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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Did our forgettable sex together completely ruin our friendship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6235 days ago

14 November 2005 (F) - Hi! Since I've been at uni my best mate has been this guy called W. We've always been quite touchy feely cuddly kind of thing, but I've never actually really fancied him as such. One night when I was round at his place we were having a laugh and after drinking a couple o... (200 words)

I think about girls and boys! What's my sexual orientation?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 5869 days ago

14 November 2005 (F) - Hi, I'm a 15 year old female. I'm really confused about my sexuality. One minute im having sexual thoughts about girls then the next it's boys. I've never had a girlfriend, only boys; does this mean im a bisexual?? Please help me!!... (42 words)

Is it possible to marry someone to recapture the way we felt before?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6945 days ago

14 November 2005 (M) - First and foremost I want to say that this is a very very serious question,That has either a lot of happiness or a lot of pain and suffering. I was married 17 years. Ex cheated on me. We divorced. I starting seeing this wonderful,Truly the best woman a man could want in his l... (608 words)

My friend says he's in love with me, but I just don't find him attractive...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5054 days ago

14 November 2005 (F) - Hi! I was just looking for some advice on the following problem, it's something I've been trying to figure out for a while now. I'm 17, and I have a close male friend who says he's in love with me. Apparently he has felt this way for a few years now, and I'm not sure what to... (136 words)

My boyfriend said he loves me "differently". This isn't what I expected...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6945 days ago

14 November 2005 (F) - When I asked my bf if he loves me more than he has loved others in the past he said he loves everyone "differently". This makes me want to totally run in the other direction. Is this a valid reaction? Am I wrong to be completely offended by this statement?... (50 words)

When does sex start to feel good?

This question has 30 answers - newest was posted 4925 days ago

14 November 2005 (F) - I've been with this guy for about 2 monthsish and the other night I lost my virginity to him. It was my choice nd I've got no regrets at all. I was just in some kind of numb pain all the way through, and wondered how many times you have sex before it starts to feel good and not ... (62 words)

Do I stay with my new girlfriend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6252 days ago

14 November 2005 (M) - I've been dating this girl for almost 5 years now and i can say that she is fun to be with. We had our shares of ups and downs for the past few years. But i keep on thinking about my ex-girlfriend, whom i've been with for 2 years before my current girlfriend. She (my ex) is one ... (305 words)

She wants her ex back and the stress on our relationship is driving me crazy!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6945 days ago

14 November 2005 (M) - I am with a girlfriend who says she doesn't feel the same just two weeks after moving in together and who I know is talking with her ex about getting back together but we are living together. They have a 3 year old son and throughout our one year relationship we ... (362 words)

My workmate follows me around, always asking what I'm doing!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6937 days ago

14 November 2005 (F) - I think a guy that I work with may really fancy me, but he does not like to show it. He follows me around, is constantly asking what I am doing (even when it is obvious!), how I am, and sometimes even critisises my work jokingly. It is not as obvious as it seems to be when I ... (101 words)

When I feel shy, I drink too much... then I get too rowdy!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6946 days ago

14 November 2005 (F) - Hi, It's not really about relationship advice, I just wanted help. Saturday it was my friend's birthday so we all went out. I got wasted and the man I have liked for ages and who told me he liked me too was there. But when he saw me he went somewhere else. The thing is now I... (216 words)

When I try to spice things up with my man, he comments on it, like I'm doing something wrong...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6946 days ago

14 November 2005 (F) - I have been with my man for 17 years. Our sex life is getting a bit dull. I am trying to spice things up, but every time I do something new, he comments on it. This is making me a bit uneasy about carrying on. I have only ever slept with him. I am not very experienced and feel... (107 words)

How can I know if he's really into me?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

14 November 2005 (F) - Hi! How would I know that my new bf is really into me? He is a very busy person and I understand that he has less time for me. We are on our two weeks. We just went out for three times. Is it normal? I wanna see him and yet he can't make it all the time because of his v... (106 words)

I want to break up with my guy. The distance between us makes me dread visiting him...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6940 days ago

