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writes: am i gay? i am 19 im attracted to guys and love having sex with guys but i keep havin lesbian fantasies and it turns me on to watch lesbian porn but im not attracted to girls, i am so confused.....
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reader, natalieejanex  +, writes (12 February 2011):
 you answered your own question. its a sexual fantasy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 August 2006): wanna no what i think, if u r atracted to guys, u r gay, but if lesbian porn exites u, that means some lvl of ur concience still likes girls... if i where u i would try to reinforce that
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 August 2006): I'm the same. I'm 100% straight but also enjoy lesbian porn. Yes, watching lesbian porn with your boyfriend is a great idea. You both get to enjoy it that way.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 August 2006): no i dont think your gay because im exactly the same!!! Im 100% straight, the furthest i would ever go with a girl would be to kiss them when messing about, but i can only get turned on by lesbian porn. porn with a straight couple actually normally turns me off and i dont know why.
The fact that you said your not attracted to girls suggests that your not bisexual or gay so dont fret about these fantasies and just use them to enjoy yourself and to ur advantage (most guys prefer lesbian porn so perhaps try it with ur b/f???)
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 August 2006): Got to love how the porn industry promotes uncertainty and self doubt and self loathing in your sexual orientation.
I say that you are just another woman that finds the female figure more appealing and may stem from your childhood and your relationship or lack of one with your mother.
You like the idea of being with someone you consider an equal in body, mind and so you feel less threatened.
In the end, if you were plopped in some lesbians boudoir, you would freeze up.
Just a fantasy that doesn't need exploring.
Not all questions in this life were meant to be answered.
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reader, snowbird  +, writes (23 August 2006):
 You could be just empathising, and imagining it happening to you, as most women know that nobody knows a woman's body like a woman does (obviously), so she is bound to know exactly how and where to touch, etc.. it does'nt nesessarily mean you are a lesbian.
We all fantasise about things we would never dream of doing - I, for instance feel sexy if a man grasps my hair in his passion, but if he were to pull it, that would really turn me off and frighten me a little - So it could be just a fantasy, and whatever you fantasise about, at the end of the day you can make it happen - or not. The choice is yours!
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reader, destined for happiness +, writes (23 August 2006):
It's normal to feel this way. Women are beautiful and the sensual gender. Just because you think someone is attractive doesn't make you gay or a lesbian. You should have no problem saying that a chic is hot and attractive without being confused about it.
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reader, uonlyliveonce +, writes (23 August 2006):
 your not attracted to girls but you have lesbian fantasies?? you need to think that through your confused but we cant tell you wether your bisexual or not only you know that. would you have sex with a girl if you had the chance or do you like the idea that it pleases men seeing lesbians. its ok 2 be confused it'll all come together eventually just dont keep denyingyourself of something if its what you realy want. its nothing to be ashamed of to be bi. x x x
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reader, guardian87  +, writes (23 August 2006):
 Just because your turned on by lesbian sex doesn't mean that you are one. sometimes deciding whether your straight, bisexual, or gay is about how u feel about them not only physically but emotionally as well. i have seen girls do wild things in my life with each other but still be straight. For now, try not to think about it so much so you can clear your head a littlest confusing things aren't really such a big fuss once your thinking more clearly.
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reader, Helen1986 +, writes (23 August 2006):
 It is fine and perfectly normal. I have the same thing I am 100% Hetrosexual but I always fantasized over women and lesbian sex. One day I got so fed up and really had to do something about it, so I went to a gay bar and met this attractive lesbian. We went back to her place and began kissing. I went down on her and was down there for about five minutes. I felt nothing I was not turned on one bit. I jumped up appologised and ran out of her house. I tried it to find out
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