Boyfriend wants me return or exchange a foster child, but I would like to adopt
Q. I fostered a three year todler, with a view to adopt, against my boyfriend's will last year. We are now engaged to be married in next few months. he is still not for the idea of the boy being around. He is an active boy, and like any other child can ...
A. 21 March 2011: I find this very off that your boyfriend would not want this child or to not get involved in this young boys life. what a positive role model he could be. has he not developed feelings for the boy , like you have? something just doesnt sound ri... (read in full...)
Can I make my nose smaller without surgery?
Q. hai, i m mike and i want to ask you a question my nose is broad what can i do about it. My nost make me feel unconfident,can there is any way without sergery to make it perfect?...
A. 15 March 2011: there is nothing wrong with having a large nose... dont feel bad about it . if you still hate it when youre 25 , then consider surgery , but at your age you should not have too much concern about this. try to build some confidence in wh... (read in full...)
My wife feels more like a sister to me than a wife, and it doesn't feel right to make love to her!!
Q. Hi I have a big problem. Over the years my wife and I have had many issues. I left her 9 months ago because I lost my feelings for her. I now find myself wanting to be with her and my children. I realise I do have feelings for her, but they are up ...
A. 15 March 2011: yeah, you'll need to have a very frank and open conversation with your wife. be sensitive though, in the way that you discuss it. just let her know that you need to spice up the bedroom activity as you are seeing her less and less in a sexual w... (read in full...)
Should I let him go, so he can be with someone closer to his age?
Q. I'm a mature beautiful woman. I've met a man 14 years younger than me. We have been together for almost 2 years. I have had many relationships. He has not. He is the first man that I feel is my match, my love. He knows I would do anything for him. ...
A. 15 March 2011: ive was with a man 8 years younger than me, i know what its like. eventually i didnt have to make the choice as he made it clear he wanted to be with girls his own age.
it depends on your relationship.. if he loves you , he'll stay regardle... (read in full...)
Cheated, broke up, and unable to move on
Q. I was in a wonderful relationship for over a year and we were really deep in love with one another. Then one day I went for coffee with a guy I used to love and we slept together. I told my boyfriend right after that happened. He decided a week ...
A. 14 March 2011: you have to find a way to forgive yourself. its been a year now. and find a way to move on... look to the future. start dating other guys, and learn from the past.
you'll never make the same mistake twice and your still young enough to find anot... (read in full...)
How do I convince my girlfriend she needs to go to the doctors?
Q. Dear Cupid My girlfriend had a dodgy discharge recently and we know its a vaginal infection. She knows it needs to be treated but she keeps pushing the topic aside or agreeing but not doing anything. I know she's doesn't like going to the doctors,...
A. 14 March 2011: tell her that its very serious to ignore these problems. If she doesnt see the doctor and get some tests, she could potentially be really harming herself.
If she doesnt listen to you , then stop sleeping with her until she goes.
its in he... (read in full...)
My wife is pregnant and our sex life has stopped. Is this normal?
Q. Me and my wife had a great sex life but shes pregnant one and half months from now. We both missings our days but we're afraid of losing pregnancy. What should we do?...
A. 14 March 2011: i think sex is safe. ask your doctor about it though....
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I'm 23 and still virgin. Is this bad?
Q. I'm still a virgin at the age of 23. Is that bad?...
A. 13 March 2011: NOT AT ALL... my friend just lost her virginity at 24 and she is HOT . I think its great that she waited until she met someone she trusted and loved... (read in full...)
I have no friends except one who takes advantage of and tries to change me. What should I do?
Q. i know this isn't to do with love relationships but it is to do with friend relationships. i've just moved miles away from where i used to live so i've had to make new friends. i didn't mind at first as i hung around a group of girls who were fri...
A. 13 March 2011: girls your age can be cruel.. i experienced this type of behaviour too when i was your age. All i can say is, hang in there , do your best to be strong and try not to let these girls upset you. There is nothing wrong with you and unfortunately it ... (read in full...)
I've really hurt my husband but don't want to lose him. Please help??
Q. I have really hurt my husband. It is so bad that I'm embarrassed to say what it is. I'm truly sorry and I would do anything to fix it. What can I do? I don't want to lose my husband. I'm scared. Please help....
