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Did my wife have sex with her lover during her affair?
Q. Me and my wife are married for 3 years we have a son together. Recently we've been having alot of arguments and i could't take it so i moved out. during that month my wife met a guy from her new work place and they started talking a lot. my wife and ...
A. 11 June 2011: It is a reason it's called an "Affair" She dissed you homie, straight up.... (read in full...)
Caught my dad red handed with porn, what do I do?
Q. I don't know wha to do. This evening I walked down stairs to find my Dad in the sitting room on his own watching "Pornhub". He wasn't doing any hand 'business' but it was clear what was going on. I dont mention it at the time. But i am now left ...
A. 11 June 2011: Red handed? Lol. You make it sound like he did something wrong. Leave it alone, he's fine.... (read in full...)
Am I the only straight woman with a High Sex Drive?
Q. Hey. I'm just wondering i'm the only straight woman with a high sex drive. I want to have sex with men and only men. I find most woman who want sex like crazy tend to be bisexual, i'm wondering if i'm a unicorn?...
A. 11 June 2011: I doubt you're the only one. If you're bisexual you'll know, unless you're one of the... confused people. However, if high sex drive means you're horny alot,then I wish my wife were that way. That'll be awesome! I'm young and I can handle lots of ... (read in full...)
My wife is cheating on me in my own home, how do I stop this?
Q. i am indian. I marry my wife 3 years back. She is working in a multinational company for about 2 years. We have one child. One day she has gone out for a office trip for about 2 weeks. Later i come to know from her one of frieds that it was not an ...
A. 11 June 2011: WTF? You are a man being disrespected in his own home. You married this woman because you loved her? You say you're Indian and I don't know your complete beliefs but she is doing you wrong. You also let her do that and she is in your house. She does ... (read in full...)
We just really talk about our kid. Any advice on how BF and I can spice up a conversation?
Q. Sometimes me and my boyfriend have nothing to talk about on the phone and sometime in person. We have a baby together and we mostly talk about him, were young and I don't want him getting bored. Maybe we just got to comfortable to were we feel like ...
A. 11 June 2011: Why not find new things out about each other? Likes, dislikes. Plans for the future. What do you want to be when you grow up? Maybe hot topics or interests.... (read in full...)
Should I confess to my husband?
Q. I have been married for 3 yrs and have a little boy. I have not been happy in my marriage for a few years now, just feel as though I'm not appreciated and feel tied to the kitchen sink. Recently I have been confiding in a male friend at work and ...
A. 11 June 2011: You've been married for 3 years now and haven't been happy for a few years now? That sounds like most of the marriage. Should you confess to your husband? It all depends... do you truly love this man? Remember what you said during your vows? Of ... (read in full...)
Puppy Love or Soul Mates?
Q. A couple years ago, there was this guy I had a huge crush on. He finally asked me out and we had a happy relationship, but I had to move to a different school. We promised to keep in touch, but we just didn't, and eventually we moved on with our ...
A. 11 June 2011: Only in time will you truly be able to tell. You're very young, you still have time.... (read in full...)
I left my wife for her, now I fear she won't leave her husband for me!
Q. This is a tough one. I am married and I have a friend who is also married, both of us are in unhappy marriages that have been unhappy for several years. We have been friends for 3 years, last year we started a relationship with each other and after ...
A. 11 June 2011: I can't help but wonder why stay in an unhappy marriage for so, so, long? Are there some factors preventing you from moving on? I am married for 2 years so far but I feel that's just damaging on the human mind. Life is short, why be ... (read in full...)
In my mid-20 and never had a girlfriend
Q. The realization that I'm in my mid twenties and have never had a girlfriend or even so much as dated anyone is really starting to scare me. I've never been in a relationship with anyone. I can't even say that I'd know how to date someone should ...
A. 11 June 2011: Hmm..interesting. You sound so much like someone I know, whom is also a male. Very similar situation minus some details. Interesting indeed. This is what I think... I understand the loneliness but just handle your business first and all that will ... (read in full...)
