My b/f is in the middle of a divorce, his wife is making my life hell, help?
Q. Ok, I am near my breaking point and need an unbiased opinion. My bf is in the middle of a divorce, yet they still live in the same house, both for financial reasons(hers) and both lawyers are telling them not to leave until one is ordered to. They...
A. 15 November 2009: Pure Evil? I think not - a woman hurting and looking for revenge is more likely the truth. Like I said, if you and he are meant to be together why cant you make a pact that you dont see each other for a period of time, 6 months is not too long in ... (read in full...)
Please help! Can you have sex while on your period?
Q. Can you have sex while on your period?...
A. 15 November 2009: There is no medical reason I know of why you can't. It could get a bit messy though, and I think the basic reason most people dont is simply a cultural thing.... (read in full...)
Should I take things slowly?
Q. i have been with my boyfriend for six months and he decided it was over because he said he was tried of the arguements. i called him to apologise but he gave me the cold shoulder and said we will never get back together. he left on monday and today ...
A. 15 November 2009: From what you have told us, I would say the relationship sounds pretty dead, but not yet buried, the last making out session was just a result of charged emotions, I think you should just get on with your life and if you were arguing too much be ... (read in full...)
I'm angry hurt and confused about this dilema I am in
Q. A few months ago, a friend in my social circle had been flirting with me. Things progressed, and we made out, fooled around a few times. I'm a virgin and didn't really want my first time to be casual sex, as he continually stated how he just wanted ...
A. 14 November 2009: this young man is a prat and used you for sex. I am sorry you lost your virginity to such a one, dont beat ourself up over this, believe me you have dont nothing wrong, the fault here all lies with him.... (read in full...)
Am I being unfair to my ex girlfriend?
Q. [Moderator Note: Question orginally poster under the heading 'Do I owe my ex closure?' Link: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/do-i-owe-my-ex-closure.html] Hi, I'm in a bit of a quandry. I posted before but there were a couple t...
A. 14 November 2009: I am with Kelja on this one, you thought you could do better, you have found that you cant, now you are trying to justify your behaviour to yourself so that you can get your story straight and feed it to this woman
I think you are also a little s... (read in full...)
How do I prove I haven't cheated on my girlfriend?
Q. Hi, I have been in a relationship for a good 6 months now. I am a straight arrow and I love her and will never do wrong by her. However my gf is very insecure because of her previous relationship. I have this school friend who I told everyt...
A. 14 November 2009: I can understand why your girlfriend is upset because you discussed personal details with another woman.
I can understand if she now feels she cant trust you with her personal and private information.
You ask how you can clear your conscious, ... (read in full...)
Help me with the problems I am having with an ex!
Q. If you recently knew that the ex told (and maybe is still telling) everyone:you love him,chasing him and he don't like you. In reality he was dating you but without the others knowledge. He told you he is interested and so on.Will you tell everyone ...
A. 14 November 2009: he doesnt sound like ideal boyfriend material. I am with quiet echo on this one, stop seeing him, and when people rush to tell you he said she said etc, just shrug it off and dont comment.
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My b/f is in the middle of a divorce, his wife is making my life hell, help?
Q. Ok, I am near my breaking point and need an unbiased opinion. My bf is in the middle of a divorce, yet they still live in the same house, both for financial reasons(hers) and both lawyers are telling them not to leave until one is ordered to. They...
A. 14 November 2009: wooooo eeee, my goodness, did you ever open a can of worms when you decided to spy in him for her.
Of course she is bitter, of course she is putting barriers in your and his way.
And in the middle of this enormous mess are the innocents in thi... (read in full...)
I am in love with my best friend.... oh yeah....and btw...she's a married woman.
Q. I am in love with my best friend and she is married. I feel so bad about it, but I can't ignore my feelings anymore. It seems like the more we hang out, the more I want to be with her. I have slept with a total of 43 girls (2 of which I was in a ...
A. 14 November 2009: oi, she is married,she signed a contract in law and I am going to presume she was married in a church, which means she also made a promise before God. now you seem to be wanting to help her break that promise and break that contract. You... (read in full...)
Lately she has been acting like she is mad at me.
Q. I have been dating this girl for around 2 months now, and lately she has been acting like she is mad at me. For the first few weeks everything was fine, we got along, we kissed, we cuddled, that sort of stuff. For about 2 weeks now she has been ...
A. 14 November 2009: could be one of two things she is seeing how far she can push you with her bad behaviour before you call a halt or she is acting the way she is to try and force you into breaking up with you You need to work out which of the two it is, so presu... (read in full...)
I have been told she is using me because she already has a b/f. Do women hide their intentions?
Q. There is a girl I met short time ago... I got told she is messing around with me because she has got a boyfriend but she keeps on arousing me. When she phones with her boyfriend they don't even say they love eachother or similar... She has had some ...
A. 2 November 2009: yes, some women can, and some women do, hide their true intentions. Some women also like to experiment with seeing how far they can go with men, such as arousing them with no intention of following through. This girl is in a relationship of 2 y... (read in full...)
I'm not even sure he went out with me for any reason other than "rebound"...
Q. I just broke up with my boyfriend today, for good reason. He likes my best friend, and his ex, and 2 other girls, and im sick of it. But now he totally hates me for breaking up with him. I had my best friend (whos also his best friend) do it for m...
A. 1 November 2009: I am NOT laughing at it only being a relationship of two weeks duration.
I am NOT laughing because you appear to be a little confused he didnt get upset when you broke up with him, via a friend.
I am NOT laughing, my mouth just puckers that way... (read in full...)
We never got to meet, and I scared him off!
Q. We never got to meet, and i scared him off. He lives a few states down and Ill probably see him in 2 years at my best friends wedding (we met thru her) We used to talk lots and then i told him how i felt (eventho we never met) and he told me he ...
