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No replies yet... 25 October 2009: This has nothing to do with relationships, but everyone loves a little humor! I adore this video, and it cracks me up in spite of the fact that my French is really bad (I'm trying to improve it). I finally found a version with English sub...
Any Harry Potter fans out there?
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6 July 2009: As a longtime fan, I became curious: If I were a student at Hogwarts, to what house would the Sorting Hat send me? I found this personality test on the internet, and, just for fun, I decided to share it: http://www.per...
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Opinions about perfume!
Q. Hi, This isn't a problem or anything but I want peoples opinion. What kind of perfume do guys like more? (girls can answer too) Fruity, floral, or more musky?? (any specific perfume would be helpful too :D ) thanks...
A. 13 December 2008: I just found out that Victoria's Secret does NOT do animal testing!! :) Is anyone else a fan of Rapture?? Whatever happened to Angel? The best perfume of all time. ... (read in full...)
I love her but she has a boyfriend, what do I do?
Q. I'm in love with my best friend, same old sorry haha. She is is in a 3 year long distance relationship, that is rocky to say the least. I finally told her one night "your my best friend but i want more than that, you dont feel the same way so ...
A. 7 December 2008: It's ok...
I just wish and wish I could turn back time and undo my mistakes. I wish I'd never made them, but I learned from them and hope that my experience will spare someone else some anguish.... (read in full...)
I love her but she has a boyfriend, what do I do?
Q. I'm in love with my best friend, same old sorry haha. She is is in a 3 year long distance relationship, that is rocky to say the least. I finally told her one night "your my best friend but i want more than that, you dont feel the same way so ...
A. 6 December 2008: I am sorry if I came across as cold but I assure you I didn't mean to be.
What I mean to say is, that friendships should be for life. It's painful to love a friend who is in a relationship, but a friendship can last for life :)... (read in full...)
Opinions about perfume!
Q. Hi, This isn't a problem or anything but I want peoples opinion. What kind of perfume do guys like more? (girls can answer too) Fruity, floral, or more musky?? (any specific perfume would be helpful too :D ) thanks...
A. 6 December 2008: I remember in one of my psychology classes I took, the teacher was talking about how humans communicate through scent. She said that your taste in perfumes is a clue as to your compatibility as a couple. For example, if you love a particular ... (read in full...)
I'm obsessed by Matthew Lewis!!!!!
Q. Hi, I'm 18 (turning 19 in February), been crazily into the Harry Potter series since I was eight, and I've been OBSESSED with Matthew Lewis (the amazingly hot and sweet guy who plays Neville Longbottom in the series) since I was 10. I would say I'd ...
A. 6 December 2008: No problem.
By the way, my best friend and I took the sorting hat test, as a joke really. According to the sorting hat, he belongs in Gryffindor (I knew it!).
(A series of tests put me in Slytherin, but the one on harrylatino.com ... (read in full...)
I love her but she has a boyfriend, what do I do?
Q. I'm in love with my best friend, same old sorry haha. She is is in a 3 year long distance relationship, that is rocky to say the least. I finally told her one night "your my best friend but i want more than that, you dont feel the same way so ...
A. 6 December 2008: Oh man, you have a soap opera on your hands.
I think that I can relate because I have been in a very similar situation and it sucks so much.
I fell for my best friend in college, but he is Mexican and I was in his country as an exchange stu... (read in full...)
Opinions about perfume!
Q. Hi, This isn't a problem or anything but I want peoples opinion. What kind of perfume do guys like more? (girls can answer too) Fruity, floral, or more musky?? (any specific perfume would be helpful too :D ) thanks...
A. 6 December 2008: Chanel No. 5... yay Daniel!! :)
I like Chanel because it smells awesome, but best of all, they DON'T use animal testing.
I won't buy it if they hurt some critter for it.
You have to remember, everyone's chemistry is different. A perfum... (read in full...)
I'm obsessed by Matthew Lewis!!!!!
Q. Hi, I'm 18 (turning 19 in February), been crazily into the Harry Potter series since I was eight, and I've been OBSESSED with Matthew Lewis (the amazingly hot and sweet guy who plays Neville Longbottom in the series) since I was 10. I would say I'd ...
A. 5 December 2008: Hola, I'm sorry that your relationship isn't working out. I don't understand why you're staying with this guy who is hurting you repeatedly? I believe in turning the other cheek but this boyfriend continues to hurt you and it doesn't sound li... (read in full...)
How can I cheer up?
Q. i feel so stressed out its un believable, i just feel so annoyed and under pressure with school and stuff. I also feel so useless, and like nothings ever going right it feels like if im not here it will be better :/ please help on how i can cheer up...
