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writes: I think i've got a problem, I get bored too easily and it makes me ruin my perfectly good relationships. When i was with my boyfrend, a while back we didnt hardly speak but i liked him because he kept me on my toes and i never knew what mood he would be in next. bu then someone else come along and i had to have a bit of him and then i made a mistake and ive done that so many times. But now i have the perfect man hes soo perfect for me hes nice funny i cant talk to him loads but we get on so much its like were best friends and we never aruge or anything and i know its stupid. now someone else is asking me to meet up with him and i want to go because its exiting but i know i will be making a mistake wot can i do
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reader, purrfectionist84 +, writes (16 January 2006):
 You've already made the first step by acknowledging the problem. Now, you just have to keep reminding yourself of how you feel about your boyfriend (you say he's the perfect man for you!), and that you're going to lose him if you get together with the other guy. You must weigh the pros and cons, here. What's better: losing your perfect man in exchange for a little short-lived excitement, or keeping your perfect man and just spicing things up with him a bit?
You'll never have a "normal" relationship if you have wandering eyes and can't stay committed. With this in mind, is the grass really greener on the other side? Hmm?
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