Girlfriend slept with a ganster/drug dealer, how do I deal with this?
Q. Hello everyone I've got a real problem with my relationship my gf and I have been together for about a year and ten months but when I found out she slept with another man while we were split up I was crushed The main problem is that fact if her s...
A. 11 June 2011: See, that's messed up. If she had any respect for the relationship you two had together, she wouldn't have found a rebound guy for comfort. There are many women in the world like that and some men too but, sometimes, people like to go to others ... (read in full...)
Only 14-25 year olds answer, please: I'm unsure about what to expect when it comes to handjobs and giving head.
Q. hello, i am a 14 year old girl going into eight grade. this is the grade where girls start to give hand jobs. I am just unsure of what i should do if this comes upon me, and how it will come upon me. will he most likely ask me to do it, or will...
A. 29 August 2009: Ok, your are incredibly young to even consider that. You may be able to do it but why not wait until you're older because doing that with randomized people; you'll lose any respect people have for you. Trust me on this, I'm smart enough to know ... (read in full...)
She didn't tell me she cheated but says I should just "let it go" and I can't!
Q. so, i just found out by looking through my friends phone that my fiancee of just over 2 years had made out with her "best friend" an ex bf i might add. When i called her out on it she said she was going to tell me "eventually" and said it was only ...
A. 29 August 2009: My oh my, sounds like a sad situation. It is messed up that she would do something like that behind your back and lie about or she probably lied when she said she was going to tell you. Many women are bad natured and the thought of doing something ... (read in full...)
Honestly, who in their right mind would be ok with their spouse or significant other talking sexually explicit to the opposite sex?
Q. Sometimes my wife will talk on the phone to other people like her "homies" or somebody she says she knew since she was little. The thing is, I have heard her say sexually explicit things to the other people(males)on the phone. It could have been ...
A. 4 July 2009: Female reader anonymous, I have been very observant, she has noticed. She has given me reason to inquire her of some issues thst have been pressing me. Well everyone, I have found something out. I asked her about the hotel again I believe yesterday ... (read in full...)
Honestly, who in their right mind would be ok with their spouse or significant other talking sexually explicit to the opposite sex?
Q. Sometimes my wife will talk on the phone to other people like her "homies" or somebody she says she knew since she was little. The thing is, I have heard her say sexually explicit things to the other people(males)on the phone. It could have been ...
A. 1 July 2009: Female reader, anonymous: Third party involved? I would hope not on that level but I know recently she has been talking to her ex. Whenever I'm away from her of course. How do I know? For one, she seeked him out on MY Myspace account. I checked my ... (read in full...)
Honestly, who in their right mind would be ok with their spouse or significant other talking sexually explicit to the opposite sex?
Q. Sometimes my wife will talk on the phone to other people like her "homies" or somebody she says she knew since she was little. The thing is, I have heard her say sexually explicit things to the other people(males)on the phone. It could have been ...
A. 30 June 2009: JasonX, you bear a good point. No, I'm not that kind of man I prefer to be more gentle in nature. I'm a Taurus, so sometimes I can be stubborn and aggressive like in nature; but I do like to please my cancer and shower her with gifts whenever I get ... (read in full...)
Honestly, who in their right mind would be ok with their spouse or significant other talking sexually explicit to the opposite sex?
Q. Sometimes my wife will talk on the phone to other people like her "homies" or somebody she says she knew since she was little. The thing is, I have heard her say sexually explicit things to the other people(males)on the phone. It could have been ...
A. 30 June 2009: SirenaBlusera, even though it hurts me to talk or think about, I'll tell you. It may be long, probably will. I'll explain it in some detail. The first time I remember, she was talking on the phone in the kitchen(cooking), inappropriate conversation ... (read in full...)
I am 18 and don't know anything about sex, please help!
Q. I am too shy to ask this but I really need help, well I am 18 years old, female and I don't know anything about sex because no one around me seems to wanna educate me sexually. Can everybody please explain to me what to do the first night you lose ...
