Should I tell my gf that my ex is pregnant when I'm not sure its mine?
Q. Should i tell my gf that my ex is pregnant when i'm not sure its mine? I have a grIfriend right now, she became my girlfriend in february, when my ex found out that i have a girlfriend, a few days after, she told me that she was 1 month pregnant and ...
A. 30 August 2012: Hi
Was the baby in an incubator after birth,when they are born this premature they are usually kept in hospital as they are so tiny.
Get a DNA test done asap its the only proof you can get.If you only had sex the once,with a condom, in Janua... (read in full...)
Do I talk about our drunken one night stand? Or let him bring it up?
Q. Ok, so I got really drunk and slept with my best male friend. This has brought out feelings for him and got me thinking about being with him. I have known him for years and although we have our differences and we both have other close friends,...
A. 4 April 2012: hi slow down your makin ME dizzy . you had sex, once, with him. just say 'Hey I really enjoyed the sex its proved I am over my Ex' Leave it at that Then he knows your emotionally available and your interested. Just do not sleep with him aga... (read in full...)
Is this guy in denial or what?
Q. Right I like this guy and I told this guys mate that I like his mate. He goes give him time and he will relise. I told his mate is he in denial and his mate goes yeah he is in denial on liking you. I dont know what to think no more becuase I really ...
A. 4 April 2012: Hi dont think your wasting your time no and you have his mate helping you now too Dont push him too hard he knows you like him so maybe let him do some chasing. If he is phoning you then he likes you as a friend already . Think you should be pa... (read in full...)
My wife got in touch with her first sex partner and sent him a pic of her's in a bikini
Q. My wife and I have been together for 6 years, married for 4 years. My wife has been with between 60 and 70 men between the age of 18 and 30. She had one 3 year relationship during that time. About 90% of her past sexual experiences were just ...
A. 4 April 2012: Hello she is no good at relationship bounderies and needs to be taught before it wrecks your marriage. your trust is shaken by her attitude and actions i agree its off to the counseller you need to go good luck xx... (read in full...)
Stuck in a quandary between my wife and my married mistress
Q. I know that I am going to be judged for posting this, but that's okay. I need guidance. I am almost 39. My wife is going to be 42 this year and is already in menopause. We have no children, mostly because my wife is just not a sexual being....
A. 3 April 2012: What an arrogant prig you sound you should do your wife a massive favour and set her free to find true love .
Poor woman is all i can say not just your cheating but the attitude you have toward wife and life , I hope she finds happiness with a man ... (read in full...)
Ended up having sex with another man while at my bachelorette party at Vegas!
Q. ***Before I begin, please don't judge me for what I did, I already know it was wrong, and I feel horrible*** I am enganged at an amazing man who I love very much, our wedding is about a week away. This past weekend my girlfriends and I went to Ve...
A. 2 April 2012: he will probably leave you call off the wedding if you tell him . put yourself in his shoes OR ask how you would feel if he had done it with a woman? its a difficult one you risk losing everything for a drunken mistake, a huge one yes but a mistake ... (read in full...)
My mom hasn't bothered acknowledging my birthday
Q. Tomorrow is my 23rd birthday. I'm moving away soon, and this will probably be my last birthday in my mother's house. She only comes home on weekends, and leaves every Monday for work, so today we were supposed to celebrate. She claimed she didn't ...
A. 2 April 2012: just thank your lucky stars your moving away soon. you have every right to feel hurt & maybe she is hurting cos your moving - i hope you have time to talk build bridges before you leave as it would be best for you both to be open. Good luck xxx... (read in full...)
Seeing married man on the fly, does he have feelings for me?
Q. I have really good friend who is married , he's been with this girl 10 years , they split up befour annd we were secretly seeing each other for a few weeks . Over the past few weeks we have been kissing at the weekends when we have a drink in us but ...
A. 2 April 2012: yes he does lustful feelings . nothing more or he would be with you... (read in full...)
B/f got angry at me because a guy at the club was touching me
Q. ok need some advise please ppl i went out clubbing the other night with my bf we had not spoke most of the night tbh we were out with friends he was with the boys an i was with the girls me and 1 of the girls went out for a fag and some bloke st...
