Buying a bikini in India - advice wanted!
Q. can any body please help me with some doubts. this is not about relationship. but this can help energizing a relationship. my wife would prefer to buy a bikini. basically we want to go for a swim on a beach. we don't know what how to select an...
A. 24 November 2009:
Your question has been answered, look online for swimsuits.
It would appear there is no swimsuit advise available to you on this site.... (read in full...)
Buying a bikini in India - advice wanted!
Q. can any body please help me with some doubts. this is not about relationship. but this can help energizing a relationship. my wife would prefer to buy a bikini. basically we want to go for a swim on a beach. we don't know what how to select an...
A. 23 November 2009: well hello again cool and coolest,
is this some sort of wind up?
you are internet savvy enough to find an obscure dear cupid site, how come you are not internet savvy enough to google "swimsuits" or even get onto ebay or simular and have a l... (read in full...)
Buying a bikini in India - advice wanted!
Q. can any body please help me with some doubts. this is not about relationship. but this can help energizing a relationship. my wife would prefer to buy a bikini. basically we want to go for a swim on a beach. we don't know what how to select an...
A. 21 November 2009: why dont you just go into a store that sells brand name swim suits and ask them, they should be able to advise on best style for your wife's body shape. A store that also fits and sells underwear would be best if they are available.
If you cant... (read in full...)
What could be the reason for very bad luck?
Q. What could be the reason for very bad luck? Like you do everything right in life, it is really not your fault, but you get the worst luck of day, after day. I'm talking about really bad stuff here.NO ,I don't think it makes sense to go into details ...
A. 21 November 2009: Sometimes lots of bad stuff can happen to the nicest people. And there is no explanation for it. One lady I know is now 83 and she has seen such tragedy in her life, it makes me cry. I don't believe her life is the result of Karma, or debts ... (read in full...)
I sit there every day and think about him (my ex) and cry.
Q. Me and my ex split over 3 months ago and recently even though he has a new partner he has said he isnt actually happy and he thinks he may be going through a breakdown, because we share 2 children together and we were together from a young age for ...
A. 21 November 2009: oh, you poor baby! I know how you feel, and the gut clenching pain, a lot of peopl dont realise that we arent only mourning the loss of the relationship but also all our dreams and hopes for the future we envisaged for ourselves, and more ... (read in full...)
Why do guys like to smell a girl's hair!?
Q. I'm 16 and i was wondering why guys smell girls' hair. I was hanging with one of my guy friends and we hugged and he picked me up and i could tell he smelled my hair. i heard it means the guy likes you. is it true? ...
A. 20 November 2009: clean hair smells great! I can understand the attraction, but cant explain it.
But yes, the fact he picked you up for a squeezy hug and sniffed your hair could indicate he has a strong liking for you.
... (read in full...)
I don't want a relationship but a one night stand might be ok, how do I tell him?
Q. I am in love with a guy who I dated best friend of him I desire him so much we were just friend at the beginning but some emotional reactions started and he ran away I am thinking it is because of his best friend that he doesn't want to be in a ...
A. 20 November 2009: one night stand is not okay, never is! One night stands are degrading and lower your self worth, especially as you believe you are in love with him.
Far better to try to develop a little more than a passing friendship with him, maybe you showed y... (read in full...)
What are the odds that he still loves me?
Q. From time to time, my ex still gets in touch with me. We have been broken up for several months now. At first our break-up was so messed up, we were bitter towards each other for months. But 3 months ago, he made peace with me that we decided to ...
A. 20 November 2009: This one is a bit odd, in that he doesnt appear to have unterior motives, he hasnt made a move on you, in fact he sounds like a decent guy.
I think the best thing to do is to continue as you are for a while, maybe you are both still in a space of... (read in full...)
Could my drink have been spiked?!
Q. I'm sorry i know this isn't the right site for this sort of question but i always get good advice so i thought id give it ago. Last night i went out with a friend... both got quite drunk...(but its not the first time, were 21 and very used to dri...
A. 20 November 2009: yes, your drink could have been spiked. I have been the victim of a drink spiking, and I was on water that night!
