If a girl regularly wears tight clothes or shows skin, does that mean she may not be faithful in a relationship?
Q. OK, I may get flack for this, but the Agony Aunts have given me wise advice thus far so I will give my question a chance: In brief: If a girl you know dresses very immodestly, is that a red flag for a possible future relationship? ...
A. 31 December 2010: I was raised by an old-fashioned mother. No short skirts, cute boots or pierced ears. Plus, my father and brothers would tell me that guys really don’t want to take a girl home if she reveals too much (clothing-wise). I also got the talk about, ... (read in full...)
It smells down there. Do I need to see a doctor?
Q. Hi there. I have a problem...whenever me and my boyfriend have sex he says it smells down there bad to him...so i went and bought summer eves bodys wash and wipes for whenever im not at home well i used these products and the smell goes away but ...
A. 26 December 2010: You might want to try an over- the-counter Yeast Infection Treatment. They sell them in most grocery or drug stores. I like the three day treatment ones myself. I have to use them every time after I have sex. I believe it has something to do ... (read in full...)
Girlfriend has a low sex drive
Q. I'm 27 and I've been with my girlfriend, 26, for almost 3 years. I love her, but there is a big lack of sex; averaging once a month or less ( we sleep together almost every night). In fact we never really had a lot. Every once in a while, we would ...
A. 2 December 2010: Absolutely, have a good conversation with her about this; she really needs to know how you feel. I believe that everyone needs to be educated in how sex is perceived by men and by women. Men need sex to help them get close to and feel loved by ... (read in full...)
Do women like to catch a glimpse of a man's penis or balls?
Q. Do women like it when men wear shortish kind of shorts and maybe you catch a glimpse of what he is packing here or there (san undies, of course). I love it when I happen to catch a glimpse up a woman's skirt, or into her shorts, or down her top to ...
A. 21 October 2010: I agree with all of ladies, YUCK! Girls definitely do not like seeing any part of a guy peeking out of anywhere, it's more of a turn off. I don't know why, but seeing a toned guy with jeans and no shirt is more of turn on than a naked guy. We are ... (read in full...)
I'm disgusted by her nipples! How can I get past this?
Q. I have a new girl I really like in every way. Sex has been great. My problem? I am a boob man, and I really love nipples. In particular, I just go crazy over a girl with petite pink nipples that get really erect. Now, they don't have to be ...
A. 11 August 2010: "I just go crazy over a girl with petite pink nipples that get really erect." Honey, good luck finding these girls! I always wanted a tall-dark handsome guy with dimples, brown eyes, muscles, a lot of hair on his head and no hair on his chest, ... (read in full...)
Please help with my wifes sex drive!
Q. [MOD NOTE: Op's Original Title] I am now 4 months into marriage and I feel lost and depressed over my wife’s lack of sex drive. We have been together for 6 years and we have been battling her dwindling sex drive for the last two years. She started ...
A. 11 August 2010: I also didn't have any sex drive; and my OBGYN prescribed the testosterone cream. I thought it was a waste of time and money. It didn't work at all. Finally, I went to my family doctor and had him run new blood tests that found I had NO measurable ... (read in full...)
Please help with my wifes sex drive!
Q. [MOD NOTE: Op's Original Title] I am now 4 months into marriage and I feel lost and depressed over my wife’s lack of sex drive. We have been together for 6 years and we have been battling her dwindling sex drive for the last two years. She started ...
A. 11 August 2010: I also didn't have any sex drive; and my OBGYN prescribed the testosterone cream. I thought it was a waste of time and money. It didn't work at all. Finally, I went to my family doctor and had him run new blood tests that found I had NO measurable ... (read in full...)
Uncircumsized, is it really that gross?
Q. Are there any girls out there that prefer an uncircumcised man? I just had a girl in a club push me into a bathroom stall in the mens room. After some kissing she got on her knees, and unzipped my pants. When she saw my stuff, she visibly reco...
A. 8 August 2010: My first boyfriend was uncircumcised and I loved giving him bj and I had no idea he was uncir. The other men in my life have been circumcised and I've loved givng them bjs too. I believe this girl was immature and very insensitive. Remember quality ... (read in full...)
Depressed after night of drunken sex...
Q. I went to a party and got drunk. I ended up having sex with a girl I just met. I was a virgin and this is the biggest mistake of my life. I feel depressed and don't know what to do....
A. 8 August 2010: Don't be too hard on yourself about what happened. But you now know that there are a few things that you need to be a little more discerning about. Like not drinking too much and how far you want to go with a girl. It must be difficult in this ... (read in full...)
Is it okay to have a secret affair, as the sex situation is beyond repair?
Q. I am in a sexless Marriage (for over 3 years of no sex), and believe me I've tried to resolve it. But my wife remains uninterested in sex, and it just seems like we share a house as barely friends. I in the meantime have a very high sex drive, ...
A. 9 July 2010: Do your still love one another? Maybe she could be helped by going to see a medical doctor. I also had a very low sex drive. I finally asked to have my testosterone level checked; and lo and behold I had no measurable testosterone in me! I’ve ... (read in full...)
She hurts me so much and I don't know what to do!
Q. I've been with my girlfirend for about 8months now. When we started dating she was a sweetheart and was so nice. After the third month she began to fight with me with for just about anything small or big. She would start the fight, get me heated and ...
A. 5 July 2010: Sweetie, you really need to distance yourself from this girl. She doesn’t sound emotionally mature, like you said she sounds like she’s got mayor emotional problems. You don’t want to be with someone that humiliates and criticizes you constantly. ... (read in full...)
