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writes: I am 15 years old and my boyfriend is 18. His mom likes me sometimes, but then will call and say she dosen't want me near him anymore. She blames me for things that she has actually caused. The only time I can talk to him is when he can sneak a call. I really care about this guy. What should I do Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 December 2005): This lads mum is being unreasonable. If you really love this lad then you aren't going to finish him because of his mum, and he would be hurt if you did. Don't try and talk to his mum about it, she may think you are being rude and dislike you even more. Instead, ask your boyfriend to talk to her about it. If she listens, then that's great, thank your lad for being so understanding. If she still says she doesn't like you then it may be best if you met your boyfriend at your house, or arrange to meet in town, and go to the cinema together.If your boyfriend doesn't want to speak to his mum about it, then don't pressurize him, tell him that's OK, and ask him if he wants to meet at your house or in town in future. Hopefully, he'll respect you for being so understanding, and everything will be normal again. Don't get flustered, and if your boyfriend gets annoyed at you for asking him to talk about it to his mum, then say sorry, and take him into town or back to your place. Sorted!
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 November 2005): just tell his mother its up to him now he isnt a child anymore its his life keep out of it
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