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No replies yet... 25 October 2009: This has nothing to do with relationships, but everyone loves a little humor! I adore this video, and it cracks me up in spite of the fact that my French is really bad (I'm trying to improve it). I finally found a version with English sub...
Any Harry Potter fans out there?
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6 July 2009: As a longtime fan, I became curious: If I were a student at Hogwarts, to what house would the Sorting Hat send me? I found this personality test on the internet, and, just for fun, I decided to share it: http://www.per...
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I'm not LIVING my life, I'm just putting up with it.
Q. I am at this site because I am truly at the end of my rope. This has gone on for so long that something has got to give, or I am literally going to go crazy. I badly need someone who will try to help me with advice and not judge me. My proble...
A. 4 November 2008: Whether North Carolina is bad, is very relative.
My heart just isn't here... I'm from a town called Melbourne, Florida. We moved here and I was so homesick that my heart sank, and I longed to go back to Florida.
Everyone told me I'd fall in ... (read in full...)
I'm not LIVING my life, I'm just putting up with it.
Q. I am at this site because I am truly at the end of my rope. This has gone on for so long that something has got to give, or I am literally going to go crazy. I badly need someone who will try to help me with advice and not judge me. My proble...
A. 2 November 2008: Suicide is so, so very wrong because situations like this are a test. I stand my ground and I fight :)... (read in full...)
My life is finished and I don't know what to do...
Q. This is my first question cuz I just signed up... sorry if this is long. My gf and I met when I was 17 an she was 16 we started dating and we both were always excited to see each other an plan days ahead. We didn't go to the same schools and we ...
A. 2 November 2008: Hi,
Please don't do anything impulsive. I am so, so sorry for the pain you're going through, but your life isn't finished. There are loads of people in the world who fell into despair at one point, or another, and wanted to kill themselv... (read in full...)
The boyfriends nasty habit
Q. I have a boyfriend now... haha... anyway.. he is constantly touching my sides and leaning his head on mine. He is always slapping my butt in front of his friends just to show off and it gets really annoying. we are only 13 and I know that's young, ...
A. 2 November 2008: Tell him he's being disrespectful and that you don't like it when he does that. Don't be afraid to tell him how you feel. If he does it again, tell him to knock it off. If he still does it then tell him, ok, see you when you learn how to respect ... (read in full...)
He wants me to sell my jewellery to pay for HIS debts!
Q. I'm in real trouble please help me quickly, I'm married to a nervous guy who spends money around and at the end of the month he wants me to pay the rent; I'm not working so he wants me to sell my jewellery to pay his debts which he took from the ...
A. 2 November 2008: What a JERK!
What he's asking for is obscene. Don't you dare, don't you dare sell your jewelry. Next he'll be asking you to sell your hair like they did to Fantine from Les Miserables. Then, your teeth... then he'll pimp you out to some guy... (read in full...)
I'm not LIVING my life, I'm just putting up with it.
Q. I am at this site because I am truly at the end of my rope. This has gone on for so long that something has got to give, or I am literally going to go crazy. I badly need someone who will try to help me with advice and not judge me. My proble...
A. 2 November 2008: I just wanted to say thanks to everyone who answered. I am so, so grateful. I know I just had to get all of that off my chest, or I would explode. I play the guitar but with music, you have to have interaction. If you don't have anyone to p... (read in full...)
I wonder if he prefers shaved pubic area...
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been going steady for three months, i think we're ready to take the next step. We've touched each other through our cloths, but never actually 'touched' each other. I'm slightly worried though, would he prefer me to be ...
A. 2 November 2008: Every guy's preferences are different. Just ask him, don't be shy.... (read in full...)
I wonder if he prefers shaved pubic area...
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been going steady for three months, i think we're ready to take the next step. We've touched each other through our cloths, but never actually 'touched' each other. I'm slightly worried though, would he prefer me to be ...
