: I have been dating my boyfriend for about 8 months, and he is in the process of getting divorced, and up to now I have successfully avoided any contact with his ex-wife. This Friday I am attending a birthday where she will be there as well, and I will no one else but my ex-boyfriend. Any advice on how to deal with his ex? For the first months of our relationship she did everything in her power to screw it up, because she felt he moved on to fast, i just feel really uncomfortable about the situation. Any advice would help, thanks!
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (26 January 2006):
 I agree with Irish, be a class act. Hopefully it will set the tone for any future situations. Chin up and smile!
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 January 2006): In my opinion, it is time for you to find the strength and inner resources to behave like a lady and act as gracefully as possible at this party you attend. Be cool and detached. If the ex-wife gets out of line and tries to be behave badly, then it's up to your bf to rein her in and then you both can choose to quietly leave. Kind of a crappy situation..I know. But when you date someone, however, who has been previously married, you sometimes run into these uncomfortable situations. Good luck at the party and enjoy. Take care dear.
Hugs, irish
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