I doubt very much you need to seek medical help over this, just drink lots of water to help flush the crap out of your system, ... (read in full...)
How can I explain this to him so we end on good terms?
Q. I met my ex boyfriend through work although i didn't want to start anything in the beginning because i had just broken up with someone and he lived a very long way away from me. After around 6-9 months we started talking every day on the phone, ...
A. 20 November 2009: I agree with you this man is not honest nor was he upfront with you. You dont owe him any explanation, in fact it sounds like you dont owe him anything, so shut the door, dont let him back in, he sounds selfish. Block his ID's, dont take his ... (read in full...)
Should I question him about this or leave it be?
Q. Hi I would really like the aunts interpreration of this man. I'm in a relationship with a guy we are both around 60. we have great sex and enjoy it very much.but sometimes he doesn't cum like today he always tells me how beautiful the love making is ...
A. 20 November 2009: He is telling you that he doesnt have a problem with not coming every time, and that he enjoys making love to you, its making love with you and the fact you enjoy it that makes him feel like a man.
Enjoy your lovelife, dont make an issue about th... (read in full...)
My husband claims he will change if I go back to him but I don't trust his word!
Q. I left my husband, we were working together on cruises, saved money to build a future together for 5 years, I am from latin america he is eastern european, first of all he choose living in his country, despite i suggested a neutral country, after I ...
A. 20 November 2009: I doubt very much your husband will change, and I think your gut instinct to not trust him are spot on. Tell your family all that has happened, you may need their support to get back on your feet.
But dont go back to him, its very much harder t... (read in full...)
Should we just be friends?
Q. I have this problem.I started dating a coworker when we started working together,he was just getting over a divorce.We had a relationship for two years and right before I go for a family visit he was telling me about his plans for us and talking ...
A. 20 November 2009: open relationships are just an excuse to use and abuse people. The 'lets be friends" thing after a relationship is also very difficult to maintain. You would be better off just accepting the relationship is not happening and revert to being a ... (read in full...)
I bled after masturbating - what happened?
Q. some day before i did sex with my finger. my boyfriend see me on web cam and he told me how to do.i did that. he told me do it with pen so i take 2 pen and i did with pen.after sometime i get blood i dont know how its come. i am in tension and i ...
A. 20 November 2009: the pen may have scratched or scraped the inner wall of your vagina, which could have caused the bleed. Apart from that have you got any idea how dangerout is is to stick foreign objects into any part of the body, its just like sticking beads up ... (read in full...)
Do I give my husband another chance or give it a go with mr perfect?
Q. Where to begin. Me and my husband have been married 8 years. But the last year and a half lived apart it started out just for work but progressed to a real seperation. Our marraige has been rocky for most of its duration. We have argued for yrs and ...
A. 18 November 2009: physically abusive never deserves a second chance!... (read in full...)
What songs should I listen to after finding out he doesn't like me?
Q. To cut a long story short I have recently found out that the person I like, likes someone else, and to be honest... I'm gutted. But rather than moping around any longer [I like him A LOT] I want to move on. I need some songs that I can listen to ...
A. 18 November 2009: The Corrs forgiven not forgotten... (read in full...)
How can you go from planning to propose to not acknowledging her?
Q. Okay..I need some input/advice on my situation. My boyfriend just informed me that a female coworker of his admitted to him that she likes him as in having a crush for him...when the female coworker asked him what he thought... all he said was that...
A. 17 November 2009: this other woman looms so large on your boyfriends radar his response to her declaration of having a crush on him was that he didnt have time to think about it
she was so important he didnt even give it a few seconds, let alone a minute. ... (read in full...)
Why lead me on if nothing is to happen? Or does he want something to happen despite having a girlfriend?
Q. I started a new job a month ago. Working with a nice guy, but he's giving mixed signals to me (I think). He has a girlfriend and they've been together for 2 years but he flirts with me. He's sent messages/emails saying 'I love you', always...
A. 17 November 2009: yech, what a slime ball. I would avoid him at all costs, a player who shows scant regard for his girlfriend and is leading you on, at the same time.