His want for sex is exhausting me!!!
Q. I just moved in with my boyfriend several weeks ago. I had been holding off having sex for a long time and we finally started having it a little while before I moved in. Now that we're living together, he wants to have sex all of the time. It's ...
A. 5 July 2010: I wish I’d had something like DearCupid to ask questions 30 years ago. One thing I’ve learned from experience is to communicate with your partner. Tell him nicely what you like and don’t like from the beginning. Remember, you might have to ... (read in full...)
I am shy, would like some advice on dating and being spontaneous??
Q. ok, so i have never dated a girl before and I`m just scared that I might not be spontanius (sorry for spelling), romantic, or brave enough in a relationship with a girl. I`m the kind of guy that doesn`t have a problem playing games and surfing the ...
A. 5 July 2010: Please don’t worry about being spontaneous, there are girls that will love you just the way you are. Spontaneity is sometimes soverrated. I adore shy guys and have always had a soft spot for them. Thank heavens we all like different kinds of ... (read in full...)
Ladies, what parts of a man are most attractive?
Q. Ladies, which body parts of a man do you find most attractive? Abs, legs, arms, eyes etc. ...
A. 30 June 2010: 1. Personality
2. Smile
3. Eyes
4. Deep voice
5. Adam's apple
6. Shoulders
7. Arms
8. Hands
9. Chest
10. Butt
... (read in full...)
I'm tired all the time! What's going on?
Q. i don't sleep well at night..i take sleeping pills at times and still don't get a good night sleep. I don't ever sleep a 5-6 hours straight without waking up. After work i am just happy to come home and take a nap. Naps are where i get my best ...
A. 7 June 2010: Please do go see your doctor and have him give you a thourough physical and blood test. I’m a little older than you, but I had many of your same symptoms. After my doctor read the blood test results; my hormone levels were out of whack and some ... (read in full...)
How do ever find love again after your first love?
Q. hey, i was wondering do you ever find love after your first one? i havnt really stopped thinking about her over the last year, and i feel stuck and frustrated because i dont want to go against my feelings for her and meet someone new, but i know i ...
A. 27 January 2010: If this first love was an intense, very passionate, heart pounding, sweaty palms that was almost an obsessive kind of love. If you thought about her almost all of your waking hours and loved sleeping so you could continue dreaming about her. You ... (read in full...)
Am I jealous?
Q. hey, im 14 and in a relationship with the most beautiful girl ever. and wen ever we talk about my best friend i would get jealous. so in the past she ask me if he was going out with someone for a friend and he was so i said yeah. well the point...
A. 31 December 2009: Feeling jealousy is a natural, just don’t let it get out of hand. If you feel comfortable doing so, you can always joke with her about it like; “is there something I need to worry about?” I’m sure you have many wonderful and positive qualities. I’d ... (read in full...)
What is consider to be a pedophile? Do these situations fall under that?
Q. hi guys another question that keeps popping up in my head if your a teenager and your thinking of/having sex with someone else around your age is it considered as paedophilia and another question if your under 14 and your thinking of/ having ...
A. 25 December 2009: No it's not considered pedophilia. You are only a pedophiliac if you are older than 18 and HAVE sex with someone under the age of 18. Most countries have different laws, some say age of consent is 17 others 18; I’m not sure what it is in UK. But ... (read in full...)
I'm 28, He's 66. Do you think the age difference is too great?
Q. I need to know other peoples opinion about my current relationship. I am 28 year old female and dating a 66 year old male. Nobody in my family knows about it because I am quite sure they are not going to approve. I really love this man and some...
A. 5 August 2009: If you love each other and make each other happy, I say go for it. There will always be cynics that can't believe that a young girl or guy could “really” be inlove with an older person. You do need to be realistic and realize that your time ... (read in full...)
Why do women place such importance on the emotional side of sex?
Q. Okay, I have a question for both men and women. My girlfriend and I have been together for over a year. When it comes to sex, she claims to love it with me and tells me that I make her feel better than anyone has before - physically but then she ...
A. 16 July 2009: Tisha-1, you rock girlfriend! I can’t remember where I read this about the difference between men and women when is come to sex. In order for men to feel bonded to a woman, they need to have sex. Men have simpler needs. Women on the other hand, ... (read in full...)
I don't want sex, but she's had sex once before. Should I start a relationship with her?
Q. Should i start to invest in a relationship with a girl i like who has had sex once before?? She's told me that she's fine with not doing any of that stuff with me....i'm not like that. i want to stay abstinent....
A. 10 July 2009: It’s so refreshing to see a guy that wants to wait. There are a lot more like you out there you know? If you read most of the questions on this site, you wouldn’t believe it, though! I guess I was raised in an old-fashioned way too. Now-a-da... (read in full...)
I can't bear to spend my life in USA. I know in my heart I don't belong...
Q. This question isn't exactly about a boy/girl relationship, but my heart IS breaking, and I really need answers, and as an aunt myself, I've given so much so please let this technicality slide. If there is someone out there who can help me, I'll ...
A. 19 April 2009: Dear Spanish Lover, I say, go for it! It sounds like it’s in your heart to go and until you see and experience Spain for yourself, you won’t be happy. I think it would be a wonderful adventure and you are young and adventurous so go. Go and see... (read in full...)
Ladies: Turn ons & turn offs
Q. Ladies let's help our DC brothers out! We sometimes have sincere and genuine questions about what women think. Post here your number one turn-on and number one turn-off you have about a man. If yours is already mentioned, go to your next one. ...
A. 17 April 2009: Turn on: Sweet & Kind
Turn off: Stingy... (read in full...)
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