A. 1 December 2008: I've been through similar things and it sucks. It sucks a lot.
Psychiatrist to be has a great idea: Playing an instrument feels so wonderful. If you've never done it, you just try it and you'll understand how we feel.
I would like to ad... (read in full...)
How do you know what you've ruined a friendship?
Q. How do you "know" when you have ruined a friendship? I have a best friend that I care about so much that he means the sun and moon to be, but recently I said some things to him that were rash, impulsive, and selfish, and I know that I hurt him....
A. 28 November 2008: Thanks for your advice... it was kind of you to write back.
He is a real friend, because he sees past all of the things I hate myself for. I was angry about some things in my life, and taking it out on him, but it was selfish and so wrong...... (read in full...)
How do you know what you've ruined a friendship?
Q. How do you "know" when you have ruined a friendship? I have a best friend that I care about so much that he means the sun and moon to be, but recently I said some things to him that were rash, impulsive, and selfish, and I know that I hurt him....
A. 28 November 2008: Thanks for your advice... it was kind of you to write back.
He is a real friend, because he sees past all of the things I hate myself for. I was angry about some things in my life, and taking it out on him, but it was selfish and so wrong...... (read in full...)
I just curse myself for being gay.
Q. Hey guys and guyesses! Well I've recently told people that I'm gay and I have a boyfriend. I've told 2 really close mates before now but I've "come out" as it were. People are treating me so different! I mean most guy mates are just acting so ...
A. 26 November 2008: Don't put yourself down. Being gay doesn't mean you're inferior... you're just different. There's nothing wrong with you.
Your friends are the ones who should be ashamed of themselves. It's not right to turn one's back on a friend just because ... (read in full...)
What are the side effects to cinnamon?
Q. Can someone be allergic to cinamon? and if they were what wud the sud effects be ? ...
A. 25 November 2008: If you suspect you have an allergy, you should undergo an allergy test... unfortunately allergies can worsen, or appear, or lesson, over time. ... (read in full...)
Should I break my virginity or keep it?
Q. Hi everyone I really want the answer to this question. I am 25 years old, and am still a virgin. Should I go on to keep the virginity? Or should I break it? Your answer will be valued. ...
A. 20 November 2008: It's your choice, but remember, when you meet the one you love and want to give your heart to... if you've waited, you'll be glad you did.... (read in full...)
It was a genuine accident and now she won't talk to me!
Q. I was skate boarding with my girlfriend yesterday . She was wearing a tube top. I kept offering my hoodie to her top cause her looked like it going to fall down. Well I trip on something and I grabbed the first thing I could her tube top. It came ...
A. 18 November 2008: If you laughed at her with all your "cuates" (Mexican word for mates), she went to the bathroom in tears while you laughed, I'm sorry man, but you're lucky all she broke was your heart.
She's probably thinking, "Why look good for a guy who's ju... (read in full...)
My best friend and my girlfriend are getting to close to each other..
Q. My english is bad but i hope you can understand the thing..i have the same problem...my girlfriend is flirting with my best friend..i know they dont have nothing right now but theyt are to close to each other...and they hide things to me..it hurts ...
A. 16 November 2008: You have to have trust to have a relationship, and it's hard because you love her, but she's doing things to lose your trust. I'm confused because you guys are still completely in love, but you say that you are afraid that they will fall in love ... (read in full...)
It was a genuine accident and now she won't talk to me!
Q. I was skate boarding with my girlfriend yesterday . She was wearing a tube top. I kept offering my hoodie to her top cause her looked like it going to fall down. Well I trip on something and I grabbed the first thing I could her tube top. It came ...
A. 16 November 2008: In what state do you guys live? It's November, and it's freezing here in NC, and most of the country, I imagine... what in the world was she doing wearing a tube top????
Accidents happen, but your "crime" is that you laughed at her. You did not ... (read in full...)
I'm terrified he won't like me once I get my braces fitted.
Q. I've been dating my bf for about 9 months and I'm getting braces soon, I wonder if they will make him fall out of love with me after I get my braces on? He is in a different grade level he will be going to college in a year. I fear that he will go ...
A. 16 November 2008: If he truly loves you, then he will still love you. I know that we're all insecure about losing someone we love... but there are much worse things than getting braces. If he fell out of love with you because you got braces, then he is not only ... (read in full...)
Why won't they let me just live my own life?
Q. I'm 20 and a Muslim and come from a traditional family. I don't talk to my dad even though we live in the same house and don't have a good relationship with my mum. In our culture, the family name comes first so you shouldn't do anything that brings ...
