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writes: My girlfriend and I have been dating for about 10 months and our sex life has all but disappeared. I am very troubled by this because we were friends before we started dating and she used to tell me openly about her sex life with former boyfriends. She claims to have not even been in love with these other men but continued to engage in sexual activity anyway. I can barely get her to have sex with me more than once or twice a month and she seems almost uncomfortably shy or embarrassed around me during these moments. Should I be worried about our future together or is there something I can do to improve our intimacy??
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reader, sexseahot  +, writes (29 November 2005):
 Have you talked to her about how she is? Asked her how she feels about the situation? Let her know your concerns. Maybe she's not aware of them herself.
If you want to improve the intimacy then try just focusing on her and what pleasures her. That may get her in the mood. Try some seduction. Try role play. Ask her what gets her hot. There may be something missing that your not aware of.
If nothing improves, let her know that you're not satisfied with how things are and ask her how they can be improved, if anything can do that.
Good Luck!
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