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writes: hiyai have a problem. im 16 an i asked this other 16 year old boy out and he said no cos he fancied someone else. then a few weeks later he asked me out cos he said he was fed up wiv chasin the other girl around all the time. now we r girl friend and boyfriend but i am not sure he likes me very much. he knows i like him a lot. but i am still wonderin if he still thinks and likes that other girl. i dont want him to get bored of me or anything. he doesnt wanna tell any1 about us cos every1 will tease us an stuff at school. does this mean he isnt very keen on me cos he doesnt wanna tell any1? and whenever i see him i wanna cuddle him, do u think he wants to hug me aswell?thanks for ur answers. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 November 2005): i think u should ask him why he doesnt want ppl to kno. if he likes u that much he wont want to hide it.i dont think he is worth it, i think he will hurt u. find somone who is proud to be your boyfriend and untill then hang out n have a good time with ya mates! XXx
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 November 2005): Don't worry about whether you bore him or not, hun. He has to take you as is and you should never accept anything less than that. However, no one can read anyone’s mind about as to how he really feels. However, one can take a good guess by listening to his words and watching his actions. If he seems relunctant to let friends know you are dating...that doesn't sound very nice on his part nor genuine. When a guy dates a girl and really likes her, he doesn't care who knows and he's proud to be with her. I get a sense you don’t want to be toyed with and rightfully so. So, I would be frank and honest with him. It sounds like he is still carrying a torch for his former gf. You need to tell him..him to make up his mind. If he can't decide, then move on because he's not a very worthy guy. Be strong and take care
Hugs, Irish
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