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What qualifies me to help you? Vast dating experience, especially in the LDR department, even an international on with an Aussie, broke hearts, had mine broken, been engaged once before, I know what a real friend is, seen the ugly side of divorce coming from a recently broken home myself, even went as far as to tip the odds to my side and use men only to toss them aside like yesterday's garbage like they do women, I know what it's like to almost give up hope on finding the perfect man when he's really only a few boyfriends away, and I'm starting to learn the ropes of married life. I also know a vast deal about the female and male reproductive system, and all about the mental struggles with infertility. On a side note, I'm the one who gives you tough love, I'm not on here to sugarcoat it or to tell you what you want to hear. I'm going to give it to you straight up, wouldn't you rather the truth?
-TOP 5 QUESTIONS I CAN'T STAND-
#1. Does this mean my teacher likes me?
Just because they're nice to you, offer extra help, and put a little gold star on your A+ paper doesn't mean they are in love with you.
#2. Could I be pregnant?
Have you not heard of a pregnancy test? Get off this website, and go to your local drugstore.
#3. I'm 14 and I want a baby?
Really? Me too! Oh wait I'm 28 and married. You're how old again?
#4. My husband loves porn more than me!
Maybe if you didn't let yourself go into the frumpy woman you have turned into then he wouldn't have to look at porn now would he? I recommend you get your rear to the salon for highlights, manicure, pedicure, tanning, toss the baggy tees and sweat pants for a wardrobe that fits, and a little makeup goes a long way. It's called basic woman maintenance in order to keep your man's eyes on you.
#5. Will we get back together, how can I get him to love me again?
Unfortunately, my crystal ball is broke at the moment and I just gave away the last of my love potion No. 9. Sorry.
MY GENERAL RULES OF THUMB (this should be common sense)
-No means no.
-Girls can ask out ask guys, this is a new generation.
-Unless you know sign language or are telepathic, you're going to have to talk to him/her.
-My "Don't ask, Don't tell" policy as is follows: Do not by any means volunteer your own sexual history, or ask your date/partner/wife/girlfriend their magic number (how many people they've slept with). If you find yourself being prompted to answer this question, politely tell them that's none of their business.
-Your past doesn't define who you are today. We grow, mature, age, and change as time passes.
-If you have to even ask random strangers on this website if you should have sex, then you're not ready for it.
-FWBs, fuck buddies, no strings attached, whatever you want to call it..is not a relationship don't get the 2 confused. In this case, sex=sex, not love.
-No trust=no relationship.
-It is normal for your husband/boyfriend to have friends of the opposite sex, do you not have male friends?
-LDRs can work, however they're not for everyone. You've got to have trust, communication, be faithful, and a lot of hobbies to keep yourself occupied. If you have trust issues, a case of being needy, clingy, problems staying faithful and are in a LDR don't be surprised when it doesn't work. I told you so.
- An ex is an ex for a reason. If you guys couldn't hack it as a couple the first 2 times what makes you think the third time is a charm?
-Going on a "break" is a nice way of breaking up.
-If you have sex with a man and he hasn't called you, or responded to your texts in weeks sorry to say but he was just after a piece of ass.
- Now unless he's getting blown up in Afghanistan, an on call ER doctor, or lying dead in a coffin then he's got no excuse for his poor or lack there of communication.
-You have a 12% chance of your married boyfriend leaving his wife and children.
-A man who is going through a divorce is still legally married. He's about to have an ex wife and you're wanting to get into a relationship with him? That's called a rebound.
-If you're a minor who's just found out she's pregnant, do me and everyone else on this site a favor..Tell your parents.
-Just because some one stares at you, it doesn't mean they like you. They could be staring at that booger hanging out of your nose.
-If you have a lump/bump/cyst/rash that looks green, has oozing puss, and itches like hell, but kinda looks like a STD then you had better consult your doctor. They went through 6 years of schooling and have a license to practice medicine, I think they would know better than random virtual strangers.
-Don't mix business with pleasure. Why? Because if you date your co-worker and in the event things turn sour then you're still stuck facing them 9-5, Mon-Fri. Awkward.
-No matter how hard you try, you can't change a person..they have to make that transformation themselves.
