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writes: My husband left me 10 weeks ago. Now his girlfriend wants to meet to discuss what happened and how we all move forward.My husband moved in with her for 3 days and moved home. He is constantly telling me how much he misses me etc, and how his new relationship is not easy. What does she want from me? I have moved on and I'm feeling strong and happy
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reader, Nay920 +, writes (23 August 2006):
first and for most he is a coward for leaving you then coming back thinking that he is going to get back with you because the woman he left you for is getting on his nerves. If you really love him them you will forgive him i wouldnt but its really up to you.Good luck
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reader, xxxsoulsistaxxx  +, writes (23 August 2006):
 Your husband is messing you around and I don't even think he knows what he wants. He obviously has second thoughts about leaving you for her and still wants to keep you hanging. But you are moving on and you need to continue to move forward.
This man wants his cake and to eat it too. He want his new life and new girlfriend but won't let you move on, he fears you may end up happy without him. Don't allow him to waste anymore of your precious time, keep moving forward and forget about him.
Next time he tells you how he feels, tell him how you feel. Tell him you're moving on and don't want him to speak like that again. You need to tell him straight or he is going to keep trying to mess you around like this forever.
As for his girlfriend, she's probably trying to ease her own guilt for stealing your husband. Leave them to it, they seem to be perfectly suited. Get on with your life which is better now he's out of it.
Good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 August 2006): Hey anonymous
I think it's really common when someone goes through a breakup that the one who done the hurting, and causes the splitting up, is usually the one who eventually falls apart wanting forgiveness etc.
I would say, if you are happy, strong (well done by the way), do not wish to save your marriage, then do not meet up with his girlfriend. Also, why are you allowing your husband to moan and winge about his new life? It's his girlfriends job to take on that burden - not yours. I see this commonly reoccuring behaviour by men on here- they seem to love having another women to moan about how crap their life is!
If you want to save this marriage, then maybe meeting her is a good idea. But, you need to find out what your husband really wants. Again, you don't want to stay in this position of being the one that listens to him moaning. I bet this is how he was with his now girlfriend, but instead he would moan about you.
Good luck whatever you decide to do.
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