A. 1 November 2008: There's nothing to be worried about, if you are intimate with someone then you can ask them questions. Just say, hey, I was wondering... I don't mean to sound like I'm preaching but are you sure you're READY for the next step? Are you ready to... (read in full...)
Hypothetically speaking: should I have my baby boy circumsized?
Q. hypathetically speaking, if i were 5 months pregnant, and just found out i was having a boy... Would it be smarter to get him circumsized and why??? if i dont curcumsize him now, can he get it done later in life if he wanted to?...
A. 1 November 2008: Hola Daniel, I can't verify my sources, either. I could be wrong but, according to what I read, the prepuce develops miniscule rips and tears over time. Tonsilitis can be cured, though, but sadly, there is no cure for HIV. I think that wheth... (read in full...)
Every guy wants her... could she like a fat guy?
Q. Is it possible for a pretty girl to like a fat guy when nearly every guy wants her and can pretty much get any guy she wants? ...
A. 1 November 2008: If you're feeling insecure about your weight, you can lose weight, but do it for yourself. If you like her then I would get to know her as a friend and form a close friendship with her. If you do like her, you should tell her about your feeli... (read in full...)
Why do women rationalise their cheating?
Q. Why do women Rationalise their cheating? Men cheat a lot more than women but at the very least they know what they're doing is wrong. When a man is generally caught cheating, whether he cares or not, he's not going to argue about what he's done, but ...
A. 1 November 2008: I think that women and men have various reasons for cheating, but they do think differently. I think that men who cheat justify it by saying that it was sexually motivated, and not emotional. Women, on the other hand, are more likely to cheat to... (read in full...)
His friend told him I like him but it seems he only likes me as a friend!
Q. Okay, so I'm liking this boy, but he only likes me as a friend. The bad thing is I don't really know him. So I have no reason to like him. I just think he is adorable. Anyway I told his friend that I thought I could trust, but he told the boy I ...
A. 1 November 2008: Did the boy's friend tell you that he only likes you as a friend, or did the boy himself tell you? I'm confused. I think that you need to tell him how you feel, directly to him. Unfortunately, there's not much you can do if he doesn't re... (read in full...)
Will it get bigger or has it stopped growing?
Q. I have a little below average penis and I'm 17, will it get any bigger or stay like this....
A. 1 November 2008: If you're young enough to see a pediatrician (yes, they treat teenagers, not just babies, toddlers little kids) then rest assured you may still grow. Fade is quite right, though. Penis size is not going to make or break a relationship. T... (read in full...)
It's red and itchy around my testicles, what to do?
Q. It's red and itchy' around my testicles? I don't want to tell my parents....
A. 1 November 2008: I wouldn't freak out just yet, it's probably nothing, but better safe than sorry. That is something that needs to be checked once a month, for abnormalities, such as bumps, etc. Anything out of the ordinary, you should tell your parents. It's... (read in full...)
If a person cuts class is it consider as a felony, crime, academic misconduct, or behavior misconduct?
Q. If a person cuts class is it consider as a felony, crime, academic misconduct, or behavior misconduct? Could a cut be cleared and erased? Will this go on my permanent record? I really don't want this on my permanent record. I cutted class only once ...
A. 1 November 2008: I cutted class only once It's CUT class, dear. I'm not trying to be mean but you have to know proper grammar, and you CAN learn! This is the reason that you shouldn't be skipping class. The good news: They've stopped taking people out... (read in full...)
Hypothetically speaking: should I have my baby boy circumsized?
Q. hypathetically speaking, if i were 5 months pregnant, and just found out i was having a boy... Would it be smarter to get him circumsized and why??? if i dont curcumsize him now, can he get it done later in life if he wanted to?...
A. 31 October 2008: Hey Daniel, you are correct in saying that studies indicate that circumcised men have a slightly lower risk to contract HIV. Je repete:
WARNING!!
NO ONE is IMMUNE to HIV or AIDS, and the only way to guarantee that you won't get it from sex, is... (read in full...)
Any possible damage if we continue to play with this genital torture?