A. 16 November 2008: I like Miss Potter's answer. I think it is excellent. It takes a lot of strength to get away from a situation like this, but I wish you the best of luck.
I am very anti-prejudiced and don't want to sound like a bigot but perhaps the Muslim f... (read in full...)
He's my teacher and I've fallen pregnant to him!!!!! HELP!
Q. Ok.. here's the thing.. I've been seeing this guy for all of nine and half months now and only recently we both decided we would consumate our relationship. It was my first time and I'm glad it was with him. It was very special and so is he. He...
A. 16 November 2008: You are 19, in the eyes of British law, you're an adult. I don't know what the school authorities would do if they were to find out, but since you are both legally adults, it's not their business.
You've asked for opinions, and I don't judge...... (read in full...)
Caught my daughter masterbating
Q. I caught my daughter masturbating at her room with a dildo,and she was orgasming, she then noticed me and went to the bathroom crying. What should I tell her?...
A. 16 November 2008: You're between 22 and 25??
How old is your daughter??
I'm not sure how she got her hands on a dildo, but keep it away from her. Don't let her go in your stuff.
I wouldn't mention it to her again, don't make her feel ashamed or embarras... (read in full...)
Do guys like a girl thats into cars and video games?
Q. Do guys like a girl thats into video games, and fixing up cars? I'm curious cuz I'm into cars and video games. I've been helping my dad fix the 68Galaxiy. Also doing co-op with him on new games. Answers from anyone would be nice....
A. 16 November 2008: Hello,
When it comes to what guys like, there's no way to generalize. In Spanish, we have a saying: "En gustos se rompen generos." It means that the tastes and likes and dislikes out there run the gamut from A to Z (or "ah" to "zeta" in Spani... (read in full...)
Should I proceed with this relationship, or is the age difference going to mess us up?
Q. So, I'm 15, turning 16 in like, two and a half months or something. I like this guy who's 21. He's really sweet, smart, funny and terribly caring My parents won't let me see him, but I've been telling them I'm with someone else. My question is, ...
A. 14 November 2008: I teach high school, so I can understand 100 percent why you see guys your own age as immature. Unfortunately many (I said MANY, not all) are. However, dating a 21-year-old guy at your age can get you into trouble. I hope that you find a suitable ... (read in full...)
I'm scared to grind... what should I do?
Q. so im 14 and i went to my school dance the other day. all of a sudden the guys started grinding. i live in a small town and the guys only were grinding with this small group of girls who almost all the guys like. me and my friends were dancing ...
A. 14 November 2008: Why do you have to grind?
I sense that you feel awkward or embarrassed about grinding. Dancing is supposed to be sensual, but tasteful. I love dancing, but grinding on the other hand, cheapens the experience of dancing... call me old-... (read in full...)
HOT trainer!
Q. hey guys, well i got a question i go to a GYM near my house and we are all pretty friendly with each other, i got a personal trainer who is the cutest and sweetest guy ive seen in a longgg time. It was our first session and instead of it being an ...
A. 14 November 2008: The poster who said that you should be faithful to the gym is absolutely right. It also ocurred to me that you could talk to him, be his friend and find out his interests... having interests in common helps! :)... (read in full...)
She said she likes me but she's still in love with him!
Q. Basically I've been having this on and off relationship with someone for over a year now. The problem is she was/is in a long distance relationship with someone from another country that she only sees once a year. He was her first b/f, p...
A. 14 November 2008: I don't want to hurt you, but I don't think that this girl is in a position to give her heart to you right now. I'm sure you're wonderful, but I think that she is being contradictive because she loves that man, but doesn't know if things are ever ... (read in full...)
How does one go about getting an abortion?
Q. hia. im 15 and im pregnant. im so terrified. i dont want to keep the baby and want an abortion. can i go throught with an abortion with out my parents finding out?...
A. 13 November 2008: I think that you should tell your parents. I know how terrified you must feel, but if you were to have an abortion, you will look back and regret it, even if you can't imagine it now. I just don't feel right telling someone to have an abortion ... (read in full...)
Christians waiting until marriage for sex, but how far should/can we go?
Q. Me and my boyfriend are both Christians and are waiting to have sex until we're married. I doubt we will end up marrying each other, but we are having a great relationship. I'm just concerned with how far we should go. We've made out a few times, a...
A. 12 November 2008: I think that the idea is, that there is a slippery slope and one thing can lead to another.
I feel bad about having gotten away from my faith, but I've still never "been there." Even at the ripe old age of 29 I'm still holding out hopes of... (read in full...)
