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writes: I really fancy a girl I work with, however we're both in relationships. However we get on really well and she's said that if I left work she would leave also, maybe she just likes me though.My question is this: when we're out at a works do we'd both had a lot to drink and I said to her "if you wern't in a relationship would you go out with me? she replied very quickly (almost without thinking it seemed) saying no you're too short for me! There was no awkwardness though, but would she of said yes if that was what she thought, did she say no really just because things would be too compicated if she said yes? Is ther any hope? we're in our 30's. Thanks
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reader, purrfectionist84 +, writes (16 January 2006):
 If you're dissatisfied in your current relationship, then do yourself a favor and break things off with your girlfriend. It'll kill two birds with one stone: end an unhappy relationship, and open you up to the possibility of dating other women. Plus, it's the considerate thing to do, for your girlfriend's sake.
But don't stay in your current relationship, only to let your eyes wander and ask yourself, "What if?" There won't be much hope of you dating other women, anyway, if they know you're already in a relationship. Classy women don't go dating men who are already taken.
Maybe this girl just likes you as a friend, and maybe she likes you as something more. Who knows. You can ask her again, and see if her answer is more clear. But remember that, in order for something to develop between you two, you should both break off your current relationships FIRST. There are no guarantees that she likes you enough, or is unhappy enough in her current relationship, to end things with her guy and go out with you. Maybe she is just being friendly and a bit of a flirt. Maybe not. In any case, you risk rejection, so be prepared.
Best of luck.
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