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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

After telling me she "needs space", my girlfriend wants me to hang in there and wait for her!

This question has 52 answers - newest was posted 1154 days ago

29 November 2005 (M) - Please help with this confusion. I've been with my girlfriend for over a year now and she just recently moved out because she needed some time and space to take a break. She works three to ten days a month and I have a normal M-F, 8-5 type job, and because of this she felt I ... (311 words)

He's engaged to another but says I am his soulmate...and I have strong feelings for him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6059 days ago

29 November 2005 (F) - A guy I have worked with for the past year told me that he liked me and he thought i was his soulmate. The problem is that he is engaged to be married to another woman. I have very strong feelings for him.I want to tell him not to marry her! I am 33 yrs old and he is only 20 ... (91 words)

My ex-lover is back on the scene, now that I'm over 18... and she's angling to get me back!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6961 days ago

29 November 2005 (F) - I am now an 18 year old female and in my last year of sixth form. I had a relationship with my 33 year old female teacher which started in August 2004 till September 2005. My parents found out about it and put a stop to it. The police decided it wasn't criminal and the... (277 words)

I feel like I have a lot of problems, but no one to talk about them with...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6961 days ago

29 November 2005 (F) - Every normal girl can talk to someone. Their mum or their dad or even their sister. Not me. My dad is lovely though. I accidentally wind him up a bit. My sister is only kind to me when she's not on MSN or with her friends or basically never. My brother died and through that ... (372 words)

She thinks her vagina is icky-so how do I convince my girl, to let me perform oral sex on her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6961 days ago

29 November 2005 (M) - i want to please my girlfriend, but she thinks that i wouldn't like going down on her because she thinks that its slimy and therefore icky... is there any way i can convince her that i would enjoy it and that she would too?... (44 words)

Does my gf have feelings for my best friend in prison? How do I know for sure what's going on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6956 days ago

29 November 2005 (M) - Dear Cupid, My ex and I dated for about 4 years but about a month ago she broke up with me because I accused her several times of having feelings for my best friend who is currently incarcerated in a Illinois State Prison. I didn't want to or mean to accuse her but I have t... (141 words)

I want to ask him out... but I'm scared that he'll say no!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6648 days ago

29 November 2005 (F) - To put it short, guys never ask me out, and there is this guy. We smile at each other a lot but he never really talks. My mate keeps telling him to talk to me which makes it worse. But I really, really like him and have done for a while now. I don't wanna ask him out because ... (74 words)

She said my bf cheated with her. He denied it... but wouldn't agree to confronting her with me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6950 days ago

29 November 2005 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and 8 months. I was surfing this website one day and I wanted to see if he was on it too. It turned he was. I clicked on the person he had in his friend's list. While reading the things she posted, I found his name. She said he ... (271 words)

I am involved with someone else...but my ex bf wants me to take him back. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6961 days ago

29 November 2005 (F)

- I asked a question on what to do when I saw my boyfriend was making life a living hell for me. Now he's back telling me he's sorry and that I should take him back. The problem now is that, I have someone else and I don't know if I still have feelings for my ex-boyfriend. what ... (60 words)

Two men in my life...which do I choose?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6351 days ago

29 November 2005 (F) - I love 2 men and dont know what to do. Mike has been my boyfriend for the past 3 years on and off. There is 16years difference between us and he is an alcoholic. We have been through a lot and he is constantly letting me down. I love him and if he turned around tomorrow and ... (284 words)

I just want him to talk to me...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6962 days ago

29 November 2005 (F) - My bf is studying intensely before a major set of exams 2-3 wks from now. My parents are visiting next wk and have wanted to meet him (never have before). Previously, my bf had agreed - even seemed interested to meet my parents. Today I made a career decision that, in the pas... (259 words)

What signals shows that a girl likes you?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6173 days ago

29 November 2005 (M) - How do you no when a girl likes you? What sort of signals do they give? How can i tel if they are playing or flirting.... (26 words)

I lied about my age...what do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6052 days ago

29 November 2005 (M) - I am engaged to a wonderful 23-year old girl. I was married once before and have two young daughters from that marriage that she has become very close with. Well, at the time that I met her a year ago I was in a semi-successful music group that was being looked at by major ... (208 words)

Tell me when to worry about porn...

