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writes: 3 years ago,came to me a girl from florida while i was online in the yahoo messenger.asked me to open the cam , then i asked her to send me her pic first, and i insisted ,then she sent me her ,and she was little upset , when she saw me she liked me!we chatted , every one of us talked about his past relationships , but she was talk more frankly about sex experience with her ex, i got the impression that she is bad since she talk frankly to a stranger from the first time. she noticed that and got angry.as the time pass she got away from me came in few times online , unfortuanately i liked her,called me once ,but sometimes i feel that someone in the same room where she was chatting from is doing her! when she left mewhen i came to u.s this year,from abroad she found me again by coincidence ,she is 25 and i am 30 , she talked about marraige, babies and told me she is alone in this life, yet i felt that she is with some one else cause she was trying not to call me directly after that chat. i always feel that wize there after when she try to avoid call me in certain time, ever since then she disappear and called me whenever she wants, when she started to call me more frequently, started to talk sex on phone, i felt she is the one with multi partner sex relationships, this scared me , and i refuse to meet her, she told she got hurt , and dissapeared for a while and problems happened to me there after, i felt guilt , depressed , for mor than 2 months , i went to her city with roses she refused to meet me, lied at me that she is not in town,i felt she is living with someone else.but she was always denying and pretend to be so angry if i asked her. she then acted as if she is no longer mad a t me and promise me to meet soon , i wanted from her to live with me but she didnt accept,she promised for dates and didnot come!behave with me roughly, hanging up with me , let me always feel while she is calling me that somebody with her or waiting for her to f**k her! and thats hurt me so muchshe never answer my call,sometimes when i call her and hang uo with me i feel i am burning in my place , i told her, lately told me a big lie about a story that her friend ( a strip dancer ) had an accident and thats why she cant meet me soon, then before the schedule date she claims that she had to travel to spain to settle her there for 24 hours , then she didnt come to me untill now,then she admitted to me that she is doing wrong things but she denyed that she is in the u.s, she said she is still in Spain!, she lied i got her i.p in one e-mail and she was talking from florid!!i told her all my complains my sorrow and anger , in the last call of her last thursday this augest,she said to me we can stay together cuz we hurt each other and cuz she hurt me and she let me sick and about to kill me while she was crying ,and she said "i got to go" ,as if some one ,a boy wait for her to sleep with her, and that was about to kill me really!.she didnt said that you cannot sleep with me thu which is not meant to be like this from what she said to me in the begining neither after i beleived he and she fooled me!my feeling and all indicators point that she is living at least with one boy if she is not sleeping with most propably with multi partners, and f**k around from dick to dick, but i havent met her yet!i am still depressed and shocked, all this period of time despite all these considerations and all these proofs that she lied at me and fooled me -but she always keep saying that she love me ,ha ha ha,- my brain finds difficulty to admit of this fact, and still remember her,this girl is so horney a phone sex addictive, my question : what do u think dear cupid? and i am so afraid from that she further come to me in the future and hurt me and fool me again cuz i was very attractive and crazy for her, and thats why i was closing my eyes before all these bitter painful facts !!??
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 August 2006): I think you both have "desperate" and "needy" written all over you and any kind of relationship between you both is going to be an utter disaster.
You seem irrationally crazy to want to pursue this relationship. You either need to get her out of your life right away or find a therapist, and quick.
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reader, camille  +, writes (23 August 2006):
 Forgive my bluntness but don't contact this woman and don't reply to her if she contacts you. You haven't even met her. You sound VERY judgemental of her. You don't know her at all and it's very strange that you are quick to talk about her having sex (constantly) with other people. How do you know that? If you were talking about sex with her what did you expect though? Is it because she sounds like she has more experience? Leave her alone, she's obviously not the right wpman for you. Maybe you should stay away from women on the internet and try to get out and meet people.
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