-When your boyfriend/girlfriend says they want space that doesn't mean you do the opposite and bombard them with calls/texts.
-As far as ultimatums go, don't try to make your boyfriend choose between you, his female friends, or weed. You won't like the results.
-If you're 13-17, I'm sorry but you haven't a clue what love really is. You have minimal dating experience confined to the high school dating pool which are nothing but horny boys. Their facial hair doesn't make them a man. It's only till you get out into the real world, a vast dating pool is when you learn the definition of love. So, go on thinking you and 13 year old Tommy will go on to get married, have 3 kids, and a two story house with a white picket fence. I don't expect you to listen, I'm 28 and married, what do I know? There's a reason why everyone says it won't last..because it doesn't.
-The average penis size erect is 6 inches, 4.85 inches. Women like average to even a little below average. We're not going to bust out a tape measure and measure it to make sure it's up to our standards. We just want to have sex, so enough complaining about your size let's get down and dirty.
- The legal age of consent in the U.S. is 16-18 varying oer state, in Britain it's 16. I think it's safe to say most parts of the world (unless you live in a tribe with their own form of government) the legal age to consent to sex is 16. So yes, all you minors below the age of consent are committing a crime when you engage in sexual activity. The age is set that high for a reason, you are not above the law. |
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A. 2 September 2011: I can understand that. You couldn't help but take it a little bit farther because you liked her. But then again you should've understood fully what "not serious" meant. She could have been more clear on it.
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How much space should I give her?
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How much space should I give her?
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How much space should I give her?
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How much space should I give her?
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Not sure where this is heading or what to do in complex psudeo relationship
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A. 7 June 2011: Your problem is you have to actually listen to what the girls say. Women mean what they say, they're not bullshitting you. Nursing school is extremely involving..what medical career isn't??
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How much space should I give her?
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A. 7 June 2011: Yeah, but you thought that when she asked you about it..and look where you are with her now. She gave you the bait but you didn't bite.
Why continue to silently be in love with her? You don't know if she doesn't feel anything for you at this poi... (read in full...)
Why does he look at porn and hide his phone??
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A. 7 June 2011: Love isn't the only thing that goes into a marriage, so does TRUST, and COMMUNICATION..which you both lack.
You think military husbands have no time to cheat but you're sadly mistaken..they'll lie to you and tell you they have to work late whe... (read in full...)
Not sure where this is heading or what to do in complex psudeo relationship
Q. Okay, so I've been dating this one girl for the past six months. She said upfront in January that she does not want anything "serious" because she is in nursing school now and is taking it very seriously. I used to think it was a bunch of bs, but ...
A. 7 June 2011: Then you're wasting your time with her. You want an actual relationship that she can't give you due to her busy lifestyle.
She specified from the get go she didn't want anything "serious" and you agreed. So you're basically settling for less tha... (read in full...)
How much space should I give her?
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A. 7 June 2011: No, you're not getting it.
Tell her that you're IN LOVE with her, APOLOGIZE for your actions, and then SEE what she says.
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Would emailing him seem too desperate?
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How much space should I give her?
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A. 6 June 2011: No, I wouldn't update her about big things in your life.
Lay your feelings out on the table, APOLOGIZE, and see what she says. ... (read in full...)
How much space should I give her?
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A. 6 June 2011: You did leave out a chunk of impertinent info. My apologies if I seemed a bit harsh in my other post.
So you two grew closer than she expected in the last 6 months, especially with her having a boyfriend. Then when she took a leap and asked yo... (read in full...)
Would emailing him seem too desperate?
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Not sure where this is heading or what to do in complex psudeo relationship
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A. 6 June 2011: Let me say this when a girl says what she wants upfront she means what she says. Don't question otherwise. When women say "I don't want anything serious" it means she wants either a friendship or to have a no strings attached deal.
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A. 6 June 2011: I think he's crazy to curse at his supervisor. He could lose his job; I'm surprised he hasn't already.
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Would emailing him seem too desperate?
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A. 6 June 2011: Couldn't you Facebook him? That's more socially accepting. University email is too formal.... (read in full...)
Is she going to call? How long do I wait?
