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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

He asked me to move in and I thought things were serious...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6952 days ago

7 November 2005 (F) - I have been dating a guy for 4 months. It seemed very serious, he asked me to move in. He says he loves me then the very next day he says he doesn't want a serious relationship, etc...but wants to see me in a couple of weeks as friends, no sex. What should I do? What does ... (86 words)

Why does his body language say "yes", when his words say "no"?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6953 days ago

7 November 2005 (F) - Can anyone tell me if this guy at work is interested from what I describe of his body language. I know he thinks he is bad looking because he has told me so but I find he has so many other qualities. I feel so at ease and comfortable near him. When I enter his office he alway... (623 words)

Should I break up with him before or after the holidays?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6952 days ago

7 November 2005 (F) - I have lots of problems, but one is whether I should stay with my boyfriend or not? We've been together for just over a year, but two months ago i finished with him and after three weeks, we decided to give it another try. He's very jealous and possessive, which is what fi... (148 words)

I thought we hit it off, but he backed away and told me he's not over his ex yet...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6952 days ago

7 November 2005 (F) - Met this lovely guy at uni called Simon, after getting to know him via text and just chatting after class i developed a crush. I dont find it easy to fall for a guy but he seemed to be everything i was looking for. Last week we went to a concert. We got on really well and ... (221 words)

I cheated on my husband with my half-cousin and now he tells me our affair is over!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6150 days ago

7 November 2005 (F) - Hello. I just dont know where to start! I have been with my husband for 7 years and we have a great 5 year old son. Earlier in the year i met up again with my half cousin that i haven't seen for years, he was really good looking!We exchanged mobile phone numbers to keep in ... (400 words)

As soon as the girl starts seeming attracted to me, I start to think she's not my type!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6953 days ago

7 November 2005 (M) - dear cupid. I have a problem, and I am sure its all in my mind. I meet a girl, I quickly asses if she's attractive or not. If I decide yes and get the chance I will date her. My problem starts after a couple of dates or when she starts hotting up to me and decides she reall... (162 words)

Our separation has turned into a marriage breakup. It's worse because we work together!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6946 days ago

7 November 2005 (M) - My wife of 20 years has decided to leave. First of all it was just a separation to think things over but after only 3 weeks she says it's the end. I am heart broken as I love her dearly. We both agreed we had been taking each other for granted and I didn't show much love which ... (100 words)

When he catches my eye, he winks at me. Should I ignore it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6952 days ago

7 November 2005 (F) - My other half and I have been meeting up with a group of people and their other halves at our local for the past 6 months. More recently one of the blokes if he catches my eye will then wink at me when nobody is looking. Sometimes I feel awkward and occasionally I will smile ... (102 words)

Need some help and advice on making my long-distance relationship a success!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6953 days ago

7 November 2005 (F) - Hi, I met my boyfriend at Uni, we've been together for 2 years and for the past 4 months we've been in a long distance relationship because we both have a work placement with different companies in different cities. It's been difficult lately as he is getting busier. He has s... (219 words)

Lately my girlfriend is talking to a guy and telling him lies about our life together!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6953 days ago

7 November 2005 (M) - manic depressive Hi, Im a 25 year old guy and have been with my 20 year old girlfriend for 2 years. 6 months after we moved in together I found out she was talking to a lot of guys online. I started to get a little jealous so I ask her about these guys. She got very angry a... (448 words)

What happens when my girlfriend finishes her course and wants to move away? I'm still studying!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6951 days ago

7 November 2005 (M) - Hi everyone, I hope I can get some answers to my problem, I have been with my girlfriend for nearly 4 years, I am 21 and she is 18. We met while on holidays in Italy, for the first year we stayed together but long distance as she is from London, I myself am from Ireland. ... (282 words)

Should I date a guy I'm not necessarily attracted to?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6748 days ago

7 November 2005 (F) - I'm a 17 year old who has never had a boyfriend and only attracts guy I don't find neccessarily attractive or who are jerks. Theres this one guy who I'm not entirely sure I like. I know he likes me but I'm not physically attracted to him so I don't think I can go on with t... (143 words)

I moved in, almost by accident, and our relationship started a downturn...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6951 days ago

7 November 2005 (M) - Hello, I had a question for you. I've been in a relationship with my girlfriend for three years now. About two years ago, I kind of moved in with her and her mom. This came about because I would stay over there, eventually later and later, so I just moved in and she was all ... (185 words)

I have problems trusting my boyfriend since I found raunchy texts on his phone!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6923 days ago

7 November 2005 (F) - I really need some advice. I have been in two serious relationships in my past - one for 7 years (he cheated on me and left me for someone else) and one for 2 years (he was very controlling and mentally abusive). I have started seeing somone (who i met on the net). We have bee... (364 words)

I keep going back to my ex and sleeping with him!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 6192 days ago

7 November 2005 (F) - Help! I have been seeing my current boyfriend for 5 months now and he is almost everything anyone could want. Kind, clever, handsome etc. I enjoy spending time with him and we get on really well. He is very caring and i can see us having a long and happy relationship. The ... (258 words)

My husband has started ignoring me. We talked about it, but he doesn't care!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6949 days ago

7 November 2005 (F) - I have been married for 4 years, I am 26 yrs of age and I am 4 months pregnant with my third baby. I seem to be having a lot of problems with my husband. He works long hours and I understand that he probably gets tired but it seems to be his excuse for everything. Over the ... (218 words)

My boyfriend is twice my age and it's a big sticking point with my dad!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5912 days ago

7 November 2005 (F) - I just need some advice because I am so stuck. I have a boyfriend who is twice my age. I recently told my Dad about it and he is not happy at all. I am very close with my family, but my boyfriend makes me so happy. He makes me feel confident and good about myself - I have a ... (195 words)

Why couldn't my bf be happy for me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6952 days ago

7 November 2005 (F)

- Can anyone else explain my boyfriends behavior? I had been out of work for a really long time and finally got hired at a good company as a sales rep for the clothing department. At first my boyfriend was excited and said "oh I hope it works out for you". Well anyways ... (128 words)

I've already compromised on other issues. I'm not sure I can share this man with other women!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6952 days ago

7 November 2005 (F) - I am a 69 year old widow for the last couple of years. I have dated a lot of men, and some I really cared for but unfortunately they didn't feel the same. However, I met a man that lives a couple of hours away and I have only seen him twice. We have sent each other about a ... (219 words)

He's asked me to marry him, but there are a few complications...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6951 days ago

7 November 2005 (F)

- Is this relationship worth saving??? I met this wonderful man and I thought the relationship was going great. He's in the Army and stationed in Afghanistan. He even asked me to marry him. Then one day I find out that he is still involved with someone else. I confronted hi... (212 words)

I helped set up two friends; they got married and moved away. Now he's back in touch...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6899 days ago

7 November 2005 (F) - I'm in an utter state and I just need an outside perspective. About 2 years ago I met a really lovely girl on holiday, we stayed friends when we came home and she told me all about the problems, the man one was the guy she wanted who we'll just call J. The problem was ever... (645 words)

Should I just tell my friend that she doesn't NEED a boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6951 days ago

7 November 2005 (F) - Ok, my best friend gets attached so easily to every guy she thinks has good qualities. The newest guy ended up being a complete jerk, and now her self-esteem is crap. Our last conversation: "I'm fat, I'm ugly, and that's why no guy wants to be with me." What should I ... (94 words)