A. 1 November 2009: You havent met him, how could your heart be SET on him. Turn off the computer and get outside, or read a book, or phone your mom, anything, get a life willya.
Dont contact this poor man again, your are in danger of becoming a stalker.
Get ... (read in full...)
Even when I'm with my boyfriend I keep thinking of my crush instead!
Q. okay. i need serious advice... i am crazy about this guy in my school. i call him my ken doll. he is perfect in so many ways and i like him alot. but he doesn't feel the same about me and it hurts like so badly. i dont know what to do. like i really ...
A. 1 November 2009: you are not being fair to your boyfriend. I think you need to gently let him go so that he can find a girl who will like him for what he is. This will also give you heaps more free time to obsess about somebody you cant have.
enjoy it!... (read in full...)
Was it wrong for my ex to sleep at my house (not in my room)
Q. I'm having serious problems with my girlfriend. My girlfriend is extremely jealous of my ex girlfriend, for whatever reason. At the start of mine and my g/f's relationship, my g/f hated my ex's guts. She warmed to her after a pleasant night o...
A. 1 November 2009: Hi again "A male" I think you should be sending thanks sky wards for being handed a reason to dump the current g/f. She sounds irrational and dangerous, and if she started the relationship full of hatred towards another person for no valid reason, ... (read in full...)
I don't think I love my husband and now I've found a spark with someone new...
Q. I am in desperate need for advice, I have no one to talk to and am in a dilemma. I really do not know what to do. I am 40 years old (a young looking 40 year old, so people say) I have been married for 14 years and been with my husband for 20. ...
A. 1 November 2009: If the marriage is as bad as you say, leave it, why spend the rest of your life in such an unhappy unfullfilling relationship, so leave.
BUT, and here is the big thing, do not leave the marriage to start something new with the person you feel the... (read in full...)
Was it wrong for my ex to sleep at my house (not in my room)
Q. I'm having serious problems with my girlfriend. My girlfriend is extremely jealous of my ex girlfriend, for whatever reason. At the start of mine and my g/f's relationship, my g/f hated my ex's guts. She warmed to her after a pleasant night o...
A. 1 November 2009: did your current g/f have a valid reason for hating your ex g/f guts at the start of your relationship or was it just an irrational, just because, hatred?
Think carefully about this, if she had a valid reason for that hatred in the beginnin... (read in full...)
Should I go back to the UK for university, and leave my b/f in Australia?
Q. I'm from the uk, and I moved to australia with my boyfriend a couple months ago. I'd quit university in the uk, after a year and a half, because I felt like I'd chosen the wrong course, under pressure from my family, and it was incredibly stressfull ...
A. 1 November 2009: not knowing either of you its hard to give a definitive answer, but he certainly sounds supportive.
I say go for it and give it your best shot! If the relationship is going to fail over you following your dream then it probably would have fallen i... (read in full...)
How could he say he might love me only to drop me shortly after?
Q. I had been dating this guy that lived in my hometown for almost 7 months. The first 2 months were while I was at college, but when I was home, I followed him to all the summer ball games he played. When I had to go back, he told me how he would ...
A. 1 November 2009: it was such a short period of time, from my reading of the situation as you have written it he is a decent guy who was doing his best not to hurt your feelings, maybe you came on too strong wanting love and hearts and flowers and happy ever after ... (read in full...)
Do girls cum after orgasm?
Q. Do girls cum after orgasm?? ...
A. 1 November 2009: cum is orgasm you need to educate yourself a little more on sexual matters, why not visit your local library and get some books on the subject. ... (read in full...)
I'm finding it hard to think that the kind, attentive, wonderful man that I fell in love with has disappeared at the moment or even forever.
Q. I'm having problems in my relationship with my boyfriend. We have been going out for 2 1/2 years in an LDR. My boyfriend has been working really hard lately, so much so that I haven't seen him since the end of September whereas we were seeing each ...
A. 1 November 2009: hard as it is I think the best way to confront our fears is to face them head on. Phone him, ask if he has five minutes to spare, tell him you are feeling insecure and confused. Ask him if the relationship is over. If he beats around the bush ... (read in full...)
Help! I left a 31-year relationship with a woman I could 100% trust, for a relationship that I don't think I can ever trust!
Q. hi all this is a long one so here we go,i meet this girl about 16 months ago by the way im 48 shes 45 around the same time i left my wife now ex-my girlfriend isn't exactly the honest type found out she was seeing here old boyfriend behind my back ...
A. 31 October 2009: well there you go, seems the fact you could trust your wife 100% didnt really mean much to you did it, if you could walk away from a 31 year relationship into, um, what exactly? Is it too late to crawl back to your wife on your belly and ask fo... (read in full...)
I want her but she doesn't even have feelings for me...
Q. Hello, I am 16, and I am in love with one of my close friends. we live about an hour apart by public transportation, and we've only seen each other once. We met about 5 months ago, and she has been hurting me unintentionally for many months now. ...
A. 31 October 2009: The best thing you can do is accept this girl doesnt have any feelings for you and move on. As you have only ever met once I am going to assume your relationship blossomed to a point of best friends online.
I think this girl has you hooked i... (read in full...)
Is this something she needs to get out of her system?
Q. Hi my name is Luke i am 21 almost 22 i have been with a girl for four years next month she is 20. we don't live together because she is not ready to move out. So i stay at her house 3-4 nights a week and she stays at mine once a week. (We live 20-30 ...
A. 4 June 2009: Luke
she was 16 when you started going together, and you only 18, a pair of very young adults with years of growing, learning and developing in front of you. Have you considered that maybe you have grown apart, that the relationship may have run... (read in full...)
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