I don't have many new friends, how can I fix this?
Q. Hello. I hope you can help. I feel really depressed. I feel like I haven't got a friend in the world and that I am surrounded by fakes. I am on a social networking site, and a lot of people I knew at school have added me. The thing is, they very ...
A. 12 November 2008: Hi, I'm from the USA but I've always wanted to go to the UK. You're welcome here in my country... although I am wanting to go abroad. Send me a private message, I could be your Florida pen pal. I live in North Carolina right now, it's no fun... (read in full...)
My wife wants a boob job... why does she think I don't find her attractive
Q. My wife wants a boob job because she doesn't think I don't find her attractive not sure where she got that idea. I told she doesn't need one and being a drama queen. I admit do look at other women and I do flirt with other women at work (she caught ...
A. 12 November 2008: Do you tell her that you find her attractive?
Hmm I'm not trying to be mean, but imagine how she's feeling. If YOU caught her flirting with male co-workers, how would YOU feel?
... (read in full...)
I want my dad out of my life because of the way he treated me and my partner!
Q. i keep worrying about the future. when my father first found out about me and my partners big age gap he was furious with me and told me i was never to see him again. i wasn't happy with this at all as my father has hardly ever been in my life so i ...
A. 12 November 2008: Your father is probably trying to protect you.
He's been around awhile, and he's learned many things that you have yet to learn. That's what parents are for. I'm not saying they're always right, but he's older and wiser, and I'm sure that he's... (read in full...)
Does anyone know anything about manic depression?
Q. I think i might be Bipolar, my moods are high and low constantly and people say it's just hormones but when im low i get really low and my sex drive is so high. i'm worried to go to the doctors about it though because in later life when i'm applying ...
A. 12 November 2008: I'm not sure what the laws are in Britain regarding job applications, but I should think that it would be confidential.
Only a doctor can make a diagnosis, though... I hate for anyone to suffer from depression, but there could be other causes. ... (read in full...)
Christmas is coming up and I don't know what to ask for!
Q. I'm really stuck...everyone keeps asking me what i want for Christmas and i really have no idea what to ask for??? any suggestions for a teenage boy welcome:) Thanks:)...
A. 12 November 2008: I think that it depends on your interests.
Is there a cause you support? For example, breast cancer or saving the whales? Is there a (reputable) charity? Maybe you could ask for donations in your name.
One of the coolest presents I ever ... (read in full...)
Lying about my life just so he is interested in me!
Q. i am gonna sound so strange but here we go. Well recently i have made friends with this boy, and we have become really close, but i have been telling him lies, just so he is interested in me :( i told him i have 8 sisters 5 cars and my hair colou...
A. 12 November 2008: I'm not trying to be mean, but I'd be skeptical of anyone who told me that they have 8 sisters and 5 cars.
Why does it matter how many sisters and cars you have?
I have NO sisters, and my auto is a decrepit piece of you-know-what. If someone s... (read in full...)
What can I get my 16-year-old boyfriend for Christmas?
Q. hiya its almost christmas!!! and my boyfrind has already brought me a gift and i have no idea what to get him he's 16 and it so difficult on what to decide on what to get him its our 2nd christmas together weve been together for a lil ova a...
A. 12 November 2008: Perhaps it wouldn't have to be a material thing, but a special outing or event. It may be a bit pricey but perhaps tickets to a concert? Or a special trip, depending on where in Britain you live? :)... (read in full...)
How to deal with a family member who is undergoing surgery and treatment for breast cancer.
Q. Hi, this isn't a dating or love question, this is a question about how to deal with a family member who is undergoing surgery and treatment for breast cancer. I just want to make sure that I'm dealing with her and helping in the best possible way. ...
A. 12 November 2008: Daniel is absolutely right. He's really smart and a true friend :)
You sound like a true friend also :)... (read in full...)
What can I get my 16-year-old boyfriend for Christmas?
Q. hiya its almost christmas!!! and my boyfrind has already brought me a gift and i have no idea what to get him he's 16 and it so difficult on what to decide on what to get him its our 2nd christmas together weve been together for a lil ova a...
A. 9 November 2008: You can't go wrong with something that you made. I like the photo album idea. Are you artistic? You could create a portrait of him, for example. You could knit him a scarf. It's not expensive but you put your heart and labor into it. You ca... (read in full...)
Do I go after girls my own age or girls the same age as I look?
Q. I'm 24 years old but I look like I'm 15. Never had a serious relationship. My question is, who am I supposed to be targeting as a potential partner here? Girls my own age aren't interested because I look like a kid. Girls who are my age but ...