This question has 29 answers - newest was posted 6880 days ago

29 November 2005 (F) - How often is too often for a man who's been in a relationship for three years to watch adult movies? When should girlfriends be concerned and when to break up...after watching porn do men wish they had more than they do...can it eventually lead to cheating??? What is ... (55 words)

Can you be in love with someone yet cheat on them?

This question has 37 answers - newest was posted 2624 days ago

29 November 2005 (F) - Is it possible for a bloke to cheat on his wife/ fiance and still be in love with her? Can you still be in love with someone and cheat on them?... (31 words)

We became lovers but then she went back to her boyfriend...help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6961 days ago

29 November 2005 (M) - A friend of mine split with her boyfriend, i was there for her and we became closer, and eventually lovers. Her boyfriend then came back, asked her to marry her and she accepted. I'm very happy for her, but can't get her out of my head - the problem's worse because we work ... (55 words)

He is affectionate and touches me...does he like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6950 days ago

29 November 2005 (F) - i have started to like my m8s boyfriends brother who is single- we have becum good m8s the last couple of months- we txt sumtimes but he hates the fone he barely uses it- im always the one to txt 1st- wen we see each other the weekend u no when every1 goes out- we are ... (164 words)

Should we be together if he wants to watch so many adult movies?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6866 days ago

29 November 2005 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for three years, we broke up for a couple months and now we are tring to work things out. I came back into the relationship with a problem I didn't have before. I know men do this frequently, but I don't know how much is too much and how it will ... (155 words)

We fight over our collective future. We patch things up, but then we do it all again!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6961 days ago

29 November 2005 (M) - Hi, I hope someone can help me out. My girl-friend and I have been in a relationship for many years now. A major problem in our relation is that we fight a lot, mainly about the future. She wants to concentrate on marriage etc while I want to concentrate on my career first ... (153 words)

The man who keeps telling me he loves me keeps dumping me for his "friend"!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6962 days ago

29 November 2005 (F) - I've started dating a guy about 5 months ago. When I met he told me about a friend that he had for 4yrs...a friend that he had been having sex with. She was in love with him but he wasn't in love with her. That she understood their relationship and understood that he didn't ... (1409 words)

Is it right for me to want to get back with my ex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6737 days ago

29 November 2005 (F) - Hi there, recently my ex, who i had a 2 year relationship with, came back into my life after a year without talking because his girlfriend had ended with him. We had a lovely time and we got on very well, ive offered to be his shoulder to cry on and he accepted. Recently he ... (141 words)

We had so much fun but then he said he didn't want to be with me...what do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6962 days ago

29 November 2005 (F) - I was with a guy for just over 2 months, we had the most amazing time together! I knew he felt the same and we laughed, joked, cuddles and kissed whenever we saw eachother. He told me he was falling for me, his parents loved and and his friends thought I was great... he had not ... (196 words)

I want to be with her...what should I do so we don't miss this chance?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6959 days ago

29 November 2005 (M) - I can not stop thinking about a girl who I have become very close friends with. We talk every day, at length, and it seems so right. I have told her how I feel, and her response was that she is attracted to me, but having just got out of a recent relationship cannot promise ... (81 words)

Does he want me or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6962 days ago

29 November 2005 (F) - hiya i have a problem. im 16 an i asked this other 16 year old boy out and he said no cos he fancied someone else. then a few weeks later he asked me out cos he said he was fed up wiv chasin the other girl around all the time. now we r girl friend and boyfriend but i am not s... (155 words)

I kissed a girl and now my boyfriend wants a threesome!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6931 days ago