A. 29 June 2009: You know what? You're absolutely right HereToHelpx; it shouldn't matter to ME if she's gay or not, and it really doesn't. SY does have good advice so I'll agree on that.... (read in full...)
I am 18 and don't know anything about sex, please help!
Q. I am too shy to ask this but I really need help, well I am 18 years old, female and I don't know anything about sex because no one around me seems to wanna educate me sexually. Can everybody please explain to me what to do the first night you lose ...
A. 28 June 2009: Well, it's many things you can do the first night with sex. For one, make sure condoms are available, the last thing you need is to get a STD or something first time having sex. Secondly, when you do: do what you may want to do to the person or let ... (read in full...)
I feel like I'm missing out because I'm a virgin and everyone else is having sex!
Q. Why ? Am I missing something cool ? I mean I'm wasting my time of doing something fun because they're having sex around but me only doing nothing but crap, you can say i have plenty of time but i also don't want to waste my time right now too. we...
A. 28 June 2009: Ok, I guess around that same age, you're right. I don't think you're gay, just saying please don't go that way. Too many women in the world:) When the time comes, you'll be fine.... (read in full...)
Tempted to lose my virginity to a married man. Do I or don't I?
Q. Hi, I am an unmarried virgin girl.For the last two years iam in friendship with a married man. He is asking me for sex and to spend 3 nights with him. He says that it will not affect my future marriage. I am tempted to have sex with him. What ...
A. 28 June 2009: Whatever you do, respect a person's marriage and Don't Do It! He obviously is having marriage problems or is just plain stupid. I'm married and I would really feel bad if I was cheated on; it's not cool to play with peoples emotions. Don't get ... (read in full...)
Do LDR's work? Want to get with a guy but he's moving in September!
Q. Hey. I just wondered what you all thought of relationships through university, or college etc. Do these relationships tend to work? The reason I ask is because I like a guy [who likes me back] and we would like to start a relationship, bu...
A. 28 June 2009: Good luck, if you two are serious about each other enough, I know for a fact it'll atually work. ... (read in full...)
Do LDR's work? Want to get with a guy but he's moving in September!
Q. Hey. I just wondered what you all thought of relationships through university, or college etc. Do these relationships tend to work? The reason I ask is because I like a guy [who likes me back] and we would like to start a relationship, bu...
A. 28 June 2009: I have been in a situation similar to that before. I realized it all depends on the two people. One person could feel one way about it and think it'll work while the other may not be able to handle it. It sucks when you may really like or love ... (read in full...)
Honestly, who in their right mind would be ok with their spouse or significant other talking sexually explicit to the opposite sex?
Q. Sometimes my wife will talk on the phone to other people like her "homies" or somebody she says she knew since she was little. The thing is, I have heard her say sexually explicit things to the other people(males)on the phone. It could have been ...
A. 28 June 2009: I have talked to her, SirenaBlusera; but when I did, she got way too offended as if I was acusing her of something. I wasn't; just wanted to let her know how I felt when she did that but she got too mad to care of my feelings. It sure seemed like ... (read in full...)
Going down on my boyfriend makes me gag! Any tips?
Q. Well this is kind of embaressing.. My boyfriend likes it when I go down on him, but it makes me gag! I don't know whats wrong with me, I think it could be the texture and i don't really like the taste either, I don't mind doing it with condoms tho...
A. 27 June 2009: Of course he likes you going down on him. You don't need to deepthroat him and choke yourself(if that's what you are doing). but if you are not, maybe it disgusts you or you're just not use to it. I don't know. That's the only way I can think a ... (read in full...)
Some tips for guys that are having trouble getting over their gf or wives past sex history.
Q. Something that may help other men that are bothered by their gf or wife's sexual past. This was my original question a few weeks ago. http://www.dearcupid.org/question/how-do-i-change-my-resurfaced-feelings-about.html I am posting these new th...
A. 27 June 2009: That is very interesting. I am married to and so far its fine. I haven't been married for a year yet but we still are so that's a good sign. When I first met my wife(she was my girlfriend first of course!), I was still a virgin. Not anymore. Our sex ... (read in full...)