A. 2 April 2012: his reaction was OTT but if he was with his mates he would have felt he had to do something & I bet they were calling you or wynding him up he would feel humiliated Add drink to that & yea he would be mad. You would be mad if some random girl was ... (read in full...)
Empty nest, infidelity, mistrust, insecurity, low self esteem, no sex...is my marriage doomed?
Q. i am 46 yrs old, married for 25 yrs, all of our children are grown. we got married because i got pregnant. It was my husbands idea to get married. He wanted to do the right thing. After our daughter was born we had two more children, a son and ...
A. 2 April 2012: i dont think your marriage is doomed your still together & the problems you describe are all part of this phase in your life. You have stuck together through thick & thin worked through problems & have just bought a house
Nobodys sex life stays the ... (read in full...)
I'm in love with a guy who's half my age
Q. Hi. I'm a 54 yr old woman, who honestly looks about 35. I'm very blessed. I work out, and have always taken good care of myself. I place a personal ad, and hesistantly, responded to a 27 yr old. He and I have lots in common. We are both college ...
A. 1 April 2012: i dont think you should look to long term & kids i think you should have a good time for a short time You are loved up with added lust & he is loving you as a cougar . dont risk being left in 5 years time . you may look 35 now but time always ... (read in full...)
I need help fixing our relationship!
Q. I am in so much pain, my boyfriend and I spent an entire week together, I was on vacation and chose to spend it with him just to see how we would do under that same roof. Anyways we had a great time on Monday and Tuesday night after he got home from ...
A. 1 April 2012: sounds like he just wanted his space back & you out of it people get used to the routine of their lives
the worrying thing is he said he had never loved you SO why is he stringing you along knowing how you love him? does he say where he sees the ... (read in full...)
I have a crush on this guy but I'm fat! How can I gain more confidence about myself?
Q. I am an 18 y/o fat girl and i have a crush, he's really good to me...im really confident when I'm with guys...but they just see me as their friend...and I'm afraid he'd see me like that...i really want him to get more interested in me!...but not ...
A. 1 April 2012: why are you fat is it genes or glands or over eating?
make the best of yourself thats all anyone can do work on things you CAN change clothes hair & exercise. add dimension to your character start an unusual hobby or challenge.if your happy ho... (read in full...)
Broke up a year ago but I'm missing her and want her back
Q. Me and my girlfriend of about 1 year broke up a year ago. We both moved on and started seeing other people but I'm finding myself missing her again, I'm thinking about her all the time and I'm starting to want her back... I've no idea how she feel...
A. 31 March 2012: if she is still in her new relationship then leave it. if shes single too then fone her ask how she is & suggest meeting for a catch up... (read in full...)
How men like making wives jealous
Q. This is trick of the mind.My male cousin has been cheating on his wife since time they've been married.We don't know what it is that he's telling her but shes posting things on fb to prove that their marriage is great.He don't tell us much but the ...
A. 31 March 2012: That poor woman everyone laughing at her thats just terrible disgusting even. if you were in her situation i think you would want to be told whats going on IF he is cheating & you have proof you should tell her ... (read in full...)
He thinks its okay to toy with my emotions!
Q. Why the need to hurt me? My ex and i broke up a few months back, it wasnt a good relationship, he had been hurtful and abusive to me, we also had kids which is why i choose to end it. He has continued to try and get back with me even though he still ...
A. 31 March 2012: its not ok for him to toy with your emotions but he can only do that if you let him If he has a new girlfriend then he has moved on You will always care a bit hes the father of your kids You dont say what abuse he used to you in the relationship but ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend thinks of me as a breeding factory, if I can't have kids, he'd leave me!
Q. I've been in a relationship for about 2.5 years with someone who is wonderful, caring, supportive, etc. We have been through a lot, and I sincerely saw him as the one. He already considered us married but it doesn't work that way for me. ...
