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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

He gets to do whatever he wants, but I have to ask his permission!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6980 days ago

9 November 2005 (F) - I've been dating my boyfriend for 3 months. He's the sweetest guy you could find.. the guy every girl calls "Mr. Right." But lately I'm finding that he can do whatever he pleases, but I need his permission. If I want to hang out with a friend, he has to know who, why, and ... (151 words)

Am I wrong in worrying about all the uncertainties in our relationship, just 7 months before the marriage?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6982 days ago

9 November 2005 (F) - Please help, Im scared.... I have never been so in love with anyone and have truley Lucked out in finding my guy...Except Im due to be married in 7 months and My fiance is basicallly unsure about next week.... I have had an issue with Trust regarding him ever since an "inciden... (243 words)

The sex in our lives disappeared because he "doesn't feel good". What does that mean?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6977 days ago

9 November 2005 (F) - My sex life is gone. My boyfriend doens't hold me, kiss me, or touch me anymore. this has be going on for about three months now,. He states the fact its because he doesn't feel good and can't explain why. I love him with all my heart. But I need that touch so bad. Why is ... (83 words)

I found out my fiance went to a prostitute and I've completely lost trust in him!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6962 days ago

9 November 2005 (F) - Dear Cupid, My fiance of almost a year (dating over 5 years) confessed to me three days ago that he slept with an escort while out of town last weekend. He has never done this before, and is extremely guilty and remorseful. He swears never to do this again. I know the saying ... (270 words)

I feel like I'm doing everything a wife would do for him, so why is he so slow to show any commitment to me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6979 days ago

9 November 2005 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years and 1 month. We have had 4 break ups. 2 were because he was going to try to make it work with his ex wife. 1 was because I was tired of him being to close for comfort with his ex wife. The other time was no real reason giving by him. ... (570 words)

Help me read between the lines of what a woman is saying...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6980 days ago

9 November 2005 (M) - Dear Cupid, Please give me some insight into a woman’s thought process. What does it really mean when a woman tells a guy “They are really busy” or “They have a lot on their mind” while they are dating. What should a guy do if this is what they are told? How should one take thi... (58 words)

I have no friends and I want to learn to be a more likeable person...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6873 days ago

9 November 2005 (F) - How can I become a likeable person? God, I feel like such a weirdo writing this but I've always been a bit different. I'm a pretty, nice, intelligent girl but I've always been a bit of a loner. I'm an only child and both my parents were killed in a car crash when I was 7, w... (181 words)

Should I worry about my husband's business trip, or am I just insecure?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6980 days ago

9 November 2005 (F) - My husband and I got married about 2 months ago. We are now in the process of buying a new business and he has to go on a business trip to Memphis, Tennessee in December for 2 weeks. When we first met things were a little rough. At one point he was trying to get back... (173 words)

I make time to see my boyfriend, but he always cancels or goes out with his friends...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6981 days ago

9 November 2005 (F) - My Boyfriend and I dont see each other much. I want to see him more but he doesn't seem intrested when I tell him that I'm free and want to meet up (every night). When we finally do plan to meet up he always cancels on me. However he always makes time for his friends but why ... (65 words)

I had sex with a guy I don't even love. Then his girlfriend blackmailed me to my boyfriend...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6980 days ago

9 November 2005 (F) - I dont know what to do. Me and my boyfriend were only dating for about 3 months but we were so in love. It was like love at first sight when we first met. Then he told me he wouldn't be able to come here anymore until winter was over (he lives in diff state, his parents own ... (141 words)

I'm concerned because he sees his work friend more often than he sees me...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6982 days ago

9 November 2005 (F) - My Boy friend and I have been together for almost 2 years. We fight just like any other couple. A few weeks ago, he told me he found someone that he works with, attractive. Guys are visual so I had no problem with that. A few days ago, though, he informed me that since we... (115 words)

I've never been attracted to my husband, and his attempt at infidelity with my best friend seems like the last straw...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6978 days ago

9 November 2005 (F) - I am in need of some advice as soon a possible. This is going to be long but please take the time to read my story. Let's see where do I start? I met my husband when I was 20 years old. I am currently 31. I didn't find him attractive but he was sweet and kind. He treated me ... (709 words)

Should I risk going out with the guy with the reputation?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6954 days ago

9 November 2005 (F) - Im a 17 year old girl who hasn't really had a boyfriend before and there's this guy at my school who has a reputation for having been out with a LOT of girls. I'm definately attracted to him but many girls are. I get the impression that he wants to go out with me and says that... (107 words)