Q. Well this is my story me and my ex-fiance broke up about a year ago, but still tried to work things out talking on the phone but we just could not work it through. We broke up due to many issues we had in our relationship, mainly trust issues and ...
A. 6 June 2011: Did you not hear what your sister said? Your ex hasn't called yet because she hasn't mustered up the courage to do so!
You can end this waiting game but obtaining your ex's number from your sister and calling her yourself. ... (read in full...)
Can Someone pull these knives out of my back? 2 friends are muscling in on my love interest. What do I do?
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A. 6 June 2011: I see that Anna knew you liked him, but was Erica aware of your crush?
Anna is good, interrupting your conversation and selling herself, then trying to participate in some football. She's one to watch out for.
You could pull them aside and h... (read in full...)
Husband alone in car with female co worker
Q. My husband doesn't have a car to get to work a female co worker has given him a ride from work and by his own admission they stop for her to pay a bill.. she has picked him up at 5am for work should I be concern? Some times i can take him and pick ...
A. 6 June 2011:
What time do they start their work day? Has your husband ever given you a reason not to trust him around other women?
If he's home on time then there's no reason to worry. Now, if you're that worried about it, then let him have the car for work... (read in full...)
Why does he look at porn and hide his phone??
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A. 6 June 2011:
Let me just say that him looking at porn is the least of your worries. You need to be more worried about him chatting with other ladies, like you have been from day 1 of meeting him. In other words, watching him to make sure he doesn't cheat on... (read in full...)
Boyfriend almost hit me, did I make the wrong choice by forgiving him?
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A. 6 June 2011: Wrong choice, this is only the beginning of abuse to come if you stay with this young man.
I know that if any guy pinned me up against the wall, told me to shut up bitch, and nearly hit me while I was asking him questions during study, that wou... (read in full...)
Should I be concerned that she once dated a pedophile??
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A. 6 June 2011: 1. I think you're making mountains out of mole hills. Let this info go, it doesn't have anything to do with you.
2. This is something that happened in her past, which she shouldn't be held accountable for today. She didn't participate in pedophil... (read in full...)
We had potential but I ruined it!
Q. Hey all, Basicly i just want to ask for some advice on what to do next. i got with this guy, let's call him 'K', at a club one night and we stuck together and had been on 3 dates. On our 3rd date we went clubbing together and i did some...
A. 6 June 2011: Let me point out a few lessons that you should've learned and apply them to your next potential boyfriend:
1. A club isn't a place to meet a potential boyfriend.
2. Going to a club on a date, isn't a proper date. In fact I wouldn't even call it... (read in full...)
Should I explain the contents of my letter to my English teacher, or wait it out?
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A. 6 June 2011: I'm with the other answer..just tell your teacher "thank you" for being there for you when you didn't have anyone.
Also, DO NOT tell her you have a crush on her. She doesn't reciprocate. You are a child and she is an adult. It is illegal for you ... (read in full...)
Should I tell my wife about a crush, that I am trying to get over??
Q. I have developed a crush on a new, younger coworker of mine. She is really hot and a sexy dresser and on top of it she is sweet, smart, friendly, and gives good professional advice. I see how the other guys in the office act around her and it is li...
A. 6 June 2011: Unless you want to cause a fight or a problem in your marriage, then I advise you not to tell your wife.
I get that you want to be honest, but this is better off left unsaid. Continue declining this woman, and keeping your distance from her. Sta... (read in full...)
My parents won't let me go out with him because he smokes!
Q. i met this boy at my school party. he is so nice. we danced together, we message each other all the time on facebook. however he smokes. my parents dont like that. they told me that i cant go out with him. but he wont stop trying to go out with m...
A. 6 June 2011: Blech, my husband used to smoke. It was like kissing an ashtray!
As the other poster stated, 13-15 is way too young to be smoking. (I'm hoping only cigarettes and not weed) I don't know the legal age to buy cigarettes in the UK but in America ... (read in full...)
How much space should I give her?
Q. I've been in love with one of my best friends for over half a year now. She does have a boyfriend of 10-11 months... however, during these past 6 months, I've literally spent all my time with her. The relationship wasn't healthy though. I am ver...
A. 6 June 2011: Anything that specifically happened in the last few months that you're not letting on? There seems to be something missing.
