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male
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:What goes through a women's mind when a guy ejaculates prematurely? Three times in the last couple of weeks I've been with this really hot girl and each time it's ended far too quickly.The first time, we had dinner and some drinks in a few bars then made our way back to her place. There had been some kissing in the back of the cab and I had already cum in my pants once; however, the moment we got inside she started to rip my clothes off and I became so turned on again that as soon as she slipped her hand in my pants, I came again - all over her fingers. The next time we got a bit further and we both managed to take our clothes off; however, this time she went to slip a condom on but I came as she rolled it down my shaft.The last time (and I haven't see her since) I managed to hold, by thinking of 'baseball' etc... out until we got onto the bed and we decided to leave the condom out of it this time but again as she was guiding me into her I came on her landing strip.As you can probably imagine, I'm very embarrassed by it all; however, I've not heard from her since the weekend (although she said she'd see me again) and I wondered what might be going on for her around this issue.Any help from girls/women would be much appreciated.Thanks
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reader, Gabrielle Stoker  +, writes (28 March 2012):
 I feel immensely flattered.
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (27 March 2012): that I really turn him on... intoxicating
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reader, DanceInTheDark  +, writes (27 March 2012):
 Disappointment.
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female
reader, oldbag +, writes (27 March 2012):
 "What goes through a womans mind when a guy ejaculates prematurely"?
DAMN he must LOVE my body
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male
reader, xgod +, writes (27 March 2012):
 The key to premature ejaculation NOT MATTERING is to make sure she is fully satisfied before you even go for the gold.You should try a couple of things to resolve this problem: 1. An hour before having sex, masturbate to orgasm and wash clean. This will make you far less likely to blow your top when you are having sex later on. You can still orgasm, but it will take you far longer.2. Since you will have done step 1, spend time exploring her body. Kiss her, caress her all over - her legs, her shoulders, her spine, her tummy, and avoid her sensitive areas until after you have explored everywhere else. By pleasuring her, and building her up she will be much more likely to be happy regardless of how quickly you end things.3. Ask her what pleases her. Find out where she touches herself to masturbate. What areas are most sensitive and pleasurable? By finding these, you will be able to caress those areas more often, making her even more turned on.
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