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writes: when me and my boyfriend have sex, after i orgasm i feel like i don't want to do it anymore and i feel like maybe i only like him for sex or something but then after he is done, i was attached to him again. I'm confused. Is this normal?
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reader, b boy +, writes (23 August 2006):
you probabley just feel tired and dont feel satisfied with you being the only one being satisfied then when he is satisfied you probeley feel whole again you are probably just a person who feels happy with someone being satisfied and made to feel good so i think its totaly normal because all people are different in how they feel in the bedroom so mabe you should let him orgasm first then you, it may make you feel different about it and happier
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reader, Ferooza +, writes (23 August 2006):
dear reader,
this is perfectly normal! as we tend to dry up after we orgasm. you are not alone in thinking this as i myself have the same problem. if it starts affecting your sex life just remember intercourse is not the only way to help your partner into climaxing. other methods are quite welcoming. trust me he will appreciate it more!!!
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reader, xxxsoulsistaxxx  +, writes (23 August 2006):
 This is normal, yes, as the orgasm is supposed to be the conclusion, so to speak. This will obviously come at the end for the man and sometimes for the women, but we can carry on as normal after we have cummed. However, once our bodies have been satisfied, they start to feel that it's over and you will probably be willing your guy to come soon too!
This is nothing to worry about and it doesn't mean you only want him for sex. Imagine if you asked him to carry on once he'd had an orgasm! He would just laugh! That doesn't mean he only wants you for sex, it's just the bodies way of completing the act and it's hard for it to do it again straight after.
This is normal and you should be glad you can come at all. Many women cannot come from having sex, so think yourself lucky!
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