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No replies yet... 25 October 2009: This has nothing to do with relationships, but everyone loves a little humor! I adore this video, and it cracks me up in spite of the fact that my French is really bad (I'm trying to improve it). I finally found a version with English sub...
Any Harry Potter fans out there?
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6 July 2009: As a longtime fan, I became curious: If I were a student at Hogwarts, to what house would the Sorting Hat send me? I found this personality test on the internet, and, just for fun, I decided to share it: http://www.per...
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Should I go permanently bald "down there"?
Q. I've just recently invested in full body laser hair removal. (yay!) But when I went in for the consultation, the consultant told me I need to 'think carefully' about what I do with my pubic hair, because it'll NEVER come back once it's gone. The ...
A. 2 April 2009: But then again I don't want to be famous as a sex symbol.
I haven't given up on being a famous guitar player (God knows I practice enough). :)... (read in full...)
Should I go permanently bald "down there"?
Q. I've just recently invested in full body laser hair removal. (yay!) But when I went in for the consultation, the consultant told me I need to 'think carefully' about what I do with my pubic hair, because it'll NEVER come back once it's gone. The ...
A. 2 April 2009: KorR, when I am famous, I will break that cycle of shameless exhibitionism. :)
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Circumcision issues.
Q. I love my penis in every way, except that I wish that I still had a foreskin.. Unfortunately I was circumcised at a young age (4), partly because of cultural reasons and partly because I had a tight foreskin which made it difficult to retract all ...
A. 2 April 2009: I have read more than once that evidence suggests that circumcision may slightly reduce the risk of contracting HIV (the vius that causes AIDS).
I can't understand why this makes you feel complete, but obviously I've never had a penis at all s... (read in full...)
Hormonal changes in women during their period... quick poll!
Q. Quick poll: when a gal goes on her period: -Guys: does it happen that she can become difficult to deal with? As in, she's much shorter tempered and you can agitate her more easily? -Gals: do you tend to get short with people including your o...
A. 1 April 2009: I'm not sure if readers are aware of this, but I've studied science so I'll add my two cents' worth.
Dysmenorrhea (or severe menstrual pain) is something you should get checked out. There are two kinds, primary and secondary. Secondary dysmenor... (read in full...)
If sex is good and beautiful, why is it called or referred to as the nasty?
Q. If sex is good and beautiful, why is it called or referred to as the nasty? What can be more beautiful than seeing another person, especially one you care about in the nude? What can be more enjoyable than being close to the one you care about??...
A. 31 March 2009: What can be more great than having sex with another person especially a lover?
MUSIC!!!!
I know you meant this to be a rhetorical question :)
But the answer to it is relative.... (read in full...)
If sex is good and beautiful, why is it called or referred to as the nasty?
Q. If sex is good and beautiful, why is it called or referred to as the nasty? What can be more beautiful than seeing another person, especially one you care about in the nude? What can be more enjoyable than being close to the one you care about??...
A. 31 March 2009: What can be more great than having sex with another person especially a lover?
MUSIC!!!!
I know you meant this to be a rhetorical question :)
But the answer to it is relative.... (read in full...)
If sex is good and beautiful, why is it called or referred to as the nasty?
Q. If sex is good and beautiful, why is it called or referred to as the nasty? What can be more beautiful than seeing another person, especially one you care about in the nude? What can be more enjoyable than being close to the one you care about??...
A. 31 March 2009: Unfortunately, in certain time periods in history, sexual things were not openly discussed and people were a lot more reserved than we tend to be in the 21st century. It was once seen as dirty and shameful to be sensual and erotic. Back in the ... (read in full...)
Guys hate me. Am I not suitable for any one?
Q. s there something wrong being single all your life. because i have being single all my life i am nearly up 30 years old and i never had boyfriend and never being kissed once in my life.its not like i don,t want a boyfriend i just can,t have ...
A. 30 March 2009: I don't see why an age difference of one or two years would be a big difference.
It sounds like you have terribly low self-esteem. We all have physical defects, but that doesn't mean you're ugly. Make a list of everything you hate about your app... (read in full...)