Q. My GF and I have been together for about 5 years. We are both shaved and have genital and nipple piercings. We enjoy play piercing by inserting needles into her labia, clit and hood and my glans, shaft and sack along with other forms of genital tort...
A. 31 October 2008: It sounds like you guys are masochists! No offense but I think that you could really hurt yourself. You could cause an infection and permanent damage!
It's imperative that you put your health first. If you want to have better orgasms,... (read in full...)
Have I missed my chance with him?
Q. A few years ago a boy told me he wanted to be more than friends. At the time I didn't think I felt that way about him so I said no, he didn't give up though, and over the course of 2 years he asked me out about 4 or 5 times. The boy in question is ...
A. 31 October 2008: I've been through something so similar to your story that I feel like I'm reading my own diary! (Except that my diary is written in Spanish.)
Even though you didn't say so in your post, is it possible that you said "no" because you were afraid t... (read in full...)
I have a funny smell coming from my vagina.
Q. Heya, this has only just started but me and my boyfriend have been together for a year and just recently after we have had sex and got up the next morning I have got a really funny smell coming from my vaginal area. What's wrong with me, help it's ...
A. 31 October 2008: We aunts are here to help, anytime, but in this situation you really need medical advice. I don't think it's a big deal but better safe than sorry... this is your health.
You're not even 18 yet, but you're trying for a baby? WHY, if I may ask?... (read in full...)
Do men shave their pubes? Do women like it if they do?
Q. Hey, just a quikie...do men shave thier pubes? like i always thought armpit shaving was a girl thing but i have seen men do it, and i tried to shave my crotch pubes once because i see loads of men with no pubes thier, so i thought it was normal to. ...
A. 31 October 2008: Oh, I am sorry to get off on a tangent but I am really curious about something.
I understand that Natives don't have much body hair.
What about male pattern baldness?
What ethnic group is prone to suffer from that, and which is more likely... (read in full...)
Do men shave their pubes? Do women like it if they do?
Q. Hey, just a quikie...do men shave thier pubes? like i always thought armpit shaving was a girl thing but i have seen men do it, and i tried to shave my crotch pubes once because i see loads of men with no pubes thier, so i thought it was normal to. ...
A. 30 October 2008: I was always curious about Mexican guys, thanks for answering. I wasn't sure about most of them, but a couple of my friends have told me that they don't grow any (or very much). I suppose it's a fetish. Unless you're a professional swi... (read in full...)
Do men shave their pubes? Do women like it if they do?
Q. Hey, just a quikie...do men shave thier pubes? like i always thought armpit shaving was a girl thing but i have seen men do it, and i tried to shave my crotch pubes once because i see loads of men with no pubes thier, so i thought it was normal to. ...
A. 24 October 2008: I really love that Spanish phrase "en gustos se rompen generos." It's quite true, people's personal preferences run the gamut.
I don't see why men would do that, but it's a personal choice and I guess that some women are turned on by it. It'... (read in full...)
Does using tampons mean I won't bleed when I first have sex?
Q. Hi, I'm just wondering, I'm a virgin and I've used tampons for the past 2 years. Does that mean I won't bleed the first time I have sex with some guy?...
A. 21 October 2008: Usually, you bleed the first time that you have intercourse, it comes from the hymen being broken by penetration. Sometimes other things can cause the hymen to rupture, such as horseback riding, but tampons are unlikely to cause the hymen to bre... (read in full...)
Do any women feel it uncomfortable or painful when their clitorus is licked?
Q. I was just wondering if there are any women out there that get uncomfortable or even feel pain when there clitoris is touched or licked etc. I have been with my fiance for about 6 years now and I really want to know what to do if anything to make ...
A. 21 October 2008: If you're planning on marrying her, you should discuss intimacy matters with her beforehand. Most women do not feel discomfort or pain from gentle touching, but what matters is how your FIANCE feels. Just say, hey, Would it make you uncomf... (read in full...)
Could I be pregnant without having sex?
