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writes: I have been with my boyfriend for three years, we broke up for a couple months and now we are tring to work things out. I came back into the relationship with a problem I didn't have before. I know men do this frequently, but I don't know how much is too much and how it will eventually affect our relationship. The other day I went into his appartment and found fifteen downloaded adult dvd's. Before this i was on his computer and noticed he went to the sites adultfriendfinder.com and hotmatch.com. Before we broke up I really was comfortable with him, I knew he loved me. Now I'm scared to get close to him. I feel like if he needs to watch THAT MUCH adult movies then maybe we shouldnt be together............Help!!!! I have no idea what to do or think, I love him very much.....
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reader, willywombat  +, writes (5 March 2006):
 D'ya know, you end your letter with *I dont know what to do or think*. I think you should go with your feelings and judge your own reactions to this instead of asking others. If this makes YOU uncomforatble then it is YOU who has to deal with the feelings it arouses and YOu who has to live with them inside your head.
Go with your gut instinct and good luck.
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reader, lisa_01  +, writes (29 November 2005):
 When you two broke up for that couple of months maybe he was feeling lonly and was trying to find someone to date on the internet, you should not be too concerned but if i was u id keep an eye on it and make sure he does not keep going to these websites while he is seeing you again, the adult movies i would not totally worry about a few movies he may have downloaded but if he is watching it all the time or downlaoding more then maybe tell him its hurting you and ur upset about this, if he really loves you he will understand.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 November 2005): Hi I feel porn is totally disrepsctful, In the interest of not retyping all I just wrote if your interested you may wish to read my response to ' When should I worry about porn'.
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