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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I cheated and I know I'm an idiot. What can I say to my girlfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6972 days ago

6 November 2005 (M) - I have been with my girlfriend for 4 years now. She is the one and only person in my life that means so so much to me. I feel like I am one of the biggest idiots I have ever known. I cheated on her during a Halloween party last week. I was really messed up, not just on ... (216 words)

I want some help from my bf. How can I get it without seeming to nag him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6982 days ago

6 November 2005 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been going out for three and a half years. We have a two and a half year old together. He is always doing things for other people and rarely helps me out. I have asked for help and talked to him but nothing seems to work. How do I get him to help me ... (72 words)

All I want to do is be with my wonderful partner... except sometimes I wonder if I should have dated women too...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6983 days ago

6 November 2005 (M) - I'm in a commited gay relationship but we haven't come out as a couple to family and friends, only a few friends who are very happy for us, they are also gay. Anyway he is in another part of the country and we call each other every ay and love each other very much. I have nev... (476 words)

I love my boyfriend, but we have financial issues. What's your opinion?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6982 days ago

6 November 2005 (F) - I have been in a relationship for four years; it's a second time for us both we were both previously married. I have doubts about us. When we have issues my partner will listen but we never resolve them we end up arguing. We live together and I pay half of everything even tho... (118 words)

My boyfriend thinks it's OK to ogle other women while we're out together...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6979 days ago

6 November 2005 (F) - Help - My boyfriend ogles and says "HEY NOW!" as he stares at beautiful blondes walking by when he was drinking I was with my boyfriend in a restaurant /bar. He had lot to drink and I was wondering if the following scenario should bother me. actually, this has happened abo... (733 words)

I'm pregnant with my bf's baby, but my old friend spends her time trying to get him alone!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6983 days ago

6 November 2005 (F) - Ok from March to August my bf fancied my "friend", I went on holiday and he tried getting kisses off her etc. She didn't try to stop him (as far as I know). When I came back they flirted infront of me so much I cried there and then. When I confronted him he said he was sorry, ... (213 words)

I don't know what to do. Sometimes he's sweet and wonderful. Other times, he's mean and hurtful!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6983 days ago

6 November 2005 (F) - I have had a boyfriend for 3 years but I'm really confused about him. You see sometimes he is so nice to me he is really sweet and loving. I know he loves me he has proven it to me. But sometimes he gets really mad and starts to tell me really mean and hurtful stuff. I mean the ... (110 words)

How can I over get over my girl, after she broke it off?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6983 days ago

6 November 2005 (M) - I had been seeing this girl on and off for a few months, we had our ups and downs but I really tried hard to make things work. The last month of our relationship was the best, we didnt argue or fall out and we had a great time together. But then, just as things were goin... (184 words)

There's no intimacy with my boyfriend, and it's driving me to find sex elsewhere!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6984 days ago

6 November 2005 (F) - Hello I have lived with my boyfriend for 4 years and we plan to marry next year. We are the best of friends and he is really good to me. However, we have never had a real sex life and have no intimacy in our relationship. He looks at a lot of porn and seems to not want to have ... (134 words)

My partner broke up with me to be with someone else. Now he's seeing us both!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6961 days ago

6 November 2005 (F) - Dear Cupid I am 22 years old. I was in a relationship for 4 years and 7 months and about 2 weeks ago my ex and I broke up. We have known each other for about 8 1/2 years and I really want to get back with him. Our break up was not mutual. He told me that he no longer wanted... (489 words)

There's an age gap and he's married and he has kids. But I can't help the fact that I love him!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6232 days ago

6 November 2005 (F) - I've known some family friends for a number of years and have always got on really well with the dad. Recently he told me he loved me, and I think I feel the same about him. We kissed and got quite physical. We get on so well, and always have done. He makes me so happy when I ... (133 words)

Is the fact that my husband "needs" time with his friends normal?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5569 days ago

6 November 2005 (F) - Hello, I ve been married for 10 months. I love my husband and I know he loves me too. He has this habit of going to the cafe across the street and sit with his friends, talk , play cards and stuff. I made it clear that I am not really excited about this. I told him that he... (145 words)

If my long-distance guy wants to marry me someday, why doesn't he make time to call me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6952 days ago

6 November 2005 (F) - im a 21 yr old girl and have been in a relation for 4 yrs...at first it was great..he was in another country then..later he moved to my city..it was great till then..last month he moved to another city ..he is having some problem with his work and is extremely busy..he says he ... (124 words)

Been with my girl for 2 years and I love her... but I can't take my eyes off her friend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6984 days ago

6 November 2005 (M) - I coached my GF for 3 yrs b/f we got together. All those 3 years, she was best pals with another girl. The 3 of us would spend lots of time together away from sports. I made vague passes at both of them all that time. They are both lovely ladies. GF was breaking up with ... (234 words)

Is my soulmate still out there, while I'm still here with my boyfriend?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 6448 days ago

6 November 2005 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for four years. It has always been nice. He's supportive, a good listener, an honest, hard worker, and awesome at night. We get along very well, like best friends. I'm very comfortable and happy with him. But sometimes I feel like he's not right for ... (172 words)

Can my boss dismiss me, just because she's embarrassed that we slept together?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6974 days ago

6 November 2005 (F) - Hi, I need some advice on what to do about a rather tricky situation. A couple of months ago I slept with my boss who is female. I am 25 and she is 40. The attraction had been there for a while and this only happened afer a work party when I was very drunk. I don't feel bad... (219 words)