Q. Ok im probably just being paranoid but im startin to worry a little bit. me and my bf were messin around a few nights ago and i gave him a handjob then he was rubbing my clit later (thru some really skimpy knickers). if he had some spunk residue on ...
A. 21 October 2008: Sperm that have been ejaculated only live for a few hours.
The chances of you being pregnant are very remote, but for your peace of mind, you could have a pregnancy test. :)... (read in full...)
I'm obsessed about my height... I'm so damn short!
Q. I'm 19 and 5'6" tall. I feel so damn short. I used to be pretty tall compared to my class mates just a couple of years ago, now that I meet them on the streets it's surprising how much I haven't grown at all, as people who were shorter than me ...
A. 21 October 2008: One of my best friends from college was 5'6" (about my height) and she was head over feet in love with a guy who was (and presumably is) still considerably shorter. They didn't get married, but it had nothing to do with his height. She was really ... (read in full...)
What do I say to tell him I really DO want to break up with him for good?
Q. Hi, I split up with my boyfriend about a week ago today because I needed space and he keeps texting me every day and it's starting to feel like he's smothering me. I asked him to wait for me while I sort my head out and now I think I have come to ...
A. 20 October 2008: You say that you keep returning to your boyfriend, but you really want to break up with him for good.
I could be wrong but I sense that you're still unsure.
Do some profound soul-searching to be sure of what you really want. If you simply n... (read in full...)
My self esteem is crushed, WHY can't I get a boyfriend?
Q. I am 14 years old and so many of my friends have boyfriends, and I haven't had one before. No guys seem to be interested in me, they just pass over me and look at my friend who has a nice face and dd cups. I hate my nose, it's sorta big, and I ...
A. 20 October 2008: You're only 14, some of these guys are still maturing emotionally. Your best friend sounds like a jerk. You could say something like, "Yeah, and who are you? Gael Garcia Bernal?"
If you want to be noticed it helps to get involved in things, ... (read in full...)
My pubes aren't growing back in properly... did I mess up down there?
Q. I used to shave my pubes but a few months ago I broke out really bad and I have really bad scars. Now I'd like to keep that "triangle" to cover it up but my pubes don't grow back right? They're very short, coarse and straight. Did I mess up down ...
A. 20 October 2008: I think that BirdyNumNums (interesting screen name btw) is right, if you just trim the edges (don't want thigh sideburns when you put on a bathing suit) and leave the rest alone then it will eventually return to normal.
You could go to a salon and ... (read in full...)
Would you still go out with this girl?
Q. Hi this question is for the guys but girls you can give your input too. If you asked a girl out but she responded by saying she is busy for the next week and will call you after a week but actually only calls you after a month, what would you think ...
A. 19 October 2008: If she says that she is still interested in you then I would give her another chance, like qcumber says. People, unfortunately, get busy sometimes, but she hasn't forgotten you! :)... (read in full...)
What do older men see in younger women?
Q. What do older men see in younger women? Why would a man want to pursue a relationship with a younger woman? I would genuinely like insight from those with experience in the matter. I'm a young female interested in a man 15 years older than me, w...
A. 19 October 2008: Not all older men prefer younger women, but I think that the ones that do prefer younger women, have their various reasons. I don't think there's a "magic bullet;" rather, each case is different. Nearly every man I've loved (with one notable exce... (read in full...)
We are having a baby through incest - what can I do?
Q. To everyone that doesnt understand, this will seem really wrong but i've been in love with my brother (no not step, my actual brother) for the past 2 years after he helped me get over my cheating ex. At the start i thought it was just an admiration ...
A. 19 October 2008: You need to tell your parents, right away, so that they can arrange for you to see a medical specialist. I know that it's scary, but you have to think of the best interest of the baby, because he was innocent in this ordeal. I don't like ab... (read in full...)
Do men really prefer the bodies of their girlfriends/wives over the perfect model type in most porn?