A. 7 November 2008: Your emotional maturity level is what is really going to count in the long run in a relationship. It matters so much more than your appearance... just because you look young doesn't mean that you can't have a social life. It doesn't mean you're ... (read in full...)
Is he abusive or just throwing a tantrum?
Q. My boyfriend has shoved me, pulled my hair, held his hand over my mouth, and now he has choked me. I don't really think he was choking me with the intent on killing me, but more to scare me. He keeps telling me that I just need to know when to ...
A. 5 November 2008: No one deserves to be treated the way your boyfriend is treating you. He's abusing you, and you need to leave this creep right now. There's no excuse for his behaviour. I don't care if it's lack of nicotine, or caffeine, it is NEVER ACCEPTABLE to ... (read in full...)
I'm being bullied, does anyone know any good comebacks?
Q. okay, i am being verbally bullied. do you have any comebacks or insults???????????????????...
A. 5 November 2008: Is this happening at school?
You need to go to the school authorities and tell them what is happening. Bullying shouldn't be tolerated, and the school authorities need to put a stop to it.... (read in full...)
I want to have sex with him because I know he's leaving in 8 months.
Q. I am 14 years old dating a foreign exchange student who will be leaving in 8 months. We've been only dating exactly a month and I want to have sex with him because I know hes leaving and I need to fast forward... I know it's too soon and I'm too ...
A. 5 November 2008: JustChillin,
Why do you have to be so mean?
I agree that this girl has no business having sex with her boyfriend, but passing value judgements is not our place.
Honestly, who can look back at age 14 and say, "I was never tempted to do anyt... (read in full...)
I want to have sex with him because I know he's leaving in 8 months.
Q. I am 14 years old dating a foreign exchange student who will be leaving in 8 months. We've been only dating exactly a month and I want to have sex with him because I know hes leaving and I need to fast forward... I know it's too soon and I'm too ...
A. 5 November 2008: Don't tell us where you live, but what are some fun things to do where you live?
More ideas: If you live in New York, for example, you could take him to a Broadway play?
If you're lucky enough to live in Florida, like I said, you can take him... (read in full...)
How can I tell my girlfriend in a good way that her facial hair bothers me a lot?
Q. I've been with my girlfriend for 6 years and love her very much, but she kind of has a lot of facial hair and it really bothers me. I haven't said anything over the years because I don't want to hurt her feelings and ultimately it doesn't keep me ...
A. 4 November 2008: It probably makes her feel self-conscious and to be direct might really hurt her feelings. I'm not sure why she hasn't done something about it, it's bound to make her feel self-conscious. Perhaps you could get her a gift certificate to a ... (read in full...)
I want to have sex with him because I know he's leaving in 8 months.
Q. I am 14 years old dating a foreign exchange student who will be leaving in 8 months. We've been only dating exactly a month and I want to have sex with him because I know hes leaving and I need to fast forward... I know it's too soon and I'm too ...
A. 4 November 2008: There are things that you guys can do that are much more special, and memorable than sex. You're only 14, and it would be wrong to have sex under these circumstances, and I know that you love him, but you will regret it. I think that instead, yo... (read in full...)
I'm not LIVING my life, I'm just putting up with it.
Q. I am at this site because I am truly at the end of my rope. This has gone on for so long that something has got to give, or I am literally going to go crazy. I badly need someone who will try to help me with advice and not judge me. My proble...
A. 4 November 2008: Whether North Carolina is bad, is very relative.
My heart just isn't here... I'm from a town called Melbourne, Florida. We moved here and I was so homesick that my heart sank, and I longed to go back to Florida.
Everyone told me I'd fall in ... (read in full...)
I'm not LIVING my life, I'm just putting up with it.
Q. I am at this site because I am truly at the end of my rope. This has gone on for so long that something has got to give, or I am literally going to go crazy. I badly need someone who will try to help me with advice and not judge me. My proble...
A. 2 November 2008: Suicide is so, so very wrong because situations like this are a test. I stand my ground and I fight :)... (read in full...)
I'm not LIVING my life, I'm just putting up with it.
Q. I am at this site because I am truly at the end of my rope. This has gone on for so long that something has got to give, or I am literally going to go crazy. I badly need someone who will try to help me with advice and not judge me. My proble...
A. 2 November 2008: I just wanted to say thanks to everyone who answered. I am so, so grateful. I know I just had to get all of that off my chest, or I would explode. I play the guitar but with music, you have to have interaction. If you don't have anyone to p... (read in full...)
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