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writes:I have been with my bf for about 2 years. A while ago I was trying to find some pens etc in his school bag to do some school work, but instead I found some cardboard all taped up and inside it I found 2 condoms and some lubricant. One of the condoms had been opened and there was no condom inside.I approuched him about this and he said he had taken them to school and he and his friends blew one up just as a joke. Another week or so went by and I was still upset by this so I asked why he had the condoms in the first place and he said that they where originally going to be sent to his younger sister for her b'day for a joke. But he forgot to send them. It's still 3 months on and I still feel like he's not being truthful about why he really had them. What do people think? I'm not sure if I can beleive him or not.
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reader, caryl +, writes (19 December 2005):
Do you feel that he is cheating on you because why in the first place would he have a condom unless he is going to use it? Boys do mess around but not like that. If you feel he is lying, then even though you might like him, you must say if I like him do I pretend this is a dream? Or say I don't like this and tell him straight. If he doesn't like it then I would dump him and find a better person.
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reader, lost N love +, writes (30 November 2005):
Always trust your gut it very raerly lies to you. Guys will say anything that they think you will belive. I am not saying dont trust your man but trust your self and ask your self if you knew it was true what you would do. Also keep in mind if you were going to cheat would you leave incriminating evidence just around. I believe either way you go in your heart you have the answer.
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reader, Viper  +, writes (29 November 2005):
 Hey thereWell I gota tell you, boys at that kinda time in their lives are like that, i know : ). If you like him you should make sure that you can believe him with anything. If you can't believe your lover there is no love.Boys do a lot of messing around though, it's hard to tell in some cases and i see why you are finding it very difficult, approach him about it i would, but be careful on how you approach him, send him the signal that your still upset by it, if he cares enough to tell the full truth then it's worth listenin 2 if he just makes up another excuse i wouldnt bother with him.Hope I've HelpedViper
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