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writes:My partner of three and half years left me because she had lost that loving feeling, how she felt changed and she didnt have the spark anymore. Our relationship had ups and downs, but we did have a great love once, and this year we had a baby together but she did not want me anymore and I think lost faith in how we could be together. The hurtful thing for me is since baby was born i have given the life she wanted, coupleness, closeness, giving love, giving help, being selfless, being caring and understanding etc and had fixed and really fixed what had caused us problems in the past but alas, when it had happened in the past, it killed her love. At the end we were trying and making life work if not love, but she snogged (at least) someone else, i found out next day, that was the end of our relationship. She went to stone, "its over and that is that, too much gone on in the past, this has all been too late, you hurt me before when you were not caring etc enough and i cant get over that despite how good life is now etc"I have left her alone a few days and will continue to do so, as if anything is to come, it has to come from within her on its own free will.I know i must move on, but hope will not die, hope that she will see things were not so bad, that life was proving to be good etc and worth saving, that it right for our child, that maybe she can overcome past resentments etc, absence may make the heart grow fond again, she may miss what i provided, etc etc. I know this is highly unlikely, but anyone got experience of this happening, think it may happen?
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 August 2006): She can if she wills herself to. It sounds like she is one unhappy and lost individual. Pregnancy just sped up the process of self doubt and self loathing.
I say move on and keep a place in your heart for her as she is the mother of you child.
You did what she could and in the end it takes two to make a relationship and only one to say good bye.
*hugs*
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