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writes:I need help, ive been going out with this guy for almost a month, and i really like him, but not just like, i love him but im not IN love with him. He told me he was moving next summer and im cool with that, but he recently told me he might be moving in december, what do i do? Reply to this Question
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reader, Another_Kapiti  +, writes (15 November 2009):
 I have to agree with Aunty Bimbim. He doesn't control the circumstances of his move, his parents do. I'm more concerned with you saying 'you love him but aren't in love with him'...what do you mean exactly? You'd be cool with him moving next year but not this year? I think you're confused with your feelings and hormones play a huge part in this. You like how he makes you feel (wanted, desired, flattered etc) but don't really want to commit to anything, and now that the time limit you have has been moved up you're probably reading feelings into this you don't really have.
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reader, Aunty BimBim  +, writes (15 November 2009):
 Your profile indicates you are aged between 13 and 15, that would but this boy in roughly the same age group, which means circumstances outside his control determine if he moves or not, so really, there isnt much you can do, just maintain the friendship, (and if he tries the I love you so much I need to have sex with you otherwise my heart will break line or similar, just dont fall for it) when he leaves dont make any promises about waiting for each other, its impractical at your age, if you are meant to be together a few years down the track it will happen. Accept it for what it was, a nice romance with a nice boy that will only hold nice warm fuzzy memories for you.
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