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writes: My partner of 3 years has been living in america for work over the past 18 months. I've seen him 3 times in that time and we talk everyday. At a party me and my best friend (girl) were very drunk and kiss and fooled around when we realised what was happening we giggled and forgot about it. I told my partner who said he was really aroused by it. Its been a few months since it happened and i feel so guilty about it becuase he won't let me forget it and brings it up. he also wants to have a threesome and i've said i don't want him to touch another girl but all he says is why you have. What should i do?
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reader, mystify +, writes (31 December 2005):
 he is blackmailing you , using your guilt to get another girl into your bed, if he has forgiven you , he has to move on and cant hold it against you, if he asks again say one of these replys ...
1) no but to make things fair you can fool around with a guy!
2)yes but only if we have a threesome with a guy first!
3)if you touch another girl ill touch another guy
call his bluff hell soon stop going on about it
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 December 2005): He is not mature enough to have threesome. He wants revenge for what you did when he should have been your shoulder. If you are ready to end it and want the expierence of it all, then do it. If not the relationship will never survive the threesome. That takes a deep love and security of self and he does not seem to have it. Plus.. Is that what you want?
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 December 2005): He is not mature enough to have threesome. He wants revenge for what you did when he should have been your shoulder. If you are ready to end it and want the expierence of it all, then do it. If not the relationship will never survive the threesome. That takes a deep love and security of self and he does not seem to have it. Plus.. Is that what youn want?
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reader, Ku5 +, writes (2 December 2005):
Ditch ur bf. Be gay
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reader, Monk +, writes (1 December 2005):
Don't do a 3 some if you're the jealous type. But maybe you can offer a girl on girl show for him. He'll be indebted to you for a long time. And maybe it'll help you loosen up. Too many benefits in giving him a show (or a 3 some) at this point in your life so go for it. He'll owe you big time.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 November 2005): A threesome is not for everyone...in fact, it's not for most of us. Make it clear to him, that this episode with your friend was a blunder and you weren't thinking clear, due to alcohol consumption. You've let him know that inserting another person into your sex life and bedroom, is an event you could do without and will cause you all kinds of pain. Make him aware of the costs of this behavior and tell him bluntly-to drop the subject-case closed-end of discussion. Do this calmly and clearly. If he continues to be forgetful and keeps this up, then you have to decide what you will and won’t tolerate in this relationship with him. Never be afraid to set boundries and let people you love how you wish to be treated, dear. You have the right to take a stand against anyone who wants you to do anything that makes you feel uncomfortable. Don't forget that. Take care and good luck.
Hugs,
Irish
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