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No replies yet... 25 October 2009: This has nothing to do with relationships, but everyone loves a little humor! I adore this video, and it cracks me up in spite of the fact that my French is really bad (I'm trying to improve it). I finally found a version with English sub...
Any Harry Potter fans out there?
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6 July 2009: As a longtime fan, I became curious: If I were a student at Hogwarts, to what house would the Sorting Hat send me? I found this personality test on the internet, and, just for fun, I decided to share it: http://www.per...
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Can I fit in at university even if I don't "party hearty"?
Q. Hi. Im due to start university next month and am getting a bit worried. I took a year out before going to university to basically do some work. During that year I feel I have grown up a lot, met a new group of friends, my interests have changed ...
A. 30 August 2008: I think that the year out idea is brilliant. In USA, where I live, nobody ever takes a "gap year" and I feel like they come to college completely unprepared. Some students have never done anything for themselves, and they come into college and ... (read in full...)
My teacher wrote in my year book that I am a very inquisitive and stylish young lady. Does this mean he likes me?
Q. Im a 17 year old highschool female senior. i have had a crush on this italian male teacher since i met him last year. he tutored me in math and sometimes we would be alone in his classroom alone with his door closed and i would ask him questions ...
A. 30 August 2008: As an unbiased third person, I can see this situation more clearly. I don't know your teacher, but I think the comments in the yearbook are completely above board and innocent, and that he is being friendly fond of you as a person. I feel bad ... (read in full...)
Why do I always pee after sex?
Q. I pee every after sex. What about you gals? Is it normal? Please help me to understand why i pee after sex. Thanks! ...
A. 30 August 2008: Actually, you're supposed to pee after sex (and before sex, too) whether or not you have the urge, because it drastically reduce your risk of a bladder infection. It helps to get rid of the bacteria in the urethra. ... (read in full...)
Should I stop masturbating?
Q. Masterbation is the best, but my girlfriend told me to stop because she said that it is like killing millions of babies, and one that could have had a chance to live, should I stop, or should I keep masterbating. she said she would dump me if I ...
A. 30 August 2008: Also, she might try to pressure you into having sex with her. Don't let someone pressure you into doing something you don't want to do. I don't know if your girlfriend is like that but unfortunately there are people who are.... (read in full...)
She took my dog away from me!
Q. I've had my dog, Benji she is a chow. Anyway i've had her for 9 years since before my mommy past away so benji kinda all i have left my mom. My dad remarried months after her death. Anyways a few nights ago my step-mother ask how i felt i she got ...
A. 30 August 2008: I'm with kelvinator, your dad needs to stand up to your stepmom about this. Benji has always been yours, after all. ... (read in full...)
He has turned from Prince Charming to a big jerk. What should I do about this
Q. I am a single mother of 3 and I met a guy who seemed very sweet and loving towards my children. He was a complete gentlemen and took me out and treated me like a princess. Well, 2 months have gone by and he has become a total jerk. He made my ...
A. 30 August 2008: He's doing things that are sweet, and nice, because he doesn't want you to leave him. Dump him!! Any time someone has two faces... the jerk personality is the true one.... (read in full...)
She took my dog away from me!
Q. I've had my dog, Benji she is a chow. Anyway i've had her for 9 years since before my mommy past away so benji kinda all i have left my mom. My dad remarried months after her death. Anyways a few nights ago my step-mother ask how i felt i she got ...
A. 30 August 2008: I'm sorry about your mom. I know that it's so sad to lose a loved one at any age, especially such a young age. However, I don't understand why she wants to get rid of the dog. Benji has been with you through all of your loss and upheaval... (read in full...)
Should I stop masturbating?
Q. Masterbation is the best, but my girlfriend told me to stop because she said that it is like killing millions of babies, and one that could have had a chance to live, should I stop, or should I keep masterbating. she said she would dump me if I ...
A. 30 August 2008: Sorry buddy but your girfriend is very, very misinformed about this. It's not killing... and unlike having sex it isn't risky, it can't cause a disease, or pregnancy. It's a lot better to get it out of your system that to become sexually active, ... (read in full...)
If a girl says she will always regard you as a good friend, is there any hope for a change?
Q. Hi all, My question here is...if a girl tells you that she will always regard you as a good friend, does it mean that it is doomsday for the guy? Totally no hope of becoming something more? So what are the steps a guy should take to avoid the '...
A. 30 August 2008: The thing that I want most in a boyfriend is a boyfriend who is, above all, my best friend. (It also helps if he's a romantic latino, but I'm biased so I won't get into what I like) In order to truly be a lover, you have to be a friend first.
U... (read in full...)
What can I do to get the guts to talk to her?