A. 31 March 2012: i think he is a rare & good man the way he is helping his ma n pa out & repaying their parenting His time for marriage is not yet a while as his family come first At least he has you & maybe he could live with you instead of gettin a place on his ... (read in full...)
My Friend will not associate with unattractive People, is this common?
Q. I'm 40, he's 22 and we've only been friends a short while. He's very intelligent - and I thought deep, until he told me that he doesn't associate with unattractive people because it badly reflects on him. He's heterosexual and his male friends ...
A. 31 March 2012: you should read the book Devil Wears Prada and you will recognise your friend as same employees of the fictional magazine.I heard its based on fact.as a note i dont like tracksuit wearing obese people much but its because ones i meet are in the ... (read in full...)
I just don't want to hurt anymore!
Q. Ok well I was.with my boyfriend for two years the first year was wonderful. Then he cheated on me hurt me bad but I loved him so much that I gave him anither chance then he started accusing me of cheating the whole time ive been fathful.he dosent ...
A. 31 March 2012: if you dont want to be hurt anymore then you know what you have to do.hes just passing his guilt over to you and accusing you of what hes done or doing Hes not ever gonna make you happy is he Life is to short for this situation to go on xxx... (read in full...)
Do men like to be chased first?
Q. Do men liked to be chased? When they're not calling and texting you is it because they do want to or they waiting for you to do it?...
A. 29 March 2012: they dont like bunny boilers or stalkers but thats different to being pro active. if its a new thing then let them lead for a bit . if its an older relationship initiate but if they dont reply to a text/call then leave it till they do... (read in full...)
I want to spend my life with her, Please help!
Q. where to begin.... i guess im really just looking for advice or even just to get things off my chest with an outside perspective. I guess i should tell you a bit about my situation. I met the woman of my dreams five years ago. we met on myspace.....
A. 29 March 2012: bless you it does sound over and time to move on. your just too different a people to live together. its sad but sometimes love alone isnt enough you have to be compatible too. youve given it your best shot xxxx... (read in full...)
Do you think I should lie and tell my family that I have a job, or should I just tell them the truth?
Q. I'm nervous about going to a family party this weekend. I'm unemployed, and my family members have really good jobs, and they seem posh ( i'm not saying that in a bad way ). They live in different parts of the country .I am from a very small town ...
A. 29 March 2012: tell the truth and if they have good jobs they might help with getting you one. look your best and network for a job there May as well use the situation to your advantage.nearly 3 million unemployed so your not alone in the UK... (read in full...)
Looks don't matter, or, are men really this shallow?
Q. Well, I know that people always say that looks don't matter to guys, or that they're not the most important thing, but are they just being polite? 'Cause I read an article and it really made me lose a bit of hope in men... http://livingw...
A. 29 March 2012: next time you go to a supermarket or out in the shopping mall take a look at all the couples all ages Are all the women drop dead gorgeous and dressed like a model with perfect bodies? ... (read in full...)
What is the meaning behind my ex sending me a text "good luck with your life"?
Q. My ex just sent me a message saying "good luck with your life".We broke up two months ago, why is he contacting me?.When we broke up another time before that, he got intouch after a couple of months then too and he sent a message saying he hoped my ...
A. 29 March 2012: he was probly bored probably single and thought you would respond and he could take it from there. Just ignore it it didnt work out before and you are trying to get over him .If you want him back then up to you .but ... (read in full...)
Is there any way he'll want to be with me and try to work things out?
Q. I've been talking to this guy for like three months and then he fly over to see me and we had vacation together for a month. we had the best time ever. we had fights sometime . well it's happened like almost everyday speaks about some silly little ...
A. 29 March 2012: just leave him alone your putting pressure on a man who doesn not need it.You cannot MAKE him want you If he thought it would work he would have wanted you in his country but he didnt.He doesnt want rows and you going mad You should let him go.Find ... (read in full...)
Should I tell my gf that my ex is pregnant when I'm not sure its mine?
