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Would emailing him seem too desperate?

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Question - (6 June 2011)

8 Answers - (Newest, 6 June 2011)

A female age 30-35, *Angels writes:

Hi, well, last week I've finally talked to the guy I have been admiring for the past few months but stupidly I forgot to grab his information because I was in a hurry. I was able to find his e-mail through the university website. It wasn't difficult since our e-mail just uses first name and last names.

So I was wondering would e-mailing him seem too desperate? Would it seem a bit too stalker-ish? Or the next time I see him I should get his information then?

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A male reader, spinnaker +, writes (6 June 2011):

spinnaker agony aunt

5 years is not a problem. 24 and 19 may seem odd but stretch that out. 40 and 35? Doesn't sound bad at all

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A female reader, xAngels +, writes (6 June 2011):

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He's in the same degree and same year as me. =)

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A female reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (6 June 2011):

tennisstar88 agony aunt

Actually, that age gap is nothing. As long as you are serious about school, because he sounds like he's about done with it or on his master's. But then again it depends, people finish school at any age these days.

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A female reader, xAngels +, writes (6 June 2011):

xAngels is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Thanks! Do you guys think that me turning 19 and him turning 24 is going to be a problem? I'm a bit worried about what he thinks about the age gap.

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A female reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (6 June 2011):

tennisstar88 agony aunt

Then like spinnaker said you're going to have to be prepared the next time you see him.

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A female reader, xAngels +, writes (6 June 2011):

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I can't facebook him because he doesn't have facebook.

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A female reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (6 June 2011):

tennisstar88 agony aunt

Couldn't you Facebook him? That's more socially accepting. University email is too formal.

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A male reader, spinnaker +, writes (6 June 2011):

spinnaker agony aunt

If you think it is stalker-ish - chances are it is.

If there is a chance to see this guy again, strike up a conversation and don't for get your pen and paper. Keep in mind also you could accidentally on purpose bump into this guy if you just by happenstance know where he may be at a certain time and by happenstance you just happen to be there wink wink.

Hell, when I worked downtown in my city I used to let 5 buses go by because I knew my crush was on the one particular bus.

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