Next time he tries the smarmy stuff, just say phht, shrug and walk away. He isnt worth wasting ... (read in full...)
Should I find a new job or go back to my old one where I've not showed up for a week!
Q. hi there i am new to this and i have a question about my life choices, i am 18 an im not very good at school work as you can tell of my spelling so as you can quess my GCSE's were not that good. i lov horses so i went with this collage where ...
A. 17 November 2009: wooo, phone your employers and explain to them that you were unable to show up for work because you were sick. Apologise. Because you havent been there for so long your job may no longer exist. They may feel that you are not reliable.
YOu n... (read in full...)
Its exhausting to try and be everything that he wants!
Q. I have a question for all of you to try and answer. I have been dating the same boy for over a year now. Things started out great and still are. But when we are in bed, I don’t feel as close as we used to be. He goes in and out of phases with wha...
A. 17 November 2009: Yep, lots of ideas, ask him to try being what you want for a change. Just be prepared for him to ask what that is, and answer him. If he wants you to have big boobs and you are small chested ask him to grow a few more inches in the department it ... (read in full...)
Do I believe that he has learnt his lesson? Or should I walk away?
Q. i have been with my boyfriend for a year but a few days ago two girls came to me and told me they had been sleeping with him. i truely love him and i dont doubt how he feels for me but i just cant believe he has done this to me. we had been arguing ...
A. 17 November 2009: You need to decide one way or the other if you want to give him a second chance, you also need to decide if you feel capable of forgiving him eventually?
If you do decide to give him a second chance you need to be aware he may see that as a gre... (read in full...)
I have slept with 44 girls can't stay attracted to any women!
Q. I have slept with 44 girls now and I can't seem to find the one. I dont want to settle for second best and I feel like the right girl hasn't come along. I am a male whore and I enjoy having sex. But I get annoyed with women quickly and little ...
A. 16 November 2009: Dr Psych
this person has posted previously about sleeping with a married woman
I dont see him as unhappy with his lifestyle, he bragged about the married woman becoming number 44. ... (read in full...)
Am I wasting my time in this relationship, will I ever be what he wants or does this not exsist?
Q. hi, where do i start? i am currently in a relationship that is not going too well in the bedroom department. We have been together for just over 3 years now, not a great 3 years if im honest, i think this all comes down to him, at first our sex life ...
A. 15 November 2009: to be very, very blunt,m yes you are wating your time. Based on his previous history I would say he is was always cheating, is still cheating and will always cheat.
You sound like a nice person, I think you deserve a lot better than the treatmen... (read in full...)
My pre-emptive cheat has left me feeling guilty. What should I do?
Q. I've been seeing this guy since about the start of this year but a few months ago we officially got together. And I've never been happier. But He's got this close female friend who I don't like. I don't trust her, because of her bad reputati...
A. 15 November 2009: you should do your best to get to know your b/f's friend, and hope like crazy nobody saw you cheating and tells your boyfriend about it... (read in full...)
Should I just show up at his house?
Q. ok i really want 2 go round this guys house, hes stopped talking 2 me for no reason, ive texted him and wont answer my texts, and i dont know what ive done, ive spoken 2 my guy mates and they say i should go round and just knock on the door, but im ...
A. 15 November 2009: wooo oooooo I am feeling a lot of bad vibes on this one. Under no circumstances you go and knock on his door, unless you want to get a rep as a stalker and crazy lady. Dont take any notice of your male friends, they are probably just grunting ... (read in full...)
Should I tell my ex that I'm pregnant with his child?
Q. Just yesterday, I found out I was pregnant and it was confirmed by a doctor. My boyfriend and I recently split and he refused to give me a reason. Then only thing he told me was that he loved me but couldnt be with me anymore. But the night before, ...
A. 15 November 2009: yes, as you are intending to go through with the pregnancy you need to tell your ex b/f you are pregnant. If you decide to keep the baby he will be liable for paying some support. You should find a social worker who can give you advise on your r... (read in full...)
He says he wants me, but then acts weird
Q. I am confused. I am getting very mixed signals from someone I have known for a while but only a few weeks ago started sleeping with. It started with flirting, a kiss, a drive and then sex, more texting and ending up spending an amazing night in a ...
