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writes: Hi, Im 20 years old and i attend a Trained School. I have developed a strong crush on My Teacher's Assiste. I know some people are going to read this think its wrong, but the way i see this is that i am 20. This man is fresh out of college and is helping our teacher out with a project that is linked to one of the universities around town. I have noticed that he is contsantly starring at me and he's always smiling when we talk and he goes out of his way to say hi to me or goodbye. It may seem like just a teacher's assiste being nice but there's something more to it. I would like to bring this to the next step. Do you think i should? Could we actually get in troble for this even if we keep it secret?
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 January 2006): The only problem could be if he is grading your work, or you could somehow gain preferential treatment at school as a result of a romance - then it could be an ethical matter.If this is not the case, and you are old enough to know not to mix business with pleasure (keep it out of the classroom!), then go for it!x all the best
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reader, x Chrissy x +, writes (25 January 2006):
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I really dont see how this could be of any harm. I dont think that you would get into trouble espically since you are 20. So my advice would be to go for it and see how it goes.
Good Luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 January 2006): I don't see how you would be in "trouble" for having feelings for this man. You are an adult. If you mean in the sense of teachers having love affairs with their students, then I don't think you have much to worry about in your situation.All I can suggest to you is to maybe try and talk to him casually, without being to direct. I'm assuming if he is fresh out of college, he isn't that much older than yourself. Is he married? In a relationship with someone else? Talk to him, you won't know until you try!It seems to me he may be interested in you as well. I wouldn't worry what others thought. If you let it pass by you may be giving up on something special!Good Luck! :)
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