How long have you two been best friends?
It just sounds like she's reached her breaking point with you. She's not y... (read in full...)
I asked my friend out and he refused, now he's lying about dating a model off of facebook. Why is he doing this?
Q. im close friends with a guy, we've nown each other 2 years and ive helped him out of loads of difficulties. i like him a lot and recently mentioned to him the possibility of dating. he said he would date me but the friendship would be ruined if it ...
A. 6 June 2011: How do you know he's lying about the model?
Listen to his words, "He would date me but the friendship would be ruined if it went wrong". That's a nice way of him saying he's not interested in you that way.
Wouldn't you think he would have as... (read in full...)
I need all the information I can get on how to get pregnant??
Q. I need as much advice and tips as possible on getting pregnant naturally! Been trying for 2 years now and nothing. I did go through a patch where for 7 months i didn't have a period and doctors sent me for scans and did all sorts of tests but they ...
A. 6 June 2011: One more thing, if you don't produce enough estrogen then they should be putting you on estrogen pills in addition to Clomid.
Also, are you and your partner married, engaged?? You both want a child, correct? Are you finished with school and have... (read in full...)
I need all the information I can get on how to get pregnant??
Q. I need as much advice and tips as possible on getting pregnant naturally! Been trying for 2 years now and nothing. I did go through a patch where for 7 months i didn't have a period and doctors sent me for scans and did all sorts of tests but they ...
A. 6 June 2011: If you didn't have a period for 7 months, that sounds like polycystic ovarian syndrome. Because if you don't have a period, then you don't ovulate thus why you're not getting pregnant.
Has your partner been for a sperm analysis?
http://women.... (read in full...)
She's an absolute Slob. How do we get through to her that we are done with it?
Q. My partner and I are in a bit of a pickle and don’t know what to do. My girlfriend and I live with our mutual best friend, who we will call Jenny, and I just want to begin by saying that everything in that respect is fine. We all get along really ...
A. 6 June 2011: Just a few questions, you and your partner are living with Jenny and assuming you all split the rent 3 ways? Now if you don't pay rent and are just temporarily staying there then you don't have much of a case. However if you do indeed split the ... (read in full...)
He's 19. I need ideas for a birthday present.
Q. It is a friend of mine's birthday and I am sort of involved with him. Now, I have no idea what to get him, obviously it cannot be too flamboyant like a car or something. I could list things that he is interested in but there is nothing he is n...
A. 6 June 2011: Honestly, you're better off getting him something he's previously mentioned, or directly asking him what he wants.
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My friend doesn't use facebook or her phone. How does she do it?
Q. I find it very strange that my best friend doesn't have facebook and hardly uses her mobile!? She's 18 so it's werid enough she doesn't have facebook, but the other day i realized she isn't a fan of using her phone either!?? It just is VERY rare of ...
A. 5 June 2011: Believe it or not, there are other communications beside FB and your cell.
I remember life before Facebook and texting. If you wanted to hang out with your friends then you would use AIM/MSN/Yahoo messenger, call them on the house phone, or ride ... (read in full...)
Not Into My Girl - but am Interested in Guys. What should I do?
Q. am 27yrs,man engaged but i don't stay with my lover,some times i feel like having relationship with fellow men.men get attracted to me whenever i pass over them,some ask for my contacts.but i feel i want to stay in relationship with my girl .so help ...
A. 5 June 2011: Well which is it dear?
You state you don't want to stay with your lover (meaning the girl you're engaged to?) and then you say you want to stay in a relationship with your girl. I believe you're either confused as to what gender you want..OR... (read in full...)
I don't understand why my friend still texts him
Q. My best friend met this guy who she thought was 23/24 and he thought she was 26. So they both assumed without knowing. When really he is 28 nearly 29 and she is 18. Does anyone else find it weird that someone his age and hers are texting each other? ...
A. 4 June 2011: A few things here....
1. This girl is legally an adult who is of age or past it to consent to sex. So this guy she's being chatty with isn't a predator/perv/whatever or is he breaking any laws. Everyone is well within the legal system. This guy... (read in full...)
He kissed my puppet, does that mean he likes me?
