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writes: How do you no when a girl likes you? What sort of signals do they give? How can i tel if they are playing or flirting.
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reader, DoubleM  +, writes (28 January 2008):
 All of the gals who answered here gave great advice, and revealed a lot.
StarNews particularly says a lot regarding the fleeting moment when a girl sees someone with whom they could be interested - but I want to tell you that these opportunities can flash by you so fast you will almost never know anything happened.
Case in point, this old codger has probably lost more potential lovers than I've had, and that was many over 45 years as an adult. I've thought about this a lot, and can recall many tiny little visual hints from ladies throughout my long life.
A quick little smile, even just a look, a double-take, a touch on my arm. they are endless - and I let most of them slip away because they were so damn subtle. And I was too numb to recognize what had happened in time.
Just a couple of months ago, I was standing at the banana rack at a WalMart store when a very attractive blonde woman close to my age appeared next to me and said something about "bananas."
She asked how many I like to buy or something, and I stupidly said "just one or two at a time, because they turn black before I can eat 'em." Just a few moments later, I realized that woman was probably coming on to me, but it was too late.
About seven years ago I stopped by a local pub for a beer about 5 p.m. one afternoon, had fairly recently become single again, and was just sitting there. A cute young woman possibly half my age sat down across the way, and a few moments later I looked her way and she winked at me.
Like a total idiot, I looked away. It took me a little by surprise, but "Damn!"
Why didn't I wink back immediately and move over to meet her?
(One major tip: Always look women in the eye and hold as long as they do.)
Within a minute, I fully realized the opportunity I had lost, but it was instantly too late. I was too slow to catch the hint.
I'll admit that most of the women who got me were actually more forward than I am. They pushed beyond those subtle little hints and won me.
But today, I'm much older and the opportunities fewer and far between, but almost any little smile or nod, or certainly any wink (haven't seen any lately) will get an instant response from me. Finally, I've sharpened my radar, but maybe a bit too late.
I've possibly lost 100 opportunities in my many years because I was too slow to recognize what some of those little bitty clues may have meant.
Does that tell you anything dude?
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reader, StarNews +, writes (27 December 2005):
 She will smile, make lots of eye contact and spend a long time talking with you. She will get physically closer to you, leaning into you, lightly touch you on the shoulder, hand or arm. If you're still not sure, ask her for her number. Being open about your interest shows you are not a game player. Make the effort to let her know you are interested in her, who doesnt like to hear that? Too many guys let girls slip through their fingers for fear of rejection or being too shy to call her once they do get her number. Persistence usually pays off.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 December 2005): well when i like a guy, i constantly smile at them! i make the effort to talk to him! and i flirt like mad! some girls are too shy tho, so there is 1 way u can find out if she likes u! ask! brushing past u, asking ur mates about u, turning up at places just cos ur there, looking at u for a long time and then turning away wen u look! they r all ways a girl cud show she likes ya. hope i have helped!xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 November 2005): WELL I MUST ADMIT, WE FEMALES ARE VERY CONFUSING!!! ITS HARD TO SAY, SOME WOMEN WILL THROW THEMSELVES ON YOU, AND SOME WILL JUST PLAY HARD TO GET. IF SHE'S ALWAYS CALLING YOU, AND TELLING YOU THINGS ABOUT HERSELF, THEN ITS SAFE TO SAY THAT THERE IS A CONNECTION, EITHER A LOVE CONNECTION, OR A FORMING FRIENDSHIP. MAKE SURE WHICH ONE IT IS, YOU WOULDN'T WANT TO SCARE HER OFF!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 November 2005): Each girl is different we give out different signals i personally just say how i feel as it saves time and embarrassment later on .. some play bout and get your attention playfully or play fighting if you like a girl why not tell her most girls like it when a guy can approuch them and ask them.
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