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writes: Im confused. My boyfriend of one year and i recently split. There was no real reason why we broke up - it was more of a spare of the moment decision out of anger over a stupid fight. Trouble is, now i deeply regret breaking up with him. We still see each other regulary and talk/txt everyday. He's told me that he doesnt want a gf anymore, yet he still tells me he loves me. I want to be with him again but im not sure how to go about it. Help me!
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reader, Caity +, writes (29 November 2005):
Tension can often get the better of couples when having heated conversations. When having an arguement, couples are often able to resolve differeces.. and also, as often as they can resolve.. sometimes they can't. It's obviously a difference in opinion but not a core reason to splt (depending on nature of your arguement) Do you think you were in the wrong during wjat was said?-If so, tell him. If not, u need to come to a mutual agreement that u disagree. He said he 'doesn't want a girlfriend' - your not 'A' girlfriend and he knows this, he's most likely taking this time to think about things. You need to reassure him. Hope it all works out. x
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reader, sexseahot  +, writes (29 November 2005):
 Justene24_7,
Honey, you need to let him know that if he don't want a girlfriend anymore, he can't be telling you that he loves you and acting like you guys are still together. It's not fair to you.
Have you talked to him about how you feel? If you haven't, then this is something that needs to be done. Let him know how you feel about this and that you want him back. He may not want a girlfriend, but maybe you guys can rekindle the relationship that you had. You'll never know until you talk to him about it.
He may not want to get back into the relationship for fear that this would happen again. Let him know that it won't.
Good Luck!
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reader, May +, writes (29 November 2005):
Do you really beleive he is the one? If so let a solid friendship develop it is the best foundation for a long term relationship. If he wants you he'll come and get you. It wouldn't hurt to seem adored by other guys so if you got it flaunt it for other guys it'll drive him nuts.
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