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writes: Help! i like this girl but i don't know if she likes me back.I'm 17, and i've known this girl for about 4 years. At first, I started hanging out with her brother in hopes of getting to know her better, It worked as far as her coming into the room where we were and talking to me and stuff, and even awimming in their pool. But that is as far as it got. Now i really really like her, and have stopped hanging out with her brother and tried to move in on her. Since her parents are friends with mine, whenever there's somekind of gathering, we always hang out. But recently, i've tried asking her out to see a movie, but she keeps saying she's grounded or she's busy. I don't know what to do, and i don't know if she likes me.. what should I do? Reply to this Question
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reader, happytochat  +, writes (15 January 2006):
That isn't a kind way. The kind and respecful thing to do would be to simply tell them, don't make up exuses leaving them wondering whether or not she really is into him or not. What shes doing is giving him false hope, now you can't tell me thats nice? Im sure here intentions were good, but the result isnt all that great is it!
Ok, it sounds to me she doesnt have those special feelngs for you :( but dont worry, that doesnt mean your a horrible person! Im sure your a great person, she just doenst see it! Find someone who will. im sure there are pleeeenntty of girls out there dying to be with you :)
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reader, Dawnest +, writes (15 January 2006):
take the hint darling!
She doesn't want to go out with you and is telling you in the kindest possible way.
focus your attentions on someone who is attracted to you and stop wasting your time with this lady. She is clearly not interested in having a thing with you.
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