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writes: I was with a guy for just over 2 months, we had the most amazing time together! I knew he felt the same and we laughed, joked, cuddles and kissed whenever we saw eachother. He told me he was falling for me, his parents loved and and his friends thought I was great... he had not long been split from his ex girl of 2 years.. I begged him to make sure he wanted t be with someone and assured him i'd wait until he knew he was sure and Iknew he was sure... we started seeing eachother, then got together n were vvv happy.. one day we went for a walk and he was all over me.. this followed by a little, cute sad face and I said, whats up? do u wanna not be with me or something.. jokingly.. he replied with ' no' I walked away so hurt and he's been calling me since being confused, saying he still likes me, misses me.. he needs to see if relationship will work with this girl.. etc. I have just been a friend so far but I really want him back. Is it worth pursuing?
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reader, Aunty Suzie +, writes (30 November 2005):
Oh dear! You made a fatal error by giving this bloke a way out. Learn from it, when you were asking him if he needed more time to get over his ex girlfriend he ultimately used it as a sorry excuse for dumping you. It had nothing to do with her, some men just cannot say what they mean and jump at any excuse to end it and sadly, meaning well you gave it to him!You will be fine, no contact with this person, please! Yes he may come crawling back which is alway's an ego boost but he will hurt you now or later, again. Find something you love to do, put yourself first, and true love will find you right when you least expect it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 November 2005): No, he isn't worth pursuing. In most cases, former lovers/bf's don’t make good friends and lingering feelings for them will interfere with subsequent relationships,you may find. He's made his choice and I am sorry for your pain. It is time to break the connection, once and for all and move on, hun. Be strong and Take care of yourself.
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reader, Dark_Storm11 +, writes (29 November 2005):
 I think in my opinion that this guy is very upset by his last girlfriend. If the break-up was nasty then he'll want her back even more. I think you need to stay a friend for the meantime, he needs to realise that this girl just isnt worth it, from your message i get the feeling she broke up with him,so he needs to realise that she isnt going to change her mind, she made her decision and in my eyes its worng for her to keep playing him around as he'll only get more hurt. This guy was with you for a rebound. You were the only person he had who was close to him at that time and he reached out in the only way men know how to! I say that you need to talk to your ex and make him see that his last girlfriend isnt worth it, and it is better to start a fresh, so tell him you can help him through this. Be prepared to hear story about his ex though, as he needs to get it all out and the only way he can do this is by talking about her.I hope ive helped you.
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