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writes: I have been married for a little over 2 years. My husband is sweet, loyal, and there are things about him that I love, but I don't think I am in love with him. I have more fun out with the girls at the bar laughing, flirting,..etc. I am ashamed to say I have cheated on him a couple of times. I have tried to include him on our nights out, but he just sits there and doesn't even try to get in the conversations. When I am out with him and his friends I'm in the middle of everything making conversation even when I'm not interested in their conversations. I guess the more important part of all of this is that I just don't want to be married anymore. I'm starting to feel like a caged animal. The weird part is, he's a great guy, with a great family. I'm sure I'm the one with the problem, but how do I tell him I don't want this anymore, he (and the family) are expecting us to have kids soon, they all think we're the perfect couple (if they only knew what I have been up to the past 6 months that would not be the case-Let's just say my life makes Desperate Housewives look like Sesame street)In the end I guess my question is how do you leave a great guy who has done nothing wrong??
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reader, AL (Scotland)  +, writes (8 April 2008):
 Ask your self a question..'If I am wrong, and I walk away? If I full, who and what life will I end up in ?'
You need to talk once again, to each other, you have lost how to have fun with your husband, a night out, its fine, but stop the flirting..work on your marrage..you have one chance in life, if you blow it, its gone...no second re-run like the tv Desperate Housewives..
Take care...
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reader, candygirl3700  +, writes (8 April 2008):
Well, if your just not happy then your just not happy. I don't think people should be in a relationship where they aren't fulfilled it only makes you resentful in the end. I was in the same boat so I understand how you feel, I simply explained to my husband that I was unhappy and that I wanted out but still be friends. Before you do that give him the opportunity to know what you need and want then give him time to work on those issues. If you still feel the same way after that then it's time to move on. Please believe me it's better than leading someone on and your not happy.
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