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writes: I am 16 years old and i love my girlfriend very much. But recently I'm feeling strange about her best friend. I think I might be in love with her too. What do I do? I feel like my girlfriend could be my soul mate but then I'm intrigued by the best friend...
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reader, reedy  +, writes (3 August 2008):
 well i have the same problem and i dont know wot to do up to now i am flirting wiv ma gf mate she iz realy nice but my gf iz not nicy she it cinda ugly i am trying to get my girlfriend to dump me so any way u shuld stay away from them both for a bit
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 March 2008): if u realy think u luv ure gf mate then thin0k about who wud u save if a house was on fire and they were in it?
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reader, Ku5 +, writes (2 December 2005):
Tell your lass man you can't keep stuff lyk that 2 yourself if she finishes you, then so be it. lets face it, at the end of the day you've done the right thing
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 November 2005): talk it through with her ask if you and her can spend time with her only her only 4 times a night so you can chat do stuff like make love and that see how it works out and if it does take it from there
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reader, Viper +, writes (30 November 2005):
 Hey thereDude, stuff like this normal, i mean I'd say what your feeling for her friend is maybe a mere crush, you are just attracted to her. Just think about it this way, you have two options, you can either wait for it to pass, if you love your gf this should happen, if it doesn't I'd say the relationship you are in right now is not what your heart wants. But leave time before you act ok, if you act too soon you might end up with nothing.Hope I've HelpedViper
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 November 2005): Take a break from dating, dear if you are this confused about love and soulmates. Thinking this way will only cause you to hurt two nice people. If you are interested in your gf's mate, then you are not in love with either of them. Love is totally exclusive and for one beloved person-you are infatuated with both girls and that's it. And that's okay because you are young and I feel teenagers should date, to shop around. But...what I do have problems with, is someone who is not honest about his other interests, to their current dating partner. If you are deliberately misleading your gf, you now have a snapshot into your character, which needs work. This should be a major factor in choosing and keeping friends. Relationships can downgrade or upgrade depending on a variety of factors but..dating her friend may cause hurt and pain for both of them. Better let her know how you feel or give up this idea, totally. Best of luck.
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reader, sexseahot  +, writes (29 November 2005):
 If you fancy someone else, your girlfriend is not your soul mate. You wouldn't be intrigued by her friend. It just depends on who you really want. Do you want her friend or do you want her. You need to make up your mind because it's not fair to your girlfriend that you feel this way for someone else.
How serious are you and your girlfriend? If you're not that serious then let her go. You're treating her unfairly. Does her friend know how you feel about her?
Maybe you should stay away from both of them for the time being and decide who you really want.
Good Luck!
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reader, chav123 +, writes (29 November 2005):
What you should do is tell one of your friend or tell your girlfriend one day it will come out some day if you don,t tell just face up to every thing
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