Q. Do men really prefer the bodies of their girlfriends/wives over the model perfect type in most porn. I mean do they really prefer a mommy body with scars and sags (not overweight)as they say, over the scarless pre baby bodies on playboy and ...
A. 19 October 2008: Qcumber is right, even the supposedly ideal women in porn have their share of imperfections.
I imagine that men love their girlfriends, and they don't even know the women in the porn movies. Maybe the women have bodies that are consider... (read in full...)
Proving my love for him? How do I do this?
Q. I am 18 and seeing a 27 year old, we are in love and we got in a arguement the other day. he told me that I need to prove to him that I still wanna be with him.. How do I prove to him that I wanna be with him?...
A. 19 October 2008: Tell him that you love him, and if he doesn't believe you... that's tantamount to saying "I don't trust you."
What have you done to lose his trust? I'm not saying that you have!
I'm saying that it sounds like he's trying to manipulate you. Ei... (read in full...)
How can I get into a strip club?
Q. I am only 18 years old, but I am wondering what I could possibly do to get into a strip club?...
A. 19 October 2008: When I was 20, I couldn't get into a bar, even if I just wanted to see the band, even if my parents were with me, etc. Supposedly this was for my "protection" and prevented tragedies, etc. I was responsible and resented that I had the ... (read in full...)
Is it wrong for me to want a sugar daddy?
Q. I'm 25 and not interested in men my age or a few years older- I have dated them but it's just not a turn on. I keep falling for men in their 40's. I want a sugar-daddy and I'm so attracted to divorced men with children who have a high powered job ...
A. 19 October 2008: There's a difference between being wanting a "sugar daddy" and being attracted to older men.
Do you want to be with an older man because you are ATTRACTED to older men, or is it their money?
I've been VERY attracted to older men in the past,... (read in full...)
In love with a girl, but she has someone. What can I do?
Q. Over this past year, I've met the most beautiful person of my life. She's funny, smart, and just makes me get the most biggest smile on my face when I'm around her. I met her about a year ago and we've worked together ever since. I've liked many ...
A. 19 October 2008: I say that you risk it all and reveal your feelings to her. I've learned the hard way in life that if you play games, you're just gonna confuse people.
I don't have a clue as to whether the girl is happy, or loves him. I've been in unrequit... (read in full...)
How can I get into a strip club?
Q. I am only 18 years old, but I am wondering what I could possibly do to get into a strip club?...
A. 19 October 2008: Most cultures are different than American culture because you might have more priviledges but they teach responsibility. Meaning to offense to anyone, but I lived in Mexico and it's the same there as in most countries, at 18 you can vote, drive, ... (read in full...)
Still devastated with what this man did to me! Any advice?
Q. my husband left me for another woman after 11 years of marriage. Worst of all its a woman we knew from our sons baseball team. I am still devastated at all the horrific things he's done to me since we separated. We have two kids, 10 and 2, and he ...
A. 19 October 2008: I'm so sorry for what you're going through. If he was drinking and driving, though, I hope that you told the authorities. Your ex-husband belongs in jail. I think that Birdynumnums has said everything else better than I could. Good luc... (read in full...)
Mom won't let me date a 30 year old guy!
Q. my mom wont let me date a 30year old. I am 16 years old...
A. 19 October 2008: Why isn't this guy interested in a woman his own age?
Sorry, but your mom is right, this guy is almost certainly a pervert.
I know that it's hard, in high school guys my own age seemed really immature, but in two years you'll go to university a... (read in full...)
Should I date this married woman knowing that she'll never leave her husband?
Q. Alright around 4 months ago I met this girl and her husband. Both very good people I was going through a rough time. She helped me through a lot of it and we became very good friends in the process. Well early on in the friendship I fou...
A. 19 October 2008: I am sorry because I know that my answer is going to hurt you, but I feel like an open relationship isn't much of a relationship. There's nothing wrong with having PLATONIC opposite sex FRIENDS, but if you love someone with all your heart, then I ... (read in full...)
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