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writes: To put it short, guys never ask me out, and there is this guy. We smile at each other a lot but he never really talks. My mate keeps telling him to talk to me which makes it worse. But I really, really like him and have done for a while now. I don't wanna ask him out because I'm too scared he will say no. What can I do ? plz wb xxx Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 October 2006): when i was in 7th grade i asked a guy out that i liked since the 1st grade, he said no.I asked him to call me and he said he would. Later that night when i got home he called. I asked him why he didn't want to go out with me and he said that i wasn't what he was looking for. I was cool about it and asked if we could be friends. now in 9th grade we are best friends and talked about everything.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 April 2006): i am 14 and well i have been in this situation and i just went for it, asked him out face to face: do u wanna go out with me? thats what i said and he was so pleased and flattered that he said yes and we are together now. he loved me for asking him face to face cos guys love girls with confidence and if u ask face to face then it will make u a stronger person and more confident. if he says no then u can get over him and know where u stand. if not, u can always ask for his msn or mob number and txt him asking him. personally the best way is just to be yourself and casually ask him out face to face. Just go for it!
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 December 2005): Life's too short to stand around wondering what might happen. You need to pluck up the courage and just ask him. If he says no then at least you know where you stand and can move on. Being rejected can hurt sometimes but you should never take it personally or you may lose all confidence in asking guys out again. And if he does say no, then you can just put the whole incident down to experience and then you will know how to handle this sort of situation, should it happen again in the future.
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reader, Wild +, writes (30 November 2005):
u afraid,u think he will say no!!!what if he i'll say yes??ok,let's assume he says no,its one problem down bcoz at least u will be knowing his position about you.again,asking him out does'nt neccesarily means proposing love to him,so i do not see him refusing a date.
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