Q. Alright I know this question has been asked many times, because I've seen but they aren't what I'm looking for. So I'm going to ask anyway! (I'm a freshman in high school; well in ways I hoped that would make it easier to answer my question) ...
A. 30 August 2008: I think that the answer is to get the courage up to try. I know that you fear rejection, but even if the worst happened, it's not the end of the world. I've learned in life, that my biggest regrets are things that I DIDN'T do... not the things I ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend treats me really bad... will he change someday?
Q. Hi, I apologize if this is long but it wil help u understand, I think neway. He has ben my boyfriend 4 almost 2yrs now. There have been sum issues but it seems 2 b getin worse. Here is sum backgrnd info on him tht mite help. ill try 2make this s...
A. 30 August 2008: You need to get out of this relationship, now. NOTHING, I repeat, NOTHING justifies a male hitting a female. He's hitting you because he's a scumbag! Furthermore, he's committing a CRIME (assault) and he belongs in jail. What worries me is that ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend treats me really bad... will he change someday?
Q. Hi, I apologize if this is long but it wil help u understand, I think neway. He has ben my boyfriend 4 almost 2yrs now. There have been sum issues but it seems 2 b getin worse. Here is sum backgrnd info on him tht mite help. ill try 2make this s...
A. 30 August 2008: You need to get out of this relationship, now. NOTHING, I repeat, NOTHING justifies a male hitting a female. He's hitting you because he's a scumbag! Furthermore, he's committing a CRIME (assault) and he belongs in jail. What worries me is that ... (read in full...)
I'm 35, single, and still a virgin, but my religion sees sex before marriage as a sin. What can I do?
Q. hi I found this website may be can help in this matter. I am single guy,35 years old.I am still virgin.I am live in uK but i am from Egypt and christian. MY regailion refuse any sex before marriage and in my religion sex before ma...
A. 30 August 2008: I sense that you're struggling because, on the one hand, you desire to be true to the Christian life, but on the other hand, there is a lot of pressure to have sex outside of marriage. I think that if you are a Christian, then you will have ... (read in full...)
How is losing my virginity going to feel? And what steps do I take to move it to full on sex?
Q. hi there im 16 and im gunna have sex with my boyfriend at the weekend, im a virgin and have only ever kissed a guy before. i dont know what to do nd hes really experienced and knows alot bout sex and positions but i know nothing whatso ever, wh...
A. 22 August 2008: Also I provided advice that I thought was appropriate... the original poster is going to have sex, no matter what. Having sex with a condom is definitely the lesser of two evils. Your health is more important than momentary pleasure when all's ... (read in full...)
My best friend has a girlfriend, but I love him, too
Q. right i reli dnt no what to do.. i am in love.. right the story is i have known this boy all of my life and we have always clicked and got on really well, about 3 years ago, we both liked each other but always seemed to deny it for some reason, so ...
A. 22 August 2008: If he is truly a friend, then he would never abandon you. I really hate girls that demand that their boyfriends abandon their female friends. How would anyone feel if about their best friend throwing them away? Pretty cut up about it, I know. ... (read in full...)
How is losing my virginity going to feel? And what steps do I take to move it to full on sex?
Q. hi there im 16 and im gunna have sex with my boyfriend at the weekend, im a virgin and have only ever kissed a guy before. i dont know what to do nd hes really experienced and knows alot bout sex and positions but i know nothing whatso ever, wh...
A. 22 August 2008: Using protection, birth control... or self-control does NOT make you a loser. The only reason to have sex is because it feels good... for fifteen minutes. The consequences can last a lifetime, and they are severe.
I'm a high school teacher,... (read in full...)
How is losing my virginity going to feel? And what steps do I take to move it to full on sex?
Q. hi there im 16 and im gunna have sex with my boyfriend at the weekend, im a virgin and have only ever kissed a guy before. i dont know what to do nd hes really experienced and knows alot bout sex and positions but i know nothing whatso ever, wh...
A. 20 August 2008: I think that you should give careful thought to this. I don't mean to judge you but sex isn't something that you should rush into. I understand that you're at that age when the hormones and sexual desires are screaming to be released. it could be ... (read in full...)
Will some one help me stay a happy 13 year old?
Q. I feel bad for my self, I feel like i've had a horriable life....Will some one help me stay a happy 13 year old? When i was 3 i had holes in my heart so i needed open heart surgery, twice. At age 4 my dad ran me over with the expodetion, he did not ...
A. 19 August 2008: A counselor should never, ever, repeat what you tell them to anyone else, unless they have reason to believe that you're in danger, or that someone else is in danger. There are a few good ones, though. Be careful about the people that you trust ... (read in full...)
The real issues about pupil/teacher relationships?
Q. I have been with dear cupid for a while now, and, i have found that there are quite a few questions about pupil/teacher relationships, I have myself posted a couple. But it never ceases to amaze me. Has anyone got an opinion or story they could ...