29 November 2005 (F) - My partner of 3 years has been living in america for work over the past 18 months. I've seen him 3 times in that time and we talk everyday. At a party me and my best friend (girl) were very drunk and kiss and fooled around when we realised what was happening we giggled and ... (126 words)

My girlfriend has been sleeping with my grandfather!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6932 days ago

29 November 2005 (M) - I am 18 and my girlfriend is 16. Recently I found out she has been sleeping with my grandfather, and I feel so disgusted. What should I do?? Jason... (36 words)

How do I get over this break up?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6545 days ago

29 November 2005 (F) - I'm trying to get my head around being dumped. My now ex boyfriend and i were together for quite a few months and i loved him inside out. I knew he had problems from the start with alchol as i had heard from his friends about last christmas him spending over £1500 in the pub on ... (318 words)

Can my dad put my boyfriend in jail?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6945 days ago

29 November 2005 (F) - I am 16 and my boyfriend is 19 and we have been dating for 3 years ... and i want to move in with him when i am 17..what do i do if my dad says he will put him in jail for me not being a virgin? can he do that if we have been together for 3 years?... (63 words)

My husband spends time with our female friends without me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6961 days ago

29 November 2005 (F) - My husband goes out and spends time with our female single friends with out me, at night for hours. I am not a jealous type but they show him the sexy underwear they buy and fawn all over him. Is it fair for me to be upset with them for crossing some serious boundries and with ... (60 words)

Does she really care enough to want me back?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6072 days ago

29 November 2005 (M) - I had a relationship with this girl,she told me one day,its over and i said "cool" even though i was hurt inside.She dated another guy but she has left her recenlty.she is now sending sms's and emails telling me she still cares.i realy still love her but how do i know if she ... (71 words)

How do I get my ex-girlfriend to understand that we have a future

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6962 days ago

29 November 2005 (M) - Hi. My X-Girlfriend and I have been going out for nearly three years. I was her first boyfriend and she was my second. Our relationship, as it has started when we were rather young (16) has seen both of us change considerably. Over the years, I have matured very significant... (795 words)

We broke up but can we be together again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6948 days ago

29 November 2005 (F) - About 8 years ago, the father of my youngest son decided that 'there was no future for us together', this was after a 7 year relationship. Since then he has had some serious medical issues that he has been dealing with and i think has now resolved. He has also had several ... (137 words)

We aren't ready for children but what if she is pregnant?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6962 days ago

29 November 2005 (M) - My girlfriend was two days late on her period last month, but she did menstruate. This still left me wondering though, because she is on birth control, and we have been able to time her periods almost to the minute. She is very regular. Anyways. She messaged me today saying ... (156 words)

How do I get back with him again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6962 days ago

29 November 2005 (F) - Im confused. My boyfriend of one year and i recently split. There was no real reason why we broke up - it was more of a spare of the moment decision out of anger over a stupid fight. Trouble is, now i deeply regret breaking up with him. We still see each other regulary and ... (93 words)

How do I find out if he is committed to me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6962 days ago

29 November 2005 (F) - I've been going out with my boyfriend for just over a year, but recently I haven't been happy with the relationship. And recently he cancelled on me to go climbing with a girl who's just a 'good friend' of his. I amn't worried he'll actually cheat, but I am worried he's ... (88 words)

Could my friend be interested in me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6959 days ago

29 November 2005 (F)

- A guy that I'm just friends with was telling me a whole bunch of stories from when he was in highschool. I was curious to know when these events occured so I innocently asked him when he graduated from highschool. Well it turned out to be the same year that I was born! When I ... (153 words)

I love my girlfriend...but very intrigued with her best friend

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5984 days ago

29 November 2005 (M) - I am 16 years old and i love my girlfriend very much. But recently I'm feeling strange about her best friend. I think I might be in love with her too. What do I do? I feel like my girlfriend could be my soul mate but then I'm intrigued by the best friend...... (53 words)