A. 15 November 2009: Maybe he only wanted regular sex, maybe he is rethinking his position, maybe he is married or has a girlfriend, how much younger, maybe he is so young he really doesnt know what he wants. Leave him alone for a while, if the relationship is ... (read in full...)
He keeps hurting my feelings
Q. Hi. At close to the beginning of this relationship, I set some boundaries with this guy, and one of them was not to call me or even joke about me being a bitch, because I'm not. This guy was my first. We got married and he still keeps joking o...
A. 15 November 2009: Now here is a new idea. Next time he tries to get a rise out of you, (because he knows he can) how about you just shrug your shoulders and just go on with whatever, washing the dishes, or cooking the dinner, or watching the TV, dont let him see ... (read in full...)
Should I have sex with my girlfriend?
Q. i'm 14 and my girlfriend is 14 too. we have bin going out for about a year and she asked me if we could have sex what sould i do?...
A. 15 November 2009: I think you should be the responsible one and tell her you are not ready for sex. And you are most probably not. Point out to your girlfriend that men reach their sexual peak at about age 19, and if she is willing to wait for you until then you w... (read in full...)
Am I a normal 17 year old?
Q. always, whenever i see a girl or a woman, my eyes first of all go to her breasts. i want to ask is this normal ? do other guys also have this ? i am 17...
A. 15 November 2009: Sometimes a guys eyes will first go to the breasts, sometimes to the butt, in the old, old days his eyes would try to catch a glimpse of a shapely ankle. For others it might be something more subtle, a scent or a flash of red lace. They are all n... (read in full...)
My violent boyfriend accuses me of cheating
Q. We've been together two years... Tonight, I did not orgasm like he likes me to – it apparently wasn’t strong enough so he told me that I didn’t orgasm nicely – I told him that he was wrong. He wanted to know why I didn’t come nicely – again, ...
A. 15 November 2009: Where you go is to the phone to call one of these numbers, and then you take their advise and get the hell out of that destructive, violent relationship! Stop Woman Abuse National Toll-free Hotline 0800 150150 Life Line: Johannesburg (011) ... (read in full...)
Some help writing a note to a boy I like, please
Q. I am toying with the idea of giving this guy a note the last time I see him. I plan on getting to know him a little before I actually give it to him. Anyhow, here is what Im going to write. Im not very good at gauging how people will respond ...
A. 15 November 2009: My opinion is that I would leave the first half almost as it is, , just remove a few words and leave out your PS altogether. "I normally dont write letters to people I dont really know, but I figured what the hell. Plus I'll probably never s... (read in full...)
Should I give her time and accept her with open arms when she comes back, if she does?
Q. Me and my now ex loved each other a lot and all our friends and family said we were the perfect couple for each other. We both were talking about her moving here, us living together, her getting a job as a PD officer while I finish school. We ...
A. 15 November 2009: So this is a same gender relationship? Not that it makes any difference but from your letter I would say your ex has spoken the truth, distance and a growing apart have happened until she finds herself at a point where she isnt in love anymore. ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend said no more sex...?
Q. I am 15 and my girlfriend is 14. We have been going out for two months and have done everything but sex. Yesterday was our two month anniversary and we were just about to have sex, but her dad came home. So i got a handjob under the blankets ...
A. 15 November 2009: You take no for an answer, she doesnt want to have sex, she also doesnt want to give you hand jobs under the blanket any more. Leave her alone, dont pressure her, she said NO and that should be the end of it!... (read in full...)
My husband hates my cooking!!! Help!
Q. Hi, i need some idea or any advice. my husband is very difficult or complicated man most of the time in anything but specially with food. im his second wife. he was separated to his 1st wife of course i dont know the reason. but i do know his ex ...
A. 15 November 2009: If he doesnt like your cooking so much, tell him to cook his own, and while he is at it he can cook yours too while you go and do some gardening or reading or something.
Hey, and gues what, he is being insulting and unfeeling and downrigh... (read in full...)
Is he wanting to end things and doesn't want to tell me to my face?