14 November 2005 (F) - This weekend, I am going to visit my long-distance boyfriend to tell him that it's not working for me and I want to end the relationship but still be friends. I love him but I'm not in love with him and I just can't deal with the distance thing. Things had been downhill for a ... (214 words)

For 8 weeks, he did the chasing. Now it's "I need my space"!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6944 days ago

14 November 2005 (F) - Been in a relationship 8 weeks. It's been wonderful. He has done all the chasing. I've stepped back. I'm 41 and have been hurt twice. I know his feelings are real. He is 47. We have been doing a lot together with our daughters and on our own. Then suddenly - bang "I need my ... (74 words)

My folks don't like my boyfriend because he's Christian and they're not...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6946 days ago

14 November 2005 (F) - I'm having me and my boyfriends problem. My parents don't like him because our religions are different. He is Christian and my parents are Buddhist. But I already converted to Christianity and my parents still don't know about it. If I told them, they would totally scold me... (56 words)

My insecurity could make me lose the love of my life!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6532 days ago

14 November 2005 (F) - please please help me!i really need you to reply to my email,im sorry that its so long,but i'm on the verge of losing my boyfriend who is the love of my life.All this is because i have a hard time trusting men,as i've been cheated on alot in the past.I told him from the start ... (534 words)

I made the right choice splitting from my ex... but I wonder what to do about my attraction to his best mate!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6946 days ago

14 November 2005 (F) - I recently split up with my boyfriend of 2 years on good terms just after we had both started at University. We both felt too young to remain in a long-distance relationship, and both hope to remain friends despite the split as we have a lot of friends in common though our ... (336 words)

Just as our friendship is starting to tail off, I think I'm in love with her!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6946 days ago

14 November 2005 (M) - I have this friend, and we've been friends for a long time now. We became really close and since the first day I met her I seemed to like her. She then moved away from town and we've kept in touch, and we're slowly losing contact, I barely talk to her anymore, and I never see ... (143 words)

Can I trust what my husband tells me about his aunt?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6946 days ago

14 November 2005 (F) - Long story, 2 quick questions. Can I trust him? And Is he cheating on me? My husband and I have been together for almost 5 years now. When I met my husband, he was living in his own house and his aunt lived with him. She has been all but disowned by the rest of the family an... (379 words)

He hasn't learned not to mess around with other girls, and now he wants a 3rd chance...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6946 days ago

14 November 2005 (F) - I was with my boyfriend for maybe about 1 month an a half but throughout the whole relationship it was nothing but him playing games with my head and us fighting all the time. It all started out in the beginning he cheated on me with on of my friends and I broke it up and stop... (163 words)

I feel like my boyfriend hates me!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5879 days ago

14 November 2005 (F) - I know my boyfriend from high school but after graduation he went to prison for 2 years. Before he went away he was so sweet and we were really good friends. Now that he is out, he is so mean to me. We have only been dating for 1 month and I feel like he hates me. When I try to ... (86 words)

Why does he come on to me, then go all cold? And what's with all the game-playing?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6935 days ago

14 November 2005 (F) - Hi, hoping for advice regarding a guy who's playing serious games with me! As regards one in a million ways that he plays me around, here is an example of what happened last night... saw him out and tried to ignore him, which didn't work as I fancy the pants off him. He turned ... (350 words)

I can be reasonable and calm with anyone except my mum!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6932 days ago

14 November 2005 (F) - Hi! Hoping for some advice on how to stress down! Me and my mum are like chalk and cheese and rarely see eye to eye about anything! Since I've left university I've had to move back home for a year whilst I complete a course that I do at college. When I'm with anyone else I'm... (286 words)

He says that once my kids are grown, he'll leave his wife and we'll be together...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6945 days ago

14 November 2005 (F)

- I'm married with 3 children but for the last 2yrs I have been having an affair. He has a partner who is 25yrs older then him and he has noticed the age difference. They dont have sex anymore, so it's more of a platonic relationship. I have hinted that I wanted us to be a proper... (152 words)