Q. Should i tell my gf that my ex is pregnant when i'm not sure its mine? I have a grIfriend right now, she became my girlfriend in february, when my ex found out that i have a girlfriend, a few days after, she told me that she was 1 month pregnant and ...
A. 28 March 2012: why are you giving your ex money when
a you dont know if the baby is yours
b you havent been to the doctors with her so dont know if she IS pregnant
Give her no more till you know
talk to your family tell them evrything then decide wh... (read in full...)
Instead of investing in us and our family b/f buys a flat! What's wrong with him?
Q. What is going on inhis head? Myex and Ibroke up several months back, we have 2 kids so we have to be civiland havecontact. to cut a long story short, I waited a long time for him to commit to me and our kids, when I thought is finally got the chan...
A. 28 March 2012: whats commitment got to do with his inheritance If he got the flat to live in well you threw him out so he had to go somewhere Property is a good investment for the future He offered you cleaning so you could earn some cash so he must think you want ... (read in full...)
I can't get out of this affair!
Q. Hi, I need help. I am a maried woman and mother of 2 and had an affair with a man i met on the internet. About 6 months after the affair started my husband found out and i asked him to leave the house because at the time i thought i was in love ...
A. 28 March 2012: Hi
the grass is not always greener is it You have paid for your affair by losing your husband and his wife has lost hers It does not mean you have to stay with him He will want to so it validates the mess it caused his family
you must fini... (read in full...)
I have serious insecurity problems and they are going to ruin our relationship!
Q. Hello Can anyone help with my issue? I have serious insecurity problems! I have been with my bf for 6 months, when I first met him he was a bit of a jack the lad, out all the time, had girl "mates" calling him all the time, would reply to his girl...
A. 28 March 2012: he cannot do anymore to convince you that he cares and wants to be with you can he SO it is you that needs to chill out and stop comparing him to the other men you have dated Seriously this man WANTS to be with you he has proved it and as you sais ... (read in full...)
My ex said he'd fall in love with me again but then cut all contact
Q. Why would he do that? I'm so hurt:(? I got back with my ex after a year split. He said he didn't want a relationship. A year later I was still sad and missed him everyday. Here got in contact again and got back together. He told me things...
A. 28 March 2012: he doesnt wanna be with you and its time you accepted it and let him go If you dont put him behind you you will always be expecting him to make you have a happy ending Do not let him use you again just delete his number and let him go.He didnt tell ... (read in full...)
What are the biggest problems that most people have to deal with in a lifetime?
Q. What are the biggest problems what most people have to deal with in a lifetime? In my family we have so much problems , that it is hard for me to see, if everybody got problems like that ,or it is out of the ordinary to have them,like that . ...
A. 28 March 2012: only the very lucky get away with no problems in their life
we all deal with death at some point old age illness accident or suicide
thing to remember is it isnt you thats gone or an addict or in a bad marriage you need to cope with your skin dis... (read in full...)
Not quite sure how to present ourselves/our relationship to the world?
Q. my husband and i have been together for 9 years( married for 5).We are now having somewhat of an open relationship for the last year and so far everything is good. We have made out with other people a lot of times even in front of each other, went ...
A. 27 March 2012: just tell it like it is. an open marriage. if your not planning on divorce then why do you need to tell the third person as its purely sex your meeting for. If you keep it casual one off then emotional bonds cannot be formed and your marriage is ... (read in full...)
My LDR met an old friend and now it's bothering me
Q. I am in a long distance relationship ,about 3 hours away . Last week my boyfriend told me he met an old female friend at the gym ,he told her she looked well and she looked nice . She knew he had a girlfriend and asked him for his mobile number ,my ...
A. 27 March 2012: clueless why he needed to relate the trivial meet word for word to you . I would say to much information honey . its one thing being honest but all thats achieved is you feeling rubbish. yes your being silly but thats down to him Not saying he ... (read in full...)
Best way to tell my parents I'm pregnant?
Q. so im 19 and am almost 7 weeks pregnant. i haven't told my parents yet and im just looking for some advise on how to tell them and what i should say, and also how to ask my mother to stop smoking since i do still live at home, therefore being ...
