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writes: My husband doesn't have a car to get to work a female co worker has given him a ride from work and by his own admission they stop for her to pay a bill.. she has picked him up at 5am for work should I be concern? Some times i can take him and pick him up not often it will be some time until he get his license.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 June 2011): Is he hiding it from you or does he willingly tell you about it? There's your answer.
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reader, jomissy +, writes (6 June 2011):
jomissy is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you soooo much.. your right I'm barely alive at that time of morning and it isn't all the time he rides with different people and he just started the job I like how you put it... worried yet thank you guys so much I appreciate your response.
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reader, YouWish +, writes (6 June 2011):
Nah. I wouldn't be worried yet. Stopping to pay a bill seems hardly romantic, is perfectly reasonable and so far, he seems forthright in exactly who, where, and why. He doesn't have a car or a license, so carpooling is a valid reason.
Like tennisstar says, if he's home on time, there isn't a need to worry. I don't know about you, but 5am doesn't put me in any kind of romantic mood. Hell, I barely feel like speaking then and usually am getting my brain in gear for the day's work ahead while sipping on something with caffeine in it.
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reader, jomissy +, writes (6 June 2011):
jomissy is verified as being by the original poster of the questionOK tennisstar thank you.... the work start close to 5 or so he does have a wondering eye but we got married in 2010 so far so good can't give him the car no licenses and I guess your right pick him up and drop him off thank you so much for honesty and a direct response.
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (6 June 2011):
What time do they start their work day? Has your husband ever given you a reason not to trust him around other women?
If he's home on time then there's no reason to worry. Now, if you're that worried about it, then let him have the car for work or drive/pick him up yourself.
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