Q. I desprately need your advice. I am engaged to the guy of my dreams but I'm seventeen. we have been together for a while now, eleven months and our love is deep. just recently his mom grounded him and he emailed me on the 16th of last month saying ...
A. 15 November 2009: He is engaged to you and him Mum grounded him? He is 15! He is only a kid, still wet behind the ears, and for you to get yourself engaged to a mere boy who's mummy can ground says to me you arent very much more mature yourself.
You need to grow ... (read in full...)
My fiancee is extremely needy!
Q. Dear Cupid, This is my first time using the site and I really need some relationship advice. My Fiancee, (I have known her for 6 years) and I have a problem The problem is, I'm a lot smarter than her. Normally, in the relationship thi...
A. 15 November 2009: um, a man in need, your login indicates you are a female between the ages of 16 and 17.
Not showing your smarts too cleverly right now are you?
... (read in full...)
Should I believe him, knowing he likes to lie a lot?
Q. I just need some advice on this, me and my boyfriend been together for 2 yrs and we always had trust issues, he lives with his mom and sister and his sister has a lot of female friends who go to the house, now she has a friend who she just met and ...
A. 15 November 2009: If you already know that he likes to lie a lot, chances are he is telling lies again.
If this other girl needs his number to call as an emergency babysitter, his number will be on HER PHONE, her number doesnt need to be on his! It is very pos... (read in full...)
My b/f is in the middle of a divorce, his wife is making my life hell, help?
Q. Ok, I am near my breaking point and need an unbiased opinion. My bf is in the middle of a divorce, yet they still live in the same house, both for financial reasons(hers) and both lawyers are telling them not to leave until one is ordered to. They...
A. 15 November 2009: Pure Evil? I think not - a woman hurting and looking for revenge is more likely the truth. Like I said, if you and he are meant to be together why cant you make a pact that you dont see each other for a period of time, 6 months is not too long in ... (read in full...)
My ex has a new girlfriend. Should we continue our secret relationship?
Q. Me and my boyfried broke up after i lost our baby, he has a new girlfriend but we are still messing around, should i stick around or leave him alone even tho i kno he still loves me?...
A. 15 November 2009: no, no, no dont stick around. This man has no respect for you, dont sneak around having sex with him behind his girlfriends back. Just do your best to get on with your life, build a future for yourself, finish school, get a good job, start ... (read in full...)
Do I confront him with the things I've heard about him?
Q. Ok there is this guy at my high school and im a freshmen and neverhad a boyfriend and he's a sophmore but he's suppposed to be a junior but he had to go to rehab. And he has a very big sexual past. I know he likes me a lot and he's really nice to ...
A. 15 November 2009: Hey lucky you, you already know this is not a good person to be with, you already know he has been to rehab, his reputation has preceded him, you are aware there is a chance he may get you drunk and ask you to perform sexual acts on him. Heed the ... (read in full...)
He told me he might be moving soon but I like him sooooo much! What can I do?
Q. I need help, ive been going out with this guy for almost a month, and i really like him, but not just like, i love him but im not IN love with him. He told me he was moving next summer and im cool with that, but he recently told me he might be ...
A. 15 November 2009: Your profile indicates you are aged between 13 and 15, that would but this boy in roughly the same age group, which means circumstances outside his control determine if he moves or not, so really, there isnt much you can do, just maintain the ... (read in full...)
Please help! Can you have sex while on your period?
Q. Can you have sex while on your period?...
A. 15 November 2009: There is no medical reason I know of why you can't. It could get a bit messy though, and I think the basic reason most people dont is simply a cultural thing.... (read in full...)
My b/f is in the middle of a divorce, his wife is making my life hell, help?
Q. Ok, I am near my breaking point and need an unbiased opinion. My bf is in the middle of a divorce, yet they still live in the same house, both for financial reasons(hers) and both lawyers are telling them not to leave until one is ordered to. They...
A. 14 November 2009: wooooo eeee, my goodness, did you ever open a can of worms when you decided to spy in him for her.
Of course she is bitter, of course she is putting barriers in your and his way.
And in the middle of this enormous mess are the innocents in thi... (read in full...)
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