A. 13 March 2011: the advantage of writing on a site like this is that youre totally anonymous. So have some faith and tell us what happened so we can try to advise you. I promise i wont judge you ... no matter what it is that you did. ... (read in full...)
Is his penis too big?
Q. I'm a virgin and I love my boyfriend to bits but his penis is 10.75 inches. Will it hurt when he takes my virginity? Will my vagina get ruptured rip and bleed? Is there something that I need to do? Will it feel good or bad?...
A. 13 March 2011: if its your first time, then you will naturally bleed a little because thats the hymen breaking.
Do not worry about the size.. your vagina is designed to cope with expanding and this will natually happen.
You need to make sure that he war... (read in full...)
I'm 14 and my boyfriend wants sex
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for a while now and recently he's been wanting more from me. I'm only 14 and he's asked me for sex, he is the same age too. I like him but I'm scared he's using me for sex or just too look good. I'm really worried in-case ...
A. 13 March 2011: Do not do anything until you are totally comfortable.
Sex at 14 is really too young ... please dont feel pressures by your boyfriend. If he doesnt respect your wishes, then you should dump him.
Most girls dont start having sex until their ... (read in full...)
Why am I a bad person because I use prostitutes?
Q. Dear All, I am going to ask few questions which might offend some of you if they do please pardon me and try understanding my query. I have few basic questions about life which I want you to answer but before that let me give you some insight abo...
A. 13 March 2011: I guess you have to be a woman to understand colleagues response fully. So although i can see you've had some feed back from other males on here, the point is that as a woman , we feel more protective of other women. We know that sex for us is ve... (read in full...)
My ex boyfriend disappeared on me, and I can't get over it
Q. I'm still heart broken, after 4 months. I was seeing my ex boyfriend for 1 year, even though it was a long distance relationship , he lived an hour and half away by train. I was very much in love with him. He last came to visit me for a week in ...
A. 6 January 2011: X0nadya0x , I know exactly what you're going through and I'm still dealing with it everyday. I can honestly say the pain is less now, but I'm still dealing with the dissapearance which I found cruel and extremely hurtful. I have a mixture of anger ... (read in full...)
My older brother said I can, but should I go for it?
Q. I'm a 14 year old male and am still a virgin. My older brother is 17 and has been sleeping with a couple girls since he was 13 and said I could sleep with them if I wanted. I have never seen her but I know she's hot. Should I go for it even though ...
A. 3 January 2011: Don't start so young, there is no need to compete with your brother ... Let him be. You will get to lose your virginity in your own time.
Once you get to know a girl that you like, build chemistry with .. And when it feels right , with a girfrien... (read in full...)
Depressed and Panicked... 32 yr old single female.. is there any chance for me?
Q. I feel so truly depressed.. after making some bad decisions over the last 3 years, in terms of relationships. I've ended up single... i will turn 32 in 2011 and its causing me serious stress and depression. People keep telling me i'll meet someon...
A. 29 December 2010: Thanks you all for your hopeful messages. I appreciate the positivity..
I hope you are right.. I will do what I can to make new friends (as my existing friends don't have anyone they can introduce me to) its so so hard to meet men , I've tried the ... (read in full...)
My ex boyfriend disappeared on me, and I can't get over it
Q. I'm still heart broken, after 4 months. I was seeing my ex boyfriend for 1 year, even though it was a long distance relationship , he lived an hour and half away by train. I was very much in love with him. He last came to visit me for a week in ...
A. 11 December 2010: Thanks Dear Jilly, I really appreciate your time and advice ... I'm very touched... (read in full...)
My ex boyfriend disappeared on me & is now in a new relationship
Q. I was in a long distance relationship with a guy who I fell head over heels in love with. He lived an hour and half train journey from where I live. This lasted a full year and I spent a lot of time visiting him , and he would also come to visit me ...
A. 11 December 2010: Thank you all so much for taking the time to write me these pieces of advice . I genuinely am touched and it made me feel better know that I am not the only person this has happened to.
Aunt Honesty, thanks for your very understanding advice .... (read in full...)
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