I ask him to leave, but he won't. Should I just leave him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6980 days ago

9 November 2005 (F) - Please help. Me and my partner have been together for 4 years and have a 1 year old child. all day long I dream about leaving him and having someone better, but when I ask him to go, in the end it doesnt happen. I support him completely, he doesnt have a job, I pay for everythi... (113 words)

I keep getting knockbacks from girls and it's affecting my self-confidence!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6981 days ago

9 November 2005 (M) - Help! I've been turned down. Again. Again as in about 20 times... i feel really unwanted and depressed. I also feel ugly because nobody seems to say yes and It makes me lower my confidence... I felt really confident today when I asked this girl out and she said no but now it's ... (60 words)

After the disastrously awkward experience we had before, why would she invite me to her party?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6979 days ago

9 November 2005 (M) - Hi there, I need some help as I'm so confused with an ex, that I don't even know what to think about it all. I started seeing a girl who lives above the shop that I work in. We had so much in common and got on really well and I really liked her, I think she liked me too, but... (624 words)

How have other couples solved their problems with debt by one partner?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6979 days ago

9 November 2005 (M) - Hi, I am married. My wife is extremely money conscious and I perhaps have not been in the past. I accumulated some debt while I was young and in the early days of our relationship, before we were married, which is a real burden - not too much - £10,000GBP or $20,000USD.... (214 words)

Am I a fool to be with a man who is still in contact with a woman he loved?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6980 days ago

9 November 2005 (F) - I have been dating a guy for about 8 months. We spend a lot of time together but he has an emotional wall up with me, that hurts me. He is also not as intimate physically as I would expect from a man. He has always refused to talk about the past, saying that it doesn't ... (264 words)

Was having a good-bye drink with my ex-husband after the divorce an insult to my boyfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6980 days ago

9 November 2005 (?) - Was I wrong by going to the bar with my ex after leaving the courthouse to finalize our divorce when I was in a relationship with another man? He got very angry when I got home and called him and told him why it took so long just to sign some papers. He was waiting to hear ... (163 words)

I know the woman I love is bad for me, but I'm afraid that I'll never find someone else...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6981 days ago

9 November 2005 (M) - Sorry for the length of this. I can't find any way to tell my whole situation without going into this much detail. Anyway, here's the situation. Dated a girl for 5 years. We're both 23. We met in college, she had an abusive boyfriend from whom I saved her. Basically, she ... (809 words)

He says he's happy with me and loves me, so why does he still check the dating sites?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6981 days ago

9 November 2005 (F) - I have been seeing my boyfriend for about 6 weeks now. And I would say its pretty serious between the two of us, although we are a long way off from doing things like moving in together etc. The problem I have is that after 6 weeks even though he tells me he loves me, he still... (363 words)

My folks don't approve of my boyfriend rght now, but the important thing is how much he cares for me, right?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6982 days ago

9 November 2005 (F) - Dear Cupid, I am going out of my mind! The reason being I am 24,(nearly 25) and unfortunatley still living at home. The reason being is I am paying off a new car. This will be all paid up by early next year. I have met a new guy and he adores me so and makes me so happ... (218 words)

Life is so busy, I barely have time for the boyfriend I love...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6982 days ago

9 November 2005 (F) - I met my boyfriend three years ago at university. Recently, I moved away. Having been together so long, a lot of the passion had gone from our relationship and I thought the distance might help however when we do meet up, there are just awful silences and arguments. My life ... (108 words)

My boyfriend is devastated because he feels he "failed" to get a more prestigious employment offer than me...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6982 days ago

9 November 2005 (F) - I need to help my bf regain his self-esteem. We're in law school together since we want to live in the same city, we applied for jobs at many of the same law firms. (It's a small market.) The problem is that my boyfriend had some bad luck and ended up with just one offer, ... (507 words)

My online boyfriend is older than me, but he hasn't mentioned sex. Should we?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 6949 days ago

9 November 2005 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together now for about 6 months. I met him online and everything has been perfect, except for one thing...he is 31 and I am 17. He is the nicest guy I could ever meet and he's very good looking and finds me very attractive also. He is not ... (294 words)

I feel insecure, because I'm always the one who makes contact with my sweetheart...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6982 days ago

9 November 2005 (M) - I am 36, insecure and totally in love. I re-met my childhood sweetheart almost a year ago, and we planned a life togther as soon as we could. We had an aborted attempt at living together (I split from my wife) but due to the stress of running my own company, working 18 hours a ... (351 words)