I feel like I'm missing out because I'm a virgin and everyone else is having sex!
Q. Why ? Am I missing something cool ? I mean I'm wasting my time of doing something fun because they're having sex around but me only doing nothing but crap, you can say i have plenty of time but i also don't want to waste my time right now too. we...
A. 27 June 2009: You are not missing out, trust me. Keep your virginity at least wait till you are of legal age. And whatever you do, don't go gay. It is not a cool thing to do:(... (read in full...)
Our first date tomorrow, should I kiss her or not?
Q. I am going on a date tommorow with a girl from school, weve only talked a couple times but i asked her if she wanted to get lunch sometime and she said yes, so we set up a date tommorow. My question is at the end of the day when im dropping her ...
A. 27 June 2009: You'll know but you really do not want to come on too strongly as that may be a turn off to a woman. many women have different personalities so whatever is best for your situation. You should see how she reacts to you throughout the day you are with ... (read in full...)
How does the guy feel when he touches a girl's breasts?
Q. When a guy is touching a girl's breasts, it feels good for the girl, but what's the guy how does the guy feel?...
A. 27 June 2009: Quite naturally a guy will feel great fondling a girls breast not to mention horny.... (read in full...)
Help! He wants to have sex with me but I'm not ready. What shall I do?
Q. I'm 13 years old and I have a boyfriend (16). Until yesterday, we were only kissing each other sometimes. But yesterday evening he wanted to have sex with me. I said i didnt want to, but he didnt listen and started to rape me. After I started crying ...
A. 27 June 2009: I definitely agree with old guy.... (read in full...)
Help! He wants to have sex with me but I'm not ready. What shall I do?
Q. I'm 13 years old and I have a boyfriend (16). Until yesterday, we were only kissing each other sometimes. But yesterday evening he wanted to have sex with me. I said i didnt want to, but he didnt listen and started to rape me. After I started crying ...
A. 27 June 2009: First off, Old Guy; sounds like you got good sense. I will completely agree with you. Secondly, WTF? That kind of thing makes me mad and I don't even know you. You should really tell your parents about this and have this no good, manly, wanna be ... (read in full...)
I have deep feelings for my cousin...
Q. hi... I dont know where to start im in a really bad situation and its horrible and wrong and i dont know how to get this sorta thing out of my head and how to help make it better.... so The story... 4 years ago i met my 2nd cousin, I started ...
A. 27 June 2009: What you do is get yourself a man not your kinfolk and stay away from incest. Not only is it illegal but that's completely gross and there are way too many men in the world why pick your cousin? You really need to think about that.... (read in full...)
Honestly, who in their right mind would be ok with their spouse or significant other talking sexually explicit to the opposite sex?
Q. Sometimes my wife will talk on the phone to other people like her "homies" or somebody she says she knew since she was little. The thing is, I have heard her say sexually explicit things to the other people(males)on the phone. It could have been ...
A. 27 June 2009: That's good info everyone. Thanks alot!... (read in full...)
What way do MEN act when they're in love?
Q. Hi guys, this question is for you men. I was wondering the way you act when you are in love, like do your hearts beat so fast when she calls, do you feel bad if she didn't call, do you keep remember her voice, her laugh, what she had said when she ...
A. 27 June 2009: All of that and much more indeed. Many men may have the same traits when they are in love but it actually depends on the person as well. I know when I first fell in love, I did everything in my power to please that person I was with(I still do that ... (read in full...)
Is it really internet love and should I push my boundaries and send him a naked picture of me?
Q. well i met this boy online and we have been going out for like almost 8 months now hes 17 and im 15 and i really think i love him and says he loves me to. we talk on the phone evernight and text each other constantly he has never forced me into doi...
A. 27 June 2009: Please do not send him a naked picture of yourself. That's not right plus he may not even be the age he says he is. He could be some old perv or worse. Wouldn't even matter if he's an old perv, could be a young one or even a female. I wouldn't do ... (read in full...)