A. 18 August 2008: Interesting answers here.
I myself think that often both are to blame with the body language of the teachers mis interpreted by the pupils.
But I love it when a relationship goes nicely, but the thing i really hate is when people say its w... (read in full...)
I'm older than the girl I met, is that bad?
Q. I am a 29 year old male from the UK. Two months ago, I met this lovely 21 year old young lady. I have fallen head over heels for her; we are very much in love. But, the age gap bothers me. Does it really matter that my girlfriend is many years yo...
A. 18 August 2008: Tim, both you and the girlfriend are adults... in Britain you're legally an adult when you're 18, and both you and your girlfriend are over 18. You're not doing anything immoral or perverted. You've found this special love, and if you are ... (read in full...)
Will some one help me stay a happy 13 year old?
Q. I feel bad for my self, I feel like i've had a horriable life....Will some one help me stay a happy 13 year old? When i was 3 i had holes in my heart so i needed open heart surgery, twice. At age 4 my dad ran me over with the expodetion, he did not ...
A. 18 August 2008: I am sorry about your mom. That really sucks!!
I don't know how you feel, because I'm not you, but I can understand that you want to be loved, accepted and understood. Adults aren't always perfect and it sounds like your stepmom is being unfa... (read in full...)
I feel like I'm not good enough for my girlfriend. How can I be a great boyfriend?
Q. Hey I've been going out with my girl for 3 months,we have a wonderful relationship but like all we have our ups and downs.. At some points I feel as if im not good enough for her She is basically anything a guy can ask for she's nice,smart,beaut...
A. 18 August 2008: You say that you feel like you're not good enough for her, but I think that you lack confidence. I'm definitely not saying that you should be cocky, but if you make yourself out to be inferior it turns people off. It could be that the lack of ... (read in full...)
His ex was a glamour model I can't compete with; why is he dating me...?
Q. I have recently started seeing this really fit bloke and I am really happy but I have just found out that he used to date a glamour model and it ended badly between them, anyway, my situation is that I am the most flat chested female ever, and I am ...
A. 18 August 2008: There is this saying in Spanish: "en gustos se rompen generos," and it translates roughly to "everyone has different tastes." Of course you can compete. It's not about who is the "better." That's relative. For him, you may the best person to be ... (read in full...)
How do you french kiss?
Q. I av no idea how 2 french kiss, nd i'm scared i'll bite my bf tongue if i do....can u give me some advice? Its urgently needed....
A. 18 August 2008: You have to have the perfect music! It's like dancing just give in to the rhythm of the music and you can't go wrong. ... (read in full...)
I'm worried that my boyfriend will find another girl when he goes to uni. How can I get over this jealousy?
Q. My boyfriend goes off to university in september but im 2 years younger than him so im still at high school. Im the jealous type although i try not to be and im getting paranoid that he will go off to uni find another girl spend all his time with ...
A. 18 August 2008: Anyone with two X chromosomes is the jealous type. I'm sorry to sound sexist but I am a woman, so this is coming from the horse's mouth.
You have to have trust in a relationship. Without trust, there's no relationship at all. Your fears and doub... (read in full...)
The real issues about pupil/teacher relationships?
Q. I have been with dear cupid for a while now, and, i have found that there are quite a few questions about pupil/teacher relationships, I have myself posted a couple. But it never ceases to amaze me. Has anyone got an opinion or story they could ...
A. 18 August 2008: Hola, I'm a teacher and an aunt here... but, I doubt that any of my students are secretly in love with me. In fact, they think I'm a "bruja" (witch). I would love to have rapport with them but teacher-student relationships are a bad idea... and ... (read in full...)
Do you guys know when there is sperm about to come out or not?
Q. Ok heres my problem me and my boyfriend have been in a 7 month relationship and i think he the one..so i gave it up to him, but here the thing he did the poke-meaning he went in and then out in and then out we didnt have a condom so iam worryed.But ...
A. 15 August 2008: First of all, a guy doesn't have to ejaculate in order to release sperm. I've no idea where the 30 minutes enters into the picture. The only way to guarantee that you won't ever get pregnant (unless you've had surgery) is to abstain from sex ... (read in full...)
My husband only eats carbs and doesn't care about his health!
Q. my husband only eats carbs like pizza twice a week, pasta with chicken in red souce, english muffins, chocolates, he only drinks cramberry juice which with a lot of effort I changed him to light cramberry juice no vegetables and no fruits he dosen't ...
A. 3 August 2008: I think that Daniel is right, there's more to the story than just his weight. He needs to take responsibility for his health. Furthermore you would like him to be considerate of your feelings. He knows it bothers you that can do something about ... (read in full...)
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