Should I go permanently bald "down there"?
Q. I've just recently invested in full body laser hair removal. (yay!) But when I went in for the consultation, the consultant told me I need to 'think carefully' about what I do with my pubic hair, because it'll NEVER come back once it's gone. The ...
A. 30 March 2009: If you decide not to remove it all, you'll always have the option of doing it later. Once it's done, however, it's permanent.
It's like getting a tattoo. Don't get it unless you're absolutely sure.
Electrolysis is permanent. If you'r... (read in full...)
Ideas for a really good first date that is better than dinner and a movie?
Q. Hi, I'm looking for a really good first date idea. I really, really like this girl and want to show her that I care about her and am not like the jerks she has dated in the past. But before I ask here out I need to have a plan... Ladies, what a...
A. 30 March 2009: It depends on what's available in the area where you live. I lived in the mountainous part of Mexico and a friend and I went hiking in the mountains of Tepoztlán. I'm a huge nature lover. A lot depends on your interests and hers.
Bonne... (read in full...)
Natural remedies for period pain???
Q. Hello Ladies, it's another women's health question really... I've got really horribe period pains, I swear if child birth is anything like this I may just adopt. I've tried taking paracetamol and ibroprofen (together and separatly), other so called ...
A. 29 March 2009: ¡Pobrecita!
I think that you need to see a doctor about this. Sometimes an underlying medical problem (such as endometriosis) can cause painful, debilitating cramps. There's probably nothing seriously wrong with you that they can't treat, b... (read in full...)
I'm so scared I'm never going to be happy
Q. I am so scared that I'm never going to be happy. Lately, I've felt so discouraged that my heart is breaking. I know that I need to get over some things, and be grateful for the things I have, but sometimes the void inside me just makes me want to ...
A. 29 March 2009: I didn't mean that all American guys are a certain way, but since I grew up in American culture, American guys are the boy next door, which is relative. People are very much shaped by the culture in which they grew up (except for me but I'm an ... (read in full...)
I'm so scared I'm never going to be happy
Q. I am so scared that I'm never going to be happy. Lately, I've felt so discouraged that my heart is breaking. I know that I need to get over some things, and be grateful for the things I have, but sometimes the void inside me just makes me want to ...
A. 29 March 2009: k_c100,
Thanks for listening to me, I know I wrote a lot. It's not that I don't appreciate what you've done for me (I DO) but I need to clarify some things...
It's not hyhpocrisy, it's about sexual preference and attracion:
I grew up in... (read in full...)
Pencil dick worries
Q. I need some advice. I am a 23 year-old male, who has never been sexually active due to insecurities. I felt up until recently ready to become sexually active. (Not casual, hook-up sex but sex within a trusted, committed relationship of sorts.) ...
A. 29 March 2009: Troubledtoomuch, I sometimes wonder exactly WHO it is that has this penis-measuring job.
There's someone out there who goes to cocktail parties: "Oh, by the way, I am a professional penis-measurer."... (read in full...)
I'm in love with someone I will never have
Q. I'm in love with someone i will never have! I had him, and i screwed it up big time! Now i will never have him again. I am kicking myself. Has anyone been in this situation? how did you move on? because i can't seem to!...
A. 29 March 2009: Please tell us the details of your situacion. I try not to judge, and I feel like we could give you better advice if we were to know more about what's going on with you. :)... (read in full...)
Would you want to know if I masturbate?
Q. There is this boy i really like that constantly asks me if i masturbate in a jokey but serious way...well i do a lot for a girl of my age (i think) but i awlays say i don't. I just wanted a males opinion or anyones opinion actually, to know if i ...
A. 28 March 2009: It's none of his business. Tell him you're not going to answer that, it's disrespectful.... (read in full...)
Do teachers ever have crushes on their students?