Honestly, who in their right mind would be ok with their spouse or significant other talking sexually explicit to the opposite sex?
Q. Sometimes my wife will talk on the phone to other people like her "homies" or somebody she says she knew since she was little. The thing is, I have heard her say sexually explicit things to the other people(males)on the phone. It could have been ...
A. 27 June 2009: Well it worked Sincerely Yours, lol! I feel better already:)) Thanks.... (read in full...)
Honestly, who in their right mind would be ok with their spouse or significant other talking sexually explicit to the opposite sex?
Q. Sometimes my wife will talk on the phone to other people like her "homies" or somebody she says she knew since she was little. The thing is, I have heard her say sexually explicit things to the other people(males)on the phone. It could have been ...
A. 27 June 2009: Thats a thought to consider a female reader, anonymous. But I don't want to leave her so I'll try my best to make things better. Even with that, I don't deserve such disrespect; not when I don't do anything crazy like that.... (read in full...)
Honestly, who in their right mind would be ok with their spouse or significant other talking sexually explicit to the opposite sex?
Q. Sometimes my wife will talk on the phone to other people like her "homies" or somebody she says she knew since she was little. The thing is, I have heard her say sexually explicit things to the other people(males)on the phone. It could have been ...
A. 27 June 2009: Sincerely Yours, I never have tried that. You asking that makes me smile for some reason. She likes chocolate, so maybe that's a good idea. I think I have a more better plan now, thanks!... (read in full...)
Honestly, who in their right mind would be ok with their spouse or significant other talking sexually explicit to the opposite sex?
Q. Sometimes my wife will talk on the phone to other people like her "homies" or somebody she says she knew since she was little. The thing is, I have heard her say sexually explicit things to the other people(males)on the phone. It could have been ...
A. 27 June 2009: Yes that situation is frustrating to me Sincerely Yours. And yes I agree with you as you are right. I wanted someone's else opinion about it as to see what other people think. It helps, so thank you. I still have yet to talk about it to her again ... (read in full...)
Should I fly and see my ex, who has a gf, or should I wait for him to come to me?
Q. My ex and I dated for three years, one of those years was our freshman year in college. After that, my family's business was suddenly not doing well, and I needed to come home, as there was not enough money for tuition. We broke up and since, he ...
A. 27 June 2009: Do you like drama? If so, then by all means do that. He has a girlfriend now so respect that and keep your distance and don't cross any boundaries. If you were to do that anyway you'll seem kinda desperate for him. But, it depends on how you feel. ... (read in full...)
I worry about how I taste!
Q. Okay this may sound weird but here goes: My boyfriend likes to go down on me but a lot of times I don't let him because I can't stop thinking whether or not I taste okay down there. It makes me feel really weird. I shower every day and clean my...
A. 27 June 2009: You obviously taste good enough if your boyfriend wants to do it. As long as you really aren't a nasty person down there, if he wants to, why not let him?... (read in full...)
Honestly, who in their right mind would be ok with their spouse or significant other talking sexually explicit to the opposite sex?
Q. Sometimes my wife will talk on the phone to other people like her "homies" or somebody she says she knew since she was little. The thing is, I have heard her say sexually explicit things to the other people(males)on the phone. It could have been ...
A. 27 June 2009: Thanks Sincerely Yours, SirenaBlusera, and JasonX. I agree with you, I know she is not snooping around or anything, SirenaBlusera; but that kind of thing hurts. Also, that's a good pointer, JasonX; I'll try that.:)... (read in full...)
She didn't tell me she cheated but says I should just "let it go" and I can't!
Q. so, i just found out by looking through my friends phone that my fiancee of just over 2 years had made out with her "best friend" an ex bf i might add. When i called her out on it she said she was going to tell me "eventually" and said it was only ...
A. 26 June 2009: First off, it's only natural you feel badly about that as she is suppose to be with you and not that other person. The fact that she did that does say something and she should apologize for disrespecting you like that. If you two wanted an open ... (read in full...)
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