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writes:I have slept with 44 girls now and I can't seem to find the one. I dont want to settle for second best and I feel like the right girl hasn't come along. I am a male whore and I enjoy having sex. But I get annoyed with women quickly and little things make me loose attraction. Like if I see a girl eating certain foods...or if a girl has anything short of fresh breath. One violation...and she is toast! I want to find someone to get serious with, but I haven't been able to score a girl that I am continiously attracted to. The only girl I ever felt a lasting attraction for was my first girlfriend (and NO...I am not still in love with her or have any desire to be with her for that matter). What should I do? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 December 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI figure if I can get a married woman that I am best friends with...she will do.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 November 2009): I cannot understand how the MODS allowed this post through knowing that this pest is up to NO GOOD AND WASING EVERYONES TIME AND EFFORT. Good aunts and uncles, this guy is now gloating. and I think may become a pest soon an DC. just read his latest reponse from a few days ago. Mods, you guys are doing an excellent job, however just as you selectively block our responses how about doing some due diligence and sifting out the fake posts MORE ESPECIALLY people like this nut who is so full of shit. I have stronger words for the poster but something tells me it may just make him cum in his briefs by all he excitement.
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reader, Yos  +, writes (16 November 2009):
 You need to fall in love, commit and invest your trust and hopes in a relationship. Then have her unceremoniously dump you.
After that's happened to you a couple of times you'll probably grow up.
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reader, Aunty BimBim  +, writes (16 November 2009):
 Dr Psych
this person has posted previously about sleeping with a married woman
I dont see him as unhappy with his lifestyle, he bragged about the married woman becoming number 44.
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reader, DrPsych  +, writes (16 November 2009):
 Get some relationship counselling. This is not because you are mentally ill, but because you have commitment-issues deeply ingrained into your personality structure. If you haven't found one girl out of the 44 who you would like to have a long-term relationship with then there are two alternative explanations. Firstly, your standards for sexual partners are way too low and anything with a pulse will do. In that case, raise the bar and save the passion until you think you at least have a friendship with a woman. Secondly, you are scared of commitment and relationship-responsibility deep down. This could be for all sorts of reasons related to your background - you find minor things to criticise sexual partners over in order to justify dumping them and moving on. If you were happy with sleeping around then I would say fair enough, as long as you are being safe then fine. But you seem unhappy with your current lifestyle and talking it through with a professional may uncover why you are feeling this way.
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reader, Another_Kapiti  +, writes (16 November 2009):
 I hate to sound harsh, but I think you need to reconnect with reality...you sound very unbending and inflexible in what you're looking for in a woman. One violation and she's toast? No wonder you can't seem to have a lasting relationship!You are looking for perfection in a world where perfection is a myth, no one is perfect 100% of the time! Unless you are perfect yourself (which you aren't) how can you demand such high expectations from your potential partner?! It's not going to happen I'm afraid, you're deluding yourself.What qualities are you looking for? Give me some real ideas about what you're looking for and I might be able to help you more accurately!
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