Q. Dear readers, Long story short. I've had a crush on this guy for the entire year. Sometimes I think he likes me a lot, and then sometimes I feel like he's given up. Anyways (we were in drama, and we're getting ready for a show--I'm in gra...
A. 30 May 2011: Again we're not mind readers and don't know you or this guy, the ONLY surefire way to find out of he's interested is to ask. If you can't do it yourself, then have your friends do the dirty work and ask him.
I can't really tell if this guy like... (read in full...)
His ex wants to "catch up" with him. I'm afraid of what will happen if they talk. Please advise.
Q. im 18/f and my boyfriend is 19/m my bestfriend that ive liked for months and months asked me to be his girlfriend only 2 days ago.. and now that im in the picture as his girlfriend, it would seem his ex wants back in too. He and his ex girlfrie...
A. 25 May 2011: Of course we never trust the ex girlfriend, but we do trust our boyfriends to have self control in this testy situation. Think of it in those terms.... (read in full...)
Should I be forced to invite my cousin to my bfs small birthday dinner?
Q. Today I called my mum to invite her and my father to my boyfriends birthday dinner in a couple of weeks. I explain that we don't have a set date put aside but heads up - it will be in two weeks. Immediately she tells me that as my cousin will be ...
A. 24 May 2011: Actually I can see your mom's side, because they don't want to look like bad hosts when your cousin is visiting. Then again like Honeypie said, a 50yr old man is capable of entertaining himself.
In your defense, I can see where it's unnecess... (read in full...)
What would be my type for a girlfriend?
Q. What do you think what would be my type of girl for a girlfriend. My hobbies are playing video games, hanging out with friends, using my computer for different things, reading comics and I'm a happy person....
A. 24 May 2011: A girl who shares some of your interests.
We can't tell you what your ideal girlfriend is, that's something you figure out for yourself. ... (read in full...)
His ex wants to "catch up" with him. I'm afraid of what will happen if they talk. Please advise.
Q. im 18/f and my boyfriend is 19/m my bestfriend that ive liked for months and months asked me to be his girlfriend only 2 days ago.. and now that im in the picture as his girlfriend, it would seem his ex wants back in too. He and his ex girlfrie...
A. 24 May 2011: If you trust him then there's no question about it, let him catch up with his ex.
They were together 5 years, so what. They're not together now.
Let me put it this way, if you tell him you don't want him to meet up with his ex..then tha... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is always breaking our plans for his friends, I'm sick of it and told him so. He hasn't listened. What do I do?
Q. My boyfriend for 1 year plus always abandoned me last minute for our dating to go out with his friends. This has happened several times like during count downs and even on christmas eve. I am sick of it... Told him several times and he is ...
A. 24 May 2011: Does he do this every time you two have plans?
Does he at least give you a courtesy call instead of standing you up?
How often would you say you see/spend time with your boyfriend in a week? Need some info, you're post is too vague.
If you ... (read in full...)
Thank you for all the help!
Q. This is not a question just a big thank you to people who have helped me over here for the past few months. I came across this site through internet browsing, looking for the answers I needed with my relationship. I met a guy who i never thought wo...
A. 24 May 2011: Thank you for saying "thank you". Much appreciated. ... (read in full...)
What exactly does everyone consider cheating?
Q. Hi aunts, a question: whats really is cheating? When someone u are in relationship with chat with her ex but not tell u until u ask when u see received calls in her cellphone...
A. 24 May 2011: Usual everyday cheating: Kissing, having sex with someone other than your significant other.
Virtual cheating: having cyber sex with someone other than your significant other.
Emotional cheating: sexting with someone other than your signif... (read in full...)
Could I potentially be one of the 5% for whom the pill didn't work?
Q. I would really appreciate people's advice as I am in a MASSIVE prediciment! On the 28th of August (about 3 weeks ago) I got ridiculously drunk at a party (I've since decided to become teetotal after the consequence of my actions.) Me ...
A. 24 May 2011: Good to know, now get on a form of regular contraception if you're going to be sexually active. Morning after pill is for emergencies only!... (read in full...)
What does it mean when a man gives you a drawer?
Q. I have a man I'm seeing long distance. We started this relationship in early November We are two hours apart... we email and talk on the phone a few times a week... I go to visit him since he cannot be around my dogs. I have been up to see h...