Q. Hello, all! I'm looking to hear from any teachers out there (especially young and/ or male ones) on the subject of student/ teacher relationships. I've noticed that there are countless posts on this website of students (especially females) declari...
A. 27 March 2009: It does happen because teachers and students have been involved with each other.
Being a teacher is a position of trust, and in order for it to work, there need to be clearly defined boundaries between a teacher and a student.
It's importan... (read in full...)
Farting contest stinks up the family!
Q. Our family go down to my parents' every other weekend. For the past few weeks my husband, son and father have been having "farting contests", and over-eating in an effort to fart in the house. The stench is usually unbearable and me and my mum have...
A. 27 March 2009: I like Emily's idea. I wish I'd thought of it.... (read in full...)
Need suggestions for extremely difficult work situation
Q. Ok I desperately need as many opinions and thoughts as possible as this is quite an important decision I need to make with in the next few hours - the more help I get the better. The economy in the UK right now is extremely bad - the value of our...
A. 27 March 2009: Take the job! You'll regret it more if you don't. The decision to take the job is not irrevocable, the decision to turn it down is. Once you turn it down, you may not get another chance. Once you have the job, you don't have to do it forever, ... (read in full...)
I'm interested in my music instructor
Q. Ok, so here's my dilemma. I'm a seventeen year old girl, but I turn 18 in about a month, by the way, and I take private music lessons. The problem is, I really like my teacher, and I would like to have a relationship with him... he's an adult, but ...
A. 27 March 2009: Hi,
It's a good thing I found this because I'm a musician (guitar player) and I'd like to offer my perspective. I'm not telling you what to do, but you may not have thought about this.
If you are over 18, and you really love this man, then b... (read in full...)
How can I tell her diplomatically that I'm not interested?
Q. Hello people, first of all I would thank all my friends for their kind support in my earlier question. I have a serious problem guys, I am 21 and my girlfriend is 18. I got hooked to a girl a year ago just for the heck of it!! She's the ugliest ...
A. 27 March 2009: I don't think she's psycho at all. She sounds naive to me. Most people are, and it seems you took advantage of that.
It's not only cruel to say she's ugly, as many posters have pointed out, it's irrelevant. If you didn't like the girl, wh... (read in full...)
Do women have a preference on a man being uncircumcised or circumcised?
Q. i am a 22 year old male and circumcised and i am just wanting to know if women have a preference on a man being uncircumcised or circumcised? do women really care about this?...
A. 22 March 2009: When it comes to preferences, there's no generalizing.
In Spanish we say, "En gustos se rompen géneros." There's a reason this has become cliché.... (read in full...)
Do you think he was being genuine or not?
Q. Help! I am totally confused by a mans behaviour and I need to know what people think. I have known a guy for about 2 years now but hadn't seen him for the last year as I have had a boyfriend. Before my boyfriend, this man and I had a thing for each...
A. 22 March 2009: I think that some guys come across as VERY insincere because they are flighty and don't know what they want. There are plenty of insincere guys, but in this case it sounds like he isn't in touch with what he desires in a relationship.... (read in full...)
Pencil dick worries
Q. I need some advice. I am a 23 year-old male, who has never been sexually active due to insecurities. I felt up until recently ready to become sexually active. (Not casual, hook-up sex but sex within a trusted, committed relationship of sorts.) ...
A. 22 March 2009: The average circumference of a penis is nearly 5 inches, or 127 mm around. You don't sound abnormal to me, everyone comes in different sizes and shapes. Find someone you emotionally click with, the sexual part is important, but it's secondary.... (read in full...)
I don't like to wear underwear often
Q. I don't like to wear underwear often. Will that be a problem? Can any one help on advising me on this?...
A. 22 March 2009: I don't think it will hurt you physically.... (read in full...)
I don't like to wear underwear often
Q. I don't like to wear underwear often. Will that be a problem? Can any one help on advising me on this?...
A. 22 March 2009: When you worry that it will be a problem, are you reffering to a problem in a relationship?
I think that we all have our idiosyncrasies and if you meet someone who sees all your wonderful qualities, and that person clicks with you, that person c... (read in full...)
