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He's keeping me at arm's length

Q.   I'm so confused about my boyfriend I need to sort things out as its affecting my life and don't know what to do anymore. On the surface everything is going well..we have been dating for 4months and he wants to see me and thinks of me, but I feel l...

A.   23 September 2010: Thanks for all your advice- we eventually talked and he ended up telling me he wanted a relationship with me and loved me back. Really appreciate the feedback, and wishing you all well x... (read in full...)

Did I blow it? Will I hear from him again?

Q.   I have been dating this really nice guy for 3 months- its hard because he's in the RAF and is often working, but we really enjoy our time together. 2 weeks ago he came back from Germany, and wanted me to take some time off to be with him, and for ...

A.   25 July 2010: Thank you so much for your advice- can't tell you how much its appreciated...he got back to me today, and am really happy :) thanks again!... (read in full...)

I thought I was happily married for 32 years until he found a younger woman! How do I cope with the anger?

Q.   I think it's ridiculous how common my current situation has become in recent years. In a nut shell, my husband of thirty-two years and I just finalized our divorce two days ago. He'd been having an affair with a much younger woman for nine months ...

A.   22 January 2010: There is nothing wrong with you- its the male ego. I think the only thing you can do is focus on yourself and change the situation. Think of all the things you wanted to do when you were single- those things you wanted to do, the things that made ... (read in full...)

Is my boyfriend being childish by hanging up on me?

Q.   why is it that when my boyfriend of 3 years hangs up on me when he does not like hearing what I have to say he doesnt talk to me for a couple of days. Is this childish or isnt it. Hes had a bad very bad marriage. thank you. ...

A.   22 January 2010: This used to happen to my aunty- where her husband used to cut her off- sometimes mid sentance. She did the same to him. When he was in mid flow with something to say and she was done, she just hung up. He dosen't do this anymore- hope this hel... (read in full...)

Woops, wrong name, wrong guy, wrong time

Q.   I met a really cool guy online in Sept. and he lives far away. It was going really well, and then I dated someone else I met a little later who lived closer. I felt guilty as I didn't love the second guy, and when we were intimate, I called him by ...

A.   15 December 2009: Thank you again, for all your kind advice. Just to let you know that he finally got back in touch :) I am so glad I had the chance to tell him the truth and feel so much better for it even though it felt like i was doing the wrong thing at the time. ... (read in full...)

Woops, wrong name, wrong guy, wrong time

Q.   I met a really cool guy online in Sept. and he lives far away. It was going really well, and then I dated someone else I met a little later who lived closer. I felt guilty as I didn't love the second guy, and when we were intimate, I called him by ...

A.   9 December 2009: Thank you so much for the fatherly advice, I can see now what happened and am absolutley mortified that I acted like this and am so ashamed of my behaviour and made me cry. I can see that it was ego driven and it breaks my heart to think I am cap... (read in full...)

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