Our sex life has all but disappeared! How can we improve the intimacy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6962 days ago

29 November 2005 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been dating for about 10 months and our sex life has all but disappeared. I am very troubled by this because we were friends before we started dating and she used to tell me openly about her sex life with former boyfriends. She claims to have not even ... (117 words)

My cousin's in love with me...and she's only 12!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6954 days ago

29 November 2005 (M) - I think my 12 year old cousin's in love with me... how do i tell if she really is and what do i do about it?... (26 words)

My husband wants a DNA test done on our child-I feel humiliated!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6962 days ago

29 November 2005 (F) - What should I do if my husband goes ahead with a DNA test? Based on a joke years ago, now my husband wants to do a DNA test on our child. I feel a biggest insult/humiliation in my life. I know I can not prevent him to do the test. But if he goes ahead, I don't think our ... (79 words)

My bf's mate is so hot and I'm tempted to cheat.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6962 days ago

29 November 2005 (F) - Ok. my boyfriend doesn't pressure me to have sex, we're rather content in our relationship, I'm VERY infatuated with him, but his friend and I are more in sync, I really have the hots for this friend, he understands me, he's hot and he's really sweet. I'm tempted to cheat with ... (74 words)

He's never said he loves me-is there a way to find out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6955 days ago

29 November 2005 (F) - Does he love me or not? I'm 25, bf 24. We're in grad school together, dating for 10 mos (incl 3 long-distance, while he was in Eur. over the summer and I in NY), friends 4 mos before dating. I've had 2 very serious relationships, both of which lasted about two years and ha... (741 words)

We're still engaged but his family doesn't like me-part II

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6963 days ago

29 November 2005 (F) - Continued from NOV. 28..."we're engaged but his family doesn't like me"....Yes, he has problems with his sister and dad. The thing is that his sister knew my brother, my brother drank and everything, so she thinks that I am like my brother. I can't stand my brother to tell ... (152 words)

My bf lies, he cheats and he's selfish-how do I get him to change for the good?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6468 days ago

29 November 2005 (F) - Hi I am a 24 year old mother of one.I am in a relationship that is going through many problems.My boyfriend is more about himself then anybody else.He has lied to me so many times in the past one particular time involving another female.I am a very attractive woman and I am all ... (301 words)

Everyone tells me to just move on and get over her-I've tried but I can't!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6963 days ago

29 November 2005 (M)

- Hi About a month ago i asked for help on how to show my girlfriend that i love her, since then she's split with me, and the countless times i've tried to rebuild our relationship she's just chucked it back at me. I know everyone says you should move on because your young bu... (160 words)

His Mom blames me for problems she caused. What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6951 days ago

29 November 2005 (F) - I am 15 years old and my boyfriend is 18. His mom likes me sometimes, but then will call and say she dosen't want me near him anymore. She blames me for things that she has actually caused. The only time I can talk to him is when he can sneak a call. I really care about this ... (63 words)

My duaghter's unhappy and crying about her relationship. Should I help?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6962 days ago

29 November 2005 (F)

- I have a 22yr old daughter living 1000km away, with her boyfriend. They are having major relationship problems, she comes crying to me every time they fight, via phone call or email. I am so stressed over this. What can I do to help? Should I intervene and how do I help her ... (64 words)

He's 27, he's immature-we break up but he keeps contacting me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6962 days ago

29 November 2005 (F) - We broke up 2 months ago. It only took me 4 days of ignoring him for him to miss me and come back.This is the 4th time we had broken up. He always dumps me because we argue about stupid things because we are both stubborn. But the real reason is because i'm around him too much ... (266 words)

Can a believe my boyfriend, that the condoms were just meant as a joke?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6942 days ago

29 November 2005 (F)

- I have been with my bf for about 2 years. A while ago I was trying to find some pens etc in his school bag to do some school work, but instead I found some cardboard all taped up and inside it I found 2 condoms and some lubricant. One of the condoms had been opened and there ... (181 words)