I'm feeling sad about conditions that I can't help..what can I do?
Q. This isn't properly a relationship question, but I figured aunts and uncles may be able to help me. These last few weeks, I've been not miserable, but yes a bit sad. It's not depression, I've been depressed before, and I'm not sad all the time, but ...
A. 19 March 2009: Inyourdreams,
I can relate to what you're saying. A lot of people look at all the suffering and the world and become very depressed. It breaks my heart to think of old people who are lonely, sick kids, and abused animals. I think that you want... (read in full...)
Farting contest stinks up the family!
Q. Our family go down to my parents' every other weekend. For the past few weeks my husband, son and father have been having "farting contests", and over-eating in an effort to fart in the house. The stench is usually unbearable and me and my mum have...
A. 13 March 2009: Farting contests are definitely not sexy, but I think that what's upsetting you the most is that he doesn't listen when you try to talk to him... and he's hurting your feelings by refusing to listen to you. He needs to understand that. The farting ... (read in full...)
Farting contest stinks up the family!
Q. Our family go down to my parents' every other weekend. For the past few weeks my husband, son and father have been having "farting contests", and over-eating in an effort to fart in the house. The stench is usually unbearable and me and my mum have...
A. 13 March 2009: These farting contests are disgusting
You need to insist on having a talk with him, even if he doesn't want to listen. Tell him exactly why you feel the way you feel, and be direct. You didn't say it in your post, but I imagine that this is ... (read in full...)
How can I turn on my boyfriend?
Q. Plz help am with my bf but how can i turn him on? i really want him....
A. 8 March 2009: Talk to him, ask him what he likes. Every guy is different. :)... (read in full...)
My life pretty much stinks on ice!!!
Q. I don't know what to do... I always feel so down and lonely... my life pretty much stinks on ice!!! I'm always depressed, nothing ever comes easy for me and I dont think I can handle it any more... and to put on to that misery.... I rarely get ...
A. 8 March 2009: Could it be that you're bored?
I can understand that your parents want to protect you, but would they now allow you to be involved in some sort of extracurricular activity? In other words, everyone needs to have a life. You're at that age... (read in full...)
Will she be turned off by my "lil buddy?"
Q. hey aunts , i need some advice.. okay here's the deal, me and my girlfriend really like each other and have been going out for a year..she's 15, im 14.. well any ways we've made out and stuff but have done anything other than that, and w...
A. 8 March 2009: I agree with Taste of India. If she loves you, and you enjoy being together, she's not going to reject you over something that is perfectly normal. You continue to grow in body until about the age of 18, and the human brain continues to develop ... (read in full...)
How to meet Latin women?
Q. I have always loved Latin women. I have dated a few before. I am headed to visit an old friend in Argentina later this year and I see this as a way to meet a potential girlfriend in a place where I have heard there are beautiful women. But the ...
A. 26 February 2009: Some churches offer Spanish classes as part of the Hispanic Ministry.
Also, private tutoring is a good idea.
There are also some excellent software programs, like Rosetta Stone, for example. It's expensive but it's worth it.
Buena sue... (read in full...)
How to get rid of hair between legs?
Q. What is the best and easiest way to remove hair between legs? I don't like being hairy between my legs and it's somewhat annoying. If you could give me tips, and possibly a new and easier way that would be greatly appreciated. Shaving my pub...
A. 26 February 2009: What about that Veet depilatory cream?
A friend told me about it. It's safe to use on most areas.... (read in full...)
He's thinks I've been unfaithful to him because my vagina seems stretched!
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for one year, faithful the entire time. Even before we became serious, I was not with anyone else (he was). He has also spent the past few months attacking my past and telling me the most hurtful things about the ...
A. 23 February 2009: You need to break up with him. He's been abusing you, and he's a creep. I know it's hard to leave a relationship, but if you stay eventually you'll look back and wish you could have back the time you lost. Everyone deserves a loving companion.