A. 18 May 2011: :( A little sad you have to give up your animals..They become part of the family after a while. Let's hope this man is well worth it. ... (read in full...)
I can't trust my crush...
Q. So this story has four main people. My Crush "Al" The Evil Girl "EG" My crush's and my mutual friend "Pete" and me I have like Al for a long time. I was kind of starting to think that he liked me too. EG also likes him and figure...
A. 13 May 2011: What were these rumors that EG spread about Al? Anything to do with you?
Disregard EG, she doesn't matter. What's important is what Pete and Al said. So you're thinking that Al said that he didn't like you so EG wouldn't get jealous and spread m... (read in full...)
How many friends do you have?
Q. OK I am wondering how many friends--and I mean real friends--can a person honestly have. I am not counting Facebook friends, but real friends. To me a real friend is someone you feel a kinship with, someone you identify with and who identifies w...
A. 13 May 2011: 22.
Seriously, there's no x average amount of friends that one should have.
I find myself having had a lot of friends in high school, shrunk down when I moved away for college. Gained more in college, then lost some but regained old one... (read in full...)
How do I tell him I have a child?
Q. Hi! I am a single mum and I am 26 years old. I have been alone for 3 years now. I have a child and a career and tons of friends which takes up a lot of my time.But recently I met the best looking man I have ever seen in my life in a random situation ...
A. 13 May 2011: I would tell him when you meet up. This is information that cannot be withheld and needs to be laid out on the table as soon as possible, way before you even think about a relationship. For some people children are a deal breaker.
Just let the ... (read in full...)
He kissed my puppet, does that mean he likes me?
Q. Dear readers, Long story short. I've had a crush on this guy for the entire year. Sometimes I think he likes me a lot, and then sometimes I feel like he's given up. Anyways (we were in drama, and we're getting ready for a show--I'm in gra...
A. 13 May 2011: Making out with a puppet is romantic? Sorry, but not the least bit. Your crush was just being immature and rather odd by frenching your ugly puppet. I really don't think he was indirectly trying to tell you he's interested. Why make out with yo... (read in full...)
I want to be there for both friends, but they are making it hard. Any advice is welcome.
Q. I'm worried about what to do about my two friends. The background info is that last time my friend who I will refer to a 'Beth' had a boyfriend my other friend who I will call 'Cyndi' started sleeping with him at the same time. They both fell o...
A. 13 May 2011: So Cyndi never slept with Beth's now ex boyfriend, right? If Cyndi actually did then Beth has every right to hate her and you shouldn't try fix an issue that can't be fixed. However, if these are all nothing but vicious rumors then there's sti... (read in full...)
I'm worried about having a DNA test....
Q. I had unprotected sex with my ex-boyfriend before 2years but I did not get pregnant since he ejaculated just on my vagina. Later I had unprotected sex with another guy he also used to ejaculate near my vagina. But a single drop went inside. So if I ...
A. 13 May 2011: Unless you're actually pregnant this time and are unsure of the baby's father, it's absolutely unnecessary to go for a DNA test. Now if you were raped (in which I hope you weren't), then they will use a rape kit to swab for semen.
There... (read in full...)
What does it mean when a man gives you a drawer?
Q. I have a man I'm seeing long distance. We started this relationship in early November We are two hours apart... we email and talk on the phone a few times a week... I go to visit him since he cannot be around my dogs. I have been up to see h...
A. 22 February 2011: Even I'm old enough to know what a drawer in a man's house means!
It means he's comfortable and confident enough in this relationship for you to start leaving some of your things at his house. Such as a toothbrush, any necessary toiletri... (read in full...)
Could I potentially be one of the 5% for whom the pill didn't work?
Q. I would really appreciate people's advice as I am in a MASSIVE prediciment! On the 28th of August (about 3 weeks ago) I got ridiculously drunk at a party (I've since decided to become teetotal after the consequence of my actions.) Me ...
A. 18 September 2010: He tried to enter you? Did he or did he not penetrate you? Now if he penetrated you without your consent then yes that's rape...and obviously there was no consent because you were passed out. But in a sense you were inviting with the oral sex, ... (read in full...)
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