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writes:my boyfriend and his best mate are really close there together all the time and class eachother as brothers. i was at my boyfriends house over the weekend while his mum an dad where away and we had a party and i got pretty drunk and ended up in bed with his best mate but insted of goin to sleep we ended up talking, then kissing then started having sex, my boyfriend ended up walking in on us and i thought he would have gone mad but instead he got in bed with us and started kissing me while his mate was fingering me and we had sex together.i did enjoy it but im confused did he do this just because he was drunk or is he bisexual or sumthing??isnt it weird doing wumthing like that with your best friend?
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reader, Helen1986 +, writes (23 August 2006):
 I think that you and your boyfriends best mate are the ones in the wrong. Why would you do that to someone you are supposed to care about? Your boyfriend has probably lost a lot of respect for you now and who could blame him? When he walked in I expect he was shocked but then he might have thought if these two can do this to me then why don't I join in and get some pleasure out of it. I guarantee that your relationship isn't how it used to be is it? Your boyfriend is not gay or bisexual and it is perfectly normal to have threesomes. I suggest you sit down with your boyfriend have a nice long talk to find out where your relationship is going. Because to me it looks like you both really don't care about eachother because if that were my boyfriend walking in on me and his best friend he would of gone mad, not join in.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 August 2006): I think it sounds like a set up too.
I think setups of this kind are more common than is commonly thought. I've known a couple of situation (that I might add I was not involved in) where this kind of thing happened. Maybe you should delve in to this with your boyfriend and see what his reaction is?
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 August 2006): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni got in bed with his mate because my boyfriend was talking to his other mates downstairs and so i just got in bed with his mate to talk to him for a while coz i was still a bit drunk, we've stayed in eachothers beds few times before while staying at eachothers house and my bf knows about it but nothing ever happened between us before we were just friends.i dont think he planned it he usually gets really jealous if im around other lads a threesome would be kind of thing i would suggest but not him ive said it jokeingly before and he's always said no. and they didnt kiss eachother but they were touching eachother quite a bit which is what i found really weird at first.im bisexual myself so i feel kinda bad because i feel like its ok for me to be bi but not him coz thats just weird. which sounds pretty selfih i suppose
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reader, David Lewis +, writes (23 August 2006):
 Well, it all seems to have been planned to me. It sems like your boyfriend had planned a threesome with his mate.
As for him being bi, did the 2 guys actually have sexual contact.
I am curious as to how you and his mate ended up in bed together in the first place, why did you not get in bed with your boyfriend?
Many guys have fantasies about a threesome, although most would not carry it out.
How have you all reacted since this happened?
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