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writes: I am seeking advice on how to get my exfiance back. We dated back in high school and parted ways after graduation. 13 years later she called me up and we got back together. For 4 years we dated regularly and eventually got engaged and built a new home together. The stress of building a new home was very tough on us and we also had different views on our children (we each had 2). We've been apart for about a year now and she has apparently met someone new that she appears to happy with. I have never stopped caring for her and would like very much to get back together. Is there a sure fire way to rekindle a relationship with an ex.
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reader, purrfectionist84 +, writes (16 January 2006):
 Your ex-fiance is currently with someone who she appears to be happy with. Can't you just let them be? It's incredibly selfish of you to seek a "surefire way to rekindle a relationship" with her when she has clearly moved on and found happiness elsewhere. You're thinking of yourself here, and not her.
If you two were serious about making things work once and for all, then surely you would have done anything necessary to make your relationship work the second time around, after 13 years apart. If the stresses of building a new home and raising four children were too much for you two to overcome before, then what makes you think things would be any different if you got back together?
I think that it's time to move on: get yourself out there, meet other women, etc.
Best of luck.
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