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writes: well my boyfriend is not kissing me but when people ask us to kiss he does it but he looks at other girls in our school and we have been going out for 3 months now please help me make him come out of his shell what should i do i really dont want to brake up with him ?
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reader, chearfullcharlie +, writes (28 January 2006):
 Girl brake up with him!! I no it sounds bad but its like hes ashamed to be seen kissing you..and even if he wosnt he should NOT be looking at other girls...if he were mine ad of slaped him silly n stamped on him!:D Just wait and see him crawling back to you n no matter how much you want to make him sweat a lil bit n have a blast with your girlies and show him wot hes missing out on! good luck suga ! x
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reader, Dawnest +, writes (15 January 2006):
Its possible he is uncomfortable having such close contact with a person and finds kissing yeuck! Many people do get put off at sharing saliva and that phobia is not limited to just him. You seem to get on well as friends so why not just enjoy chumming around. He might one day surprise you and decide you're nice to kiss, but making an issue of it will merely turn him off even more to the idea.
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reader, purrfectionist84 +, writes (15 January 2006):
 Breaking up with him sounds like the best option here.
He only kisses you when people ask him to? What on earth?! Are you in a dating relationship, or a talent show? Kissing is something that's supposed to be shared between two people who care for each other...because they want to kiss, not because someone asked them to. He's just kissing you in public to show off. If he's perfectly capable of kissing you in public, then there are no excuses why he can't kiss you more often at other times which are, hopefully, more private.
And what's the deal with him looking at other girls? He isn't shy about that, now is he? If he has wandering eyes this early on in the relationship, then it's definitely NOT a good sign. He's supposed to be focused on making a good impression, but he lacks self-control and is being a bit of a pig, eh?
Kick him to the curb.
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