... (read in full...)
Do we love again? Is it different with someone else?
Q. My girlfriend of four years has dumped me, i hurt bsadly and have spent 8 weeks either crying or fighting back tears. My question is does the first love always hurt this much or do you miss that great loving feeling forever? I loved her like i've ...
A. 19 February 2009: I'm sorry that you're suffering so much.
I went through something similar, and I didn't think I would ever love again.
This lady at my church (who is a friend of mine) says that you can love someone else just as intensely, but it will be a... (read in full...)
Would you forgive?
Q. My mother is diagnosed of a disease and lives in a different part of the country. I usually fly out to meet her. I have one good friend in my city. since my mother has been sick, i have not felt like being very social. this friend has been getting ...
A. 16 February 2009: With friends like that, who needs enemies?
If he comes round and sincerely wants to be a true friend, take the high road, but it sounds like he is being uncaring.
He's not being a friend.
I'm so sorry about your mom, and I do hope thing... (read in full...)
I want a tattoo, my mom doesn't want me to get one, my dad, divorced from my mom, will even pay for it, what should I do?
Q. Dear Cupid. People always say you should try to respect your parents wishes and I think growing up I did a good job of doing that. I'm now my own woman, live out in the big city in my ow flat, going to unversity to get a degree and after giving it ...
A. 16 February 2009: Lol, dads don't mind as much as moms, my dad encouraged me to get a tattoo. Thought that would be fun to mention :)... (read in full...)
I want a tattoo, my mom doesn't want me to get one, my dad, divorced from my mom, will even pay for it, what should I do?
Q. Dear Cupid. People always say you should try to respect your parents wishes and I think growing up I did a good job of doing that. I'm now my own woman, live out in the big city in my ow flat, going to unversity to get a degree and after giving it ...
A. 16 February 2009: I thought about getting a tattoo once, and I nearly did. I decided to give it some time: "I'll wait a year and give it serious thought, and if I still want it, I'll go for it."
I decided that I would rather have a navel ring instead. ... (read in full...)
I want a tattoo, my mom doesn't want me to get one, my dad, divorced from my mom, will even pay for it, what should I do?
Q. Dear Cupid. People always say you should try to respect your parents wishes and I think growing up I did a good job of doing that. I'm now my own woman, live out in the big city in my ow flat, going to unversity to get a degree and after giving it ...
A. 16 February 2009: It's your decision whether or not to get a tattoo.
You're probably aware of this, but tattoos are permanent. You should wait for a considerable amount of time and contemplate how you feel about having a tattoo forever. If you're sure that you... (read in full...)
I have a desire to have sex with my sister, what do you think?
Q. i need help to sleep with my sister but she says that she is complely by say that that stuff is gross when ever its mentioned. i feel like she just say that to convince her self. when we were little we would alwaly show eachother our privite parts ...
A. 16 February 2009: There's nothing wrong with being gay/lesbian, and I think gays should enjoy the right to marry, but incest is wrong.
When you have sexual relations with a relative, you risk pregnancy and babies born to parents who are related are at risk for a pl... (read in full...)
Will having anal sex hurt me or will I feel pleasure?
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been toghether for 2 years. Our relationship got physical a while ago but he says he wants to try anal. I am really scared of doing it because it will be the first time I have done that but I don't know whether to let him ...
A. 16 February 2009: You and your boyfriend shouldn't be sexually active!
You have your whole life to have sex... I know that you have the urge, and it can drive you crazy... but, some of the consequences are severe and no young person of 13, 14, or 15 is ready to... (read in full...)
Would you forgive?
Q. My mother is diagnosed of a disease and lives in a different part of the country. I usually fly out to meet her. I have one good friend in my city. since my mother has been sick, i have not felt like being very social. this friend has been getting ...
A. 16 February 2009: I would forgive your friend if he were to apologize, as long as it is a sincere apology.
I feel bad for you because your friend doesn't seem understanding or supportive.
I hope your mom will be all right. ... (read in full...)
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