A. 27 March 2012: Hi
your mum might have guessed but you dont want to wait for that Just tell mum alone its hard for dads to hear. let her know your keeping the baby and you hope to still live at home.She will want to know who the dad is too. As for not smoking ... (read in full...)
I need fashion help badly!
Q. I have never been real fashion trendy. I guess you can say i am more of a tom boy. I have wanted to be more style trendy since mom family is but i guess it skipped me. I am married and money has been tight so i don"t buy clothes for me unless i...
A. 27 March 2012: read these blogs to
http://voices.yahoo.com/top-ten-blogs-plus-size-fashion-bbw-63766.html... (read in full...)
I just want my boyfriend to give me some attention!
Q. I'm screaming for help and attention from my bf he never has anything to talk to me about its like he shows no intrested in me. I love him so much that I just can't seem to just dump him as I wish I could just walk away from him. idk what it is that ...
A. 27 March 2012: have you tried standing stark naked in front of the TV with a banner saying TALK TO ME
tell him your leaving no more good wife good mum good sex for him that should get his attention... (read in full...)
Any advice to keep me going through this break up, or any tips on how to stay strong?
Q. My boyfriend of 2 years and I broke up on Saturday. It was so abrupt I've been in such shock ( the gist of it being I thought he was the one, he didn't feel the same anymore so I left) So far I've been doing ok, quite up and down but generally al...
A. 27 March 2012: hes being cruel to be kind no contact is kind
you will go through stages same as grieving and once you pass anger your on the way to recovery It wont be fast but take a day at a time keep busy be good to you There will be somebody new for you one ... (read in full...)
I need fashion help badly!
Q. I have never been real fashion trendy. I guess you can say i am more of a tom boy. I have wanted to be more style trendy since mom family is but i guess it skipped me. I am married and money has been tight so i don"t buy clothes for me unless i...
A. 27 March 2012: shop online then you can view at leisure so finding bargains that suit your purse & body
http:... (read in full...)
What goes through a women's mind when a guy ejaculates prematurely?
Q. What goes through a women's mind when a guy ejaculates prematurely? Three times in the last couple of weeks I've been with this really hot girl and each time it's ended far too quickly. The first time, we had dinner and some drinks in a few ...
A. 27 March 2012: "What goes through a womans mind when a guy ejaculates prematurely"?
DAMN he must LOVE my body... (read in full...)
Dumped for a rich guy: was girl being shallow or practical?
Q. Yeah so a couple weeks ago this girl I was seeing for a few months. Really pretty girl, my friends even said he was hot. I'm an average guy, maybe a 6 on a scale of 1 to 10. I make a decent living but def not rich. Anyway, to make a long story short ...
A. 27 March 2012: Jimmy
sugar daddy = security = practical = makes sense to me
not ALL girls are same shes just using her assets while she can You can use yours to find a new woman maybe a rich cougar... (read in full...)
Friends with benefits for 8 years, then I find out he is married! How do I get over this?
Q. hi everyone, could do with some advice please, how do you get over a man who you see for 8 years as friends with benefits? im totaly heartbroken and there isnt a day goes by i dont think of him. he got married 2 years ago and never told me and yet ...
A. 27 March 2012: you need to give yourself a kick up the arse and stop taking crumbs from this slime ball He doesnot care he was seeing his wife before they got married he got engaged had a party had a wedding had a honeymoon set up home had sex Why do you want this ... (read in full...)
Why on earth would a woman say something like that to her husband? Should I start playing the same game, to make her realize that I can stray if I am not getting what I want at home?
Q. My wife and I are in our mid 40's and have been married a long time. Lately she has been changing quite a bit: working out a lot, getting botox, wearing revealing clothes out with ner girlfriends, communicating with guys she used to know from high ...
A. 27 March 2012: she is bored and wants to re capture her youth she wants the thrill of a new man and sounnds like shes getting attention to . step up the excitement in your marriage start dating her again pull